are we all incels

[jesuischriste]

I went on incels.is cause why not . looksmax.me has realllllly similar layouts so?

 

[YoungJohnnyDepp]

No I'd say they're wanna be famous ppl here

 

[Lux]

Most of the users here are too young to really call themselves incels & plenty of slayers so no. The layout is because the sites both use xenforo.

 

[randomuser2407]

Most of the users here are too young to really call themselves incels & plenty of slayers so no. The layout is because the sites both use xenforo.

No, the reason why the layout is similar is because both sites are owned by @Sergeant

There are lots of sites that use Xenforo, those 2 sites aren't unique in that regard.

The difference between incels.is and looksmax is mainly the fact that incels.is is about hate and self pity while looksmax is about self improvement, trolling and mocking people who look ugly. So, compared to incels.is , looksmax is the best site if you're trying to improve your looks. incels.is is for those who have already given up.

Also, being young has nothing to do with being unable to get laid. A guy who can't get laid at 16 won't be able to get laid more when he gets older, that is just a lie that virgins tell themselves to give themselves to feel better (what we call "coping" here).

If you're 16 and can't get laid, the only solution is to fix your looks, if you don't do that, you waste your time and since beauty only fades as we get older, if you get lazy during your teens and 20s, you'll grow up to be an oldcel (40+ year old virgin). I am guilty of making that mistake for a long time, I created excuses to explain my mistakes and failures instead of putting in the effort to actually fix things, I got lazy during my late teens and early 20s, and as a result, I am 22 and I don't look like I lift.

I'm not an incel by any means, but I could have done far more during the past couple of years. The only thing that I accomplished is my jaw surgery that I got in 2018, that improved my looks a lot but not nearly enough to give me the amount of sexual success that I want.

 

[Deleted member 6380]

No, the reason why the layout is similar is because both sites are owned by @Sergeant

There are lots of sites that use Xenforo, those 2 sites aren't unique in that regard.

The difference between incels.is and looksmax is mainly the fact that incels.is is about hate and self pity while looksmax is about self improvement, trolling and mocking people who look ugly. So, compared to incels.is , looksmax is the best site if you're trying to improve your looks. incels.is is for those who have already given up.

Also, being young has nothing to do with being unable to get laid. A guy who can't get laid at 16 won't be able to get laid more when he gets older, that is just a lie that virgins tell themselves to give themselves to feel better (what we call "coping" here).

If you're 16 and can't get laid, the only solution is to fix your looks, if you don't do that, you waste your time and since beauty only fades as we get older, if you get lazy during your teens and 20s, you'll grow up to be an oldcel (40+ year old virgin). I am guilty of making that mistake for a long time, I created excuses to explain my mistakes and failures instead of putting in the effort to actually fix things, I got lazy during my late teens and early 20s, and as a result, I am 22 and I don't look like I lift.

I'm not an incel by any means, but I could have done far more during the past couple of years. The only thing that I accomplished is my jaw surgery that I got in 2018, that improved my looks a lot but not nearly enough to give me the amount of sexual success that I want.

MY NIGGA? hahahaha

This is the essay they talk about


Anyway, when will you become a muslim scholar writing beautiful essays?

 

[SexuallyAbusive]

we are all cheeseburgers

 

[recessed]

im an incel since corona started

 

[randomuser2407]

im an incel since corona started

I'm the same. The only way I could do well on online dating is by being gymmaxxed, I'm working on it right now but I know that the pandemic will most likely end before I am gymmaxxed enough. In real life, without muscles, I wasn't slaying by any means but I had lots of opportunities with women that I took for granted. Now I have no opportunities at all. Gymmaxxing works as a backup plan in case the pandemic lasts longer and it will allow me to slay IRL.

 

[Deleted member 4386]

I'm the same. The only way I could do well on online dating is by being gymmaxxed, I'm working on it right now but I know that the pandemic will most likely end before I am gymmaxxed enough. In real life, without muscles, I wasn't slaying by any means but I had lots of opportunities with women that I took for granted. Now I have no opportunities at all. Gymmaxxing works as a backup plan in case the pandemic lasts longer and it will allow me to slay IRL.

the problem you have is that you're autistic.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

the problem you have is that you're autistic.

