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Hi! Hope your day is going good
I consider myself an objectively average-looking guy, and people on this forum seem to agree. However, I've always had an easy time with girls even though I've never ever put forth any effort (they always approach me and show effort instead). And what really perplexes me is that people, in real life that is, always seem to compliment my face and body out-of-the-blue. They call me handsome, very cute, beautiful, and sometimes intimidating. When I was around 16 during my first appointment with my physiotherapist, the first thing she said to me was, "WOAH, you are so handsome" and seemed shocked like she saw a ghost. My current girlfriend (and exes plus ons) tells me she is almost stunned sometimes how good I look and blushes etc, and that she is happy that she finally gets to date a "conventionally attractive, sexy" man. "I didn't know sex was this good, and I want it all the time with you; I've never felt like this before". I have countless examples throughout my life.
With all of this in mind, how come I never see what they see, and that you fine people on here class me as an average-to-below-average-looking guy? It's two conflicting realities, and I think this is due to us on this forum having outlandish standards.
TLDR:
Irl people find me "very handsome" and my multitude of girls is a testament to thus, but I don't see it and neither do people on this forum. Could this be due to us having almost absurd standards, and thus we judge anything that deviates from it as "not good"?
Thank you for reading!
I consider myself an objectively average-looking guy, and people on this forum seem to agree. However, I've always had an easy time with girls even though I've never ever put forth any effort (they always approach me and show effort instead). And what really perplexes me is that people, in real life that is, always seem to compliment my face and body out-of-the-blue. They call me handsome, very cute, beautiful, and sometimes intimidating. When I was around 16 during my first appointment with my physiotherapist, the first thing she said to me was, "WOAH, you are so handsome" and seemed shocked like she saw a ghost. My current girlfriend (and exes plus ons) tells me she is almost stunned sometimes how good I look and blushes etc, and that she is happy that she finally gets to date a "conventionally attractive, sexy" man. "I didn't know sex was this good, and I want it all the time with you; I've never felt like this before". I have countless examples throughout my life.
With all of this in mind, how come I never see what they see, and that you fine people on here class me as an average-to-below-average-looking guy? It's two conflicting realities, and I think this is due to us on this forum having outlandish standards.
TLDR:
Irl people find me "very handsome" and my multitude of girls is a testament to thus, but I don't see it and neither do people on this forum. Could this be due to us having almost absurd standards, and thus we judge anything that deviates from it as "not good"?
Thank you for reading!