Are most men on the inceldom spectrum?

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No.
 
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probably 90% yes
 
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no most men have sex
 
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overpopulation wouldnt be a problem if most men were incels
 
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no most men have sex
But are they truly desired like Chad is?

That’s the real valuable metric imo. People get too caught up on the strict definition of incel
 
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Overpopulation isn’t an issue in the west. Quite the opposite infact
this is true, but that is largely contributed by other factors aswell. the point is, is that most men do have sex yes. are they all going with high quality women? no. do the women they have sex with (for the sub5's and normies) wish they had a hotter guy? most likely. but people are having sex and it doesnt take a genius to figure that out. the problem is, is that social media and things like this make people a lot more reclusive, so there will obviously be dips in these statistics if people are not even connecting with eachother/leaving the house
 
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this is true, but that is largely contributed by other factors aswell. the point is, is that most men do have sex yes. are they all going with high quality women? no. do the women they have sex with (for the sub5's and normies) wish they had a hotter guy? most likely. but people are having sex and it doesnt take a genius to figure that out. the problem is, is that social media and things like this make people a lot more reclusive, so there will obviously be dips in these statistics if people are not even connecting with eachother/leaving the house
So I could just be bluepilled, go to bars and hookup with women just like that?
 
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So I could just be bluepilled, go to bars and hookup with women just like that?
depends how creepy you are. most people would rank me hltn-lmtn, and ive slept with some pretty hot girls from the club (mtb+) so from my experience, yes. although again you cant just be a weirdo right, you need to be nt, and dont expect to be slaying consistently/stacies, youre gonna have to put in some work and get lucky
 
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depends how creepy you are. most people would rank me hltn-lmtn, and ive slept with some pretty hot girls from the club (mtb+) so from my experience, yes. although again you cant just be a weirdo right, you need to be nt, and dont expect to be slaying consistently/stacies, youre gonna have to put in some work and get lucky
What about height. It seems to me that being 5’10+ is a necessary prerequisite for slaying.
 
5’7. 5’8-5’9 with shoes
yeah you can slay with that height, again just dont expect to bag some insane clunge, and it also depends how ugly you are, if youre bottom of the barrel greaseball no one will even come near you right, better not to go at that point. but if youre looking pretty decent nothing crazy you wont have problems its just about being NT and approachable
 
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yeah you can slay with that height, again just dont expect to bag some insane clunge, and it also depends how ugly you are, if youre bottom of the barrel greaseball no one will even come near you right, better not to go at that point. but if youre looking pretty decent nothing crazy you wont have problems its just about being NT and approachable
I’m in the mtn range
 
How? Doesn’t that go against the blackpill?
Blackpill is for life and long-term. Any woman can just date or fuck an ugly guy but that doesn't mean she likes him or finds him attractive. She can always cheat or leave him for a more attractive man.
 
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But are they truly desired like Chad is?

That’s the real valuable metric imo. People get too caught up on the strict definition of incel
I used to think like that too, but to be honest, who tf cares

as long as you're not a subservient submissive cuck to your partner it doesnt matter, just fuck her and keep building your life and have fun doing what makes you happy, your life shouldn't be about your partner, it should be about building

This happens to like 80% of men as agepill hits, and the only marriages that stay together are the niggas who dgaf, instead of saying "why dont you love me anymore"
 
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What would you consider a 4?
1766013055924

those 2 White dudes are 5 prob
 
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I used to think like that too, but to be honest, who tf cares

as long as you're not a subservient submissive cuck to your partner it doesnt matter, just fuck her and keep building your life and have fun doing what makes you happy, your life shouldn't be about your partner, it should be about building

This happens to like 80% of men as agepill hits, and the only marriages that stay together are the niggas who dgaf, instead of saying "why dont you love me anymore"
Taken the oofy doofy pill now have we? Suit yourself
 
Taken the oofy doofy pill now have we? Suit yourself
not even close

My point is, men should work on building empires and doing cool shit, rather than caring about if your wife is attracted to you
 