Fat mood honestly

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

No, the reason why the layout is similar is because both sites are owned by @Sergeant

There are lots of sites that use Xenforo, those 2 sites aren't unique in that regard.

The difference between incels.is and looksmax is mainly the fact that incels.is is about hate and self pity while looksmax is about self improvement, trolling and mocking people who look ugly. So, compared to incels.is , looksmax is the best site if you're trying to improve your looks. incels.is is for those who have already given up.

Also, being young has nothing to do with being unable to get laid. A guy who can't get laid at 16 won't be able to get laid more when he gets older, that is just a lie that virgins tell themselves to give themselves to feel better (what we call "coping" here).

If you're 16 and can't get laid, the only solution is to fix your looks, if you don't do that, you waste your time and since beauty only fades as we get older, if you get lazy during your teens and 20s, you'll grow up to be an oldcel (40+ year old virgin). I am guilty of making that mistake for a long time, I created excuses to explain my mistakes and failures instead of putting in the effort to actually fix things, I got lazy during my late teens and early 20s, and as a result, I am 22 and I don't look like I lift.

I'm not an incel by any means, but I could have done far more during the past couple of years. The only thing that I accomplished is my jaw surgery that I got in 2018, that improved my looks a lot but not nearly enough to give me the amount of sexual success that I want.

Your last paragraph speaks volumes. A painful lesson is that plastic surgery isn't that helpful. Fitness is king.

 

[pizza]

we are all cheeseburgers

cope im pizza

 

[randomuser2407]

Your last paragraph speaks volumes. A painful lesson is that plastic surgery isn't that helpful. Fitness is king.

It depends on how you look like. Fixing facial deformities should be priority #1. But if you have a normie level of looks with a good jaw, then gymmaxxing will be the best option for most people. It is not that plastic surgeries aren't effective but usually, to see a huge improvement, you need more than one surgery, so it can cost a lot of money, a lot more than most people can afford, so in the meantime, gymmaxxing is the best solution.

And, some men are just not meant to slay, such men should just be content with a good relationship because although women do have a dual mating strategy, it doesn't mean that they're just dating men for emotional support. A relationship provides both sex and pair bonding (what normies call love) while hookups are just about sex.

Relationships require a very big commitment and are more risky but way easier to accomplish for most men, while hookups require no commitment, are way less risky but are very difficult to accomplish for most men.

Since my jaw surgery (in July 2018), I already had the opportunity to get into relationships, I just couldn't have walked into a bar or a club and gotten some hookups, simply because I lack the sex appeal to be considered as hookup material. Right now I am gymmaxxing to gain enough sex appeal to be able to hookup easily in real life and on online dating apps like Tinder.

However, even men who can only get into relationships can avoid commitment, you just have to get laid with a woman that you're dating and then say you're not interested and date another woman and repeat the process. By doing this, guys who aren't hookup material could hookup within 1-3 dates. I would do that if I still had opportunities with women but the quarantine took that away from me. If I am not done gymmaxxing by the time the quarantine ends, I will pump and dump women who like me while still gymmaxxing.

Most men who have opportunities with women but lack the sex appeal to hookup can do the same thing. You don't have to be able to slay to get laid often, you just have to avoid relationships while taking advantage of every opportunity that you get.

 

[Deleted member 756]

@higgabigga thoughts?

 

[randomuser2407]

the problem you have is that you're autistic.

I'm not autistic, I have ADHD.

Autistic people are unable to detect social cues, so they can't socialize with normal people, which forces them to be alone.
I'm not like that since I have some friends but my ADHD makes me distracted so much that I can only focus on the things that I really like, and if stop being interested in something, I stop doing it completely.

The reason why I didn't talk to the women who liked me is because I don't want to be in a relationship and I thought that by showing interest, I would eventually end up in one. What I didn't realize at the time though is that nothing forces me to commit to a woman, and sex should come before commitment, not after, otherwise you're just a beta provider/cuck.

So, knowing what I know now, the next time I meet a girl who likes me, I'll talk to her and then ask her out on a date, only to lead things up to sex, then, as long as I am getting as much sex as I want, I'll keep seeing her, but when she starts to withdraw the sex and ask for commitment, that is when I'll dump her only to repeat the same process with another girl. I'll do this while I looksmax.

By doing this, over the next couple of years, I'll