Approaching is the only way

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Won't be the most popular of threads for sure but, in my opinion, it's the brutal truth.

Face it .. we average looking / mildly decent looking guys are going to get jack-shit online nowadays and things are only going to get worse.

  • 99% of men are too scared to approach. You will stand out by far in a woman's mind and gain points for bravery.
  • Women crave a real romantic encounter, even more so in this digitized world.
  • I think men look better in real life than on our photos
  • We can convey more positive attributes than with photos. If you're tall, wearing nice clothes - On Tinder you get 0.0002 seconds of a Foids attention span to make an impression with one single photo.
  • You've already met her and put her mind at ease! Women are nervous about meeting random men online (even chads) so you cut through all the online shit testing and comforting crap
Not all women are on Tinder. Yes it's true, and it took a while for me to get to grips of this fact.
Put your Tinder location in a city of 20,000 people.. and you'll run out of females to swipe on in a few hundred.

I have approached women about 12 times in my whole entire life (i'm oldcel) and i've gotten laid once but i didn't even follow through with most of em

In my Ukranian thread, i made a post about the girl i met on the bus.. things went well, I got her FB contact but I never even messaged her. I Couldn't be bothered.
My Cristina thread .. a great story, she was friendly.. I was too scared to ask her for her details but I'm certain I would have gotten them.

Don't get me wrong.. PUA / Pickup is complete horseshit.
Be half-decent looking and a nice friendly person and you're good to go.
 
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I'm autistic and ugly
 
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Not all are on tinder. But ALL are on instagram. Social media profiles were always the real 'dating apps', not actual dating apps. This includes facebook.

The western women does not give a fuck about romanticism in any way. They crave attention and their stomachs are a bottomless pit for it.
So basically you use things like tinder to funnel foids to your fb or insta.
 
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Over for me.
 
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Mr_Norwood said:
I think men look better in real life than on our photos
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This is 100% true, main takeaway from the thread is to get a professional camera
 
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approach me in asda and i kill u
 
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I support this thread
 
I disagree heavily, I just looksmax and hope some foid ever approaches me, prob wont happen but whatever, also approaching is beta as fuck, dont do it. Plus it is a big time waster. Time you could be spending doing something more useful, socializing, whatever.
Mr_Norwood said:
Won't be the most popular of threads for sure but, in my opinion, it's the brutal truth.

Face it .. we average looking / mildly decent looking guys are going to get jack-shit online nowadays and things are only going to get worse.

  • 99% of men are too scared to approach. You will stand out by far in a woman's mind and gain points for bravery.
  • Women crave a real romantic encounter, even more so in this digitized world.
  • I think men look better in real life than on our photos
  • We can convey more positive attributes than with photos. If you're tall, wearing nice clothes - On Tinder you get 0.0002 seconds of a Foids attention span to make an impression with one single photo.
  • You've already met her and put her mind at ease! Women are nervous about meeting random men online (even chads) so you cut through all the online shit testing and comforting crap
Not all women are on Tinder. Yes it's true, and it took a while for me to get to grips of this fact.
Put your Tinder location in a city of 20,000 people.. and you'll run out of females to swipe on in a few hundred.

I have approached women about 12 times in my whole entire life (i'm oldcel) and i've gotten laid once but i didn't even follow through with most of em

In my Ukranian thread, i made a post about the girl i met on the bus.. things went well, I got her FB contact but I never even messaged her. I Couldn't be bothered.
My Cristina thread .. a great story, she was friendly.. I was too scared to ask her for her details but I'm certain I would have gotten them.

Don't get me wrong.. PUA / Pickup is complete horseshit.
Be half-decent looking and a nice friendly person and you're good to go.
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Foids don't give a rats ass about your bravery. Behavior is cope, its all looks.
 
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i got approached by 2-3 chicks this year but yea i can agree that approaching them yourself is much better than writing them online or waiting for them. approached my gf 3 years ago and she said i sticked out cuz nobody ever approached her but shr got like 10 thirsty guys in her instagram dms daily
 
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Jfl if you approach in 2019. If you are not successful on dating apps you won't be irl.

You don't look better irl. In fact, you probably look worse. Everyone looks better in frauded cherrypicked pictures.

It's especially over if you're not tall.
 
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63700

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if you have a big erect dick while aproaching (big bulge) then yeah i agree it works
 
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Just get accused of sexual harrasment theory.
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i mean you do NOT take notice of that you let her see it by herself as long as you are not touching her with it
i dont see a way see could accuse you of anything
 
approaching is cope, tinder is real life, and its ove
 
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if you have to approach, its over.
 
