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Lawton88
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Seeing a ton of these videos with women complaining about men not taking them out to an expensive restaurant etc on a first meetup. Also a bunch where guys are saying not to do that crap anymore unless you see there is clear interest after a first meet up.
I have noticed guys (except the occasional Chadlites and tall HTN) have pretty much quit any cold approaching at the bars I go to sometimes and even then the females showed clear interest. The women getting free drinks from suckers has really went down and some nights I don't remember seeing it at all unless the woman was clearly showing interest in the guy. A year or so ago I can't count the times I saw a guy buy a woman a drink only to be ignored quickly afterwards for being a sucker.
I hope this is a trend that keeps building because a lot of these women are just using men for a fancy meal to talk about on social media when they know their is no interest on their part. If she won't meet at a coffee shop or a bar over a couple of drinks it 100% shows there is no real attraction there and your best case scenario is she is just digging for gold. Now that many HTNs and a few normies are doing this it is definitely pissing a lot of them off.