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not even close

My point is, men should work on building empires and doing cool shit, rather than caring about if your wife is attracted to you
There’s a lot that could be said about this but honestly brah I can’t be assed go build ur empire have fun good luck
 
this is true, but that is largely contributed by other factors aswell. the point is, is that most men do have sex yes. are they all going with high quality women? no. do the women they have sex with (for the sub5's and normies) wish they had a hotter guy? most likely. but people are having sex and it doesnt take a genius to figure that out. the problem is, is that social media and things like this make people a lot more reclusive, so there will obviously be dips in these statistics if people are not even connecting with eachother/leaving the house

I don't get the bolded part. Both men and women want to be with very attractive people. Does the average joe prefer to fuck some average jane instead of a victoria secret supermodel? Of course not. Would he ditch his mediocre wife if such an opportunity appeared? Of course. Is the average joe attracted to some average jane to the same extent he is attracted to a victoria secret supermodel? Obviously not, it's not even close.
 
What is the inceldom spectrum
 
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I don't get the bolded part. Both men and women want to be with very attractive people. Does the average joe prefer to fuck some average jane instead of a victoria secret supermodel? Of course not. Would he ditch his mediocre wife if such an opportunity appeared? Of course. Is the average joe attracted to some average jane to the same extent he is attracted to a victoria secret supermodel? Obviously not, it's not even close.
well yes ofcourse, but men are the disadvantaged ones for the most part (sub 5's and normies in particular) and would on average be more likely to settle than a lot of women these days, especially of the gen-z generation. the question was about male incel-dom, so thats why i gave this example, ofcourse it goes both ways thats just human nature. also as i mentioned social media has a huge influence for whats happening these days, after all there wouldnt be such divide in dating apps, porn addiction etc. if this wasnt the case and more problematic on the male side of things.
 
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Depends on how you define "inceldom spectrum." If you mean like being able to get into a relationship or land dates then no, but if you mean finding true reciprocal love (through a loyal relationship) then perhaps.
 
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Based on everything I’ve seen in life, most men are settled for, not desired. And settled for through social attraction rather than looks based physical attraction. And settled into dead bedroom, boring, high cheating risk relationships. And if they didn’t have whatever money or social thing that makes women wanna settle for them, they would be just about hopeless.

For it to be better than inceldom you have to really want kids and also be able to role play in ways that knowing some black pill stuff might make incongruent.
 
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Based on everything I’ve seen in life, most men are settled for, not desired. And settled for through social attraction rather than looks based physical attraction. And settled into dead bedroom, boring, high cheating risk relationships. And if they didn’t have whatever money or social thing that makes women wanna settle for them, they would be just about hopeless.

For it to be better than inceldom you have to really want kids and also be able to role play in ways that knowing some black pill stuff might make incongruent.
100% agree with this.

Forget involuntarily celibate, most men are involuntarily undesired.
Most men are sexually tolerated, but not chosen. That’s why dead bedrooms aren’t an anomaly, they’re the equilibrium.

It shows how attraction is asymmetric and ruthless, while social systems exist to paper over that reality so things keep functioning. Most men escape inceldom by stepping sideways into a role where desire is no longer the metric. They trade erotic polarity for social continuity.

This is the real spectrum that people miss here: it's not sex vs no sex, but being wanted vs being useful. And most men live on the useful side, convincing themselves it’s the same thing.
 
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Almost all men are fucking ugly, no wonder women (all ages) are glazing 6'2 htn like me like crazy,
when they see actual semi-fuckable guy they regret all their 'cope' life decisions
 
Based on everything I’ve seen in life, most men are settled for, not desired. And settled for through social attraction rather than looks based physical attraction. And settled into dead bedroom, boring, high cheating risk relationships. And if they didn’t have whatever money or social thing that makes women wanna settle for them, they would be just about hopeless.

For it to be better than inceldom you have to really want kids and also be able to role play in ways that knowing some black pill stuff might make incongruent.
100%
 
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I'll say more, Stacies are settling for fucking mtn's all the time & make subpar children / tired from 24/7 attention, they need to cope with a 'purpose' following the script
I only go for alt fucked up girls / or introverted to the core now, there is no cope with an NT one
 
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