Just flip coins theory
 
It's the only way in 2019
 
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approaches me AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
 
What are the types of stuff you say when you approach? Just wondering. You seem to know what you’re doing,
 
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What are the types of stuff you say when you approach? Just wondering. You seem to know what you’re doing,
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“fancy going down asdas for a curry?”
 
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Mr_Norwood said:
Won't be the most popular of threads for sure but, in my opinion, it's the brutal truth.

Face it .. we average looking / mildly decent looking guys are going to get jack-shit online nowadays and things are only going to get worse.

  • 99% of men are too scared to approach. You will stand out by far in a woman's mind and gain points for bravery.
  • Women crave a real romantic encounter, even more so in this digitized world.
  • I think men look better in real life than on our photos
  • We can convey more positive attributes than with photos. If you're tall, wearing nice clothes - On Tinder you get 0.0002 seconds of a Foids attention span to make an impression with one single photo.
  • You've already met her and put her mind at ease! Women are nervous about meeting random men online (even chads) so you cut through all the online shit testing and comforting crap
Not all women are on Tinder. Yes it's true, and it took a while for me to get to grips of this fact.
Put your Tinder location in a city of 20,000 people.. and you'll run out of females to swipe on in a few hundred.

I have approached women about 12 times in my whole entire life (i'm oldcel) and i've gotten laid once but i didn't even follow through with most of em

In my Ukranian thread, i made a post about the girl i met on the bus.. things went well, I got her FB contact but I never even messaged her. I Couldn't be bothered.
My Cristina thread .. a great story, she was friendly.. I was too scared to ask her for her details but I'm certain I would have gotten them.

Don't get me wrong.. PUA / Pickup is complete horseshit.
Be half-decent looking and a nice friendly person and you're good to go.
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Don't see anyone ever approaching in the UK. All people in relationships around me are social circle gains.
 
Wool said:
Don't see anyone ever approaching in the UK. All people in relationships around me are social circle gains.
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It only works in extroverted cultures. If anywhere.
 
jm10 said:
It only works in extroverted cultures. If anywhere.
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OP is from UK though. He lives near me aswell from his pics. If that is him.
 
you got to have god tier social iq though
 
Mr_Norwood said:
Won't be the most popular of threads for sure but, in my opinion, it's the brutal truth.

Face it .. we average looking / mildly decent looking guys are going to get jack-shit online nowadays and things are only going to get worse.

  • 99% of men are too scared to approach. You will stand out by far in a woman's mind and gain points for bravery.
  • Women crave a real romantic encounter, even more so in this digitized world.
  • I think men look better in real life than on our photos
  • We can convey more positive attributes than with photos. If you're tall, wearing nice clothes - On Tinder you get 0.0002 seconds of a Foids attention span to make an impression with one single photo.
  • You've already met her and put her mind at ease! Women are nervous about meeting random men online (even chads) so you cut through all the online shit testing and comforting crap
Not all women are on Tinder. Yes it's true, and it took a while for me to get to grips of this fact.
Put your Tinder location in a city of 20,000 people.. and you'll run out of females to swipe on in a few hundred.

I have approached women about 12 times in my whole entire life (i'm oldcel) and i've gotten laid once but i didn't even follow through with most of em

In my Ukranian thread, i made a post about the girl i met on the bus.. things went well, I got her FB contact but I never even messaged her. I Couldn't be bothered.
My Cristina thread .. a great story, she was friendly.. I was too scared to ask her for her details but I'm certain I would have gotten them.

Don't get me wrong.. PUA / Pickup is complete horseshit.
Be half-decent looking and a nice friendly person and you're good to go.
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:soy::bluepill:
 
APRROACHING IS THE WAY TO JAIL AS A SUB6
 
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What are the types of stuff you say when you approach? Just wondering. You seem to know what you’re doing,
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It's incredibly simple... say whatever you feel like and be kind and polite and you won't have problems

The only time i had a bad experience was when I was sat on a long distance train. I got the "I have a boyfriend" line. I had acne on my face..
This must have been about 2009, and i don't blame her.
 
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Mr_Norwood said:
It's incredibly simple... say whatever you feel like and be kind and polite and you won't have problems

The only time i had a bad experience was when I was sat on a long distance train. I got the "I have a boyfriend" line. I had acne on my face..
This must have been about 2009, and i don't blame her.
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Do you work at that asda, in the pic you posted before.
 
Wool said:
Do you work at that asda, in the pic you posted before.
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No.. I'm 33. If I was working in a supermarket I would have hanged myself already.
 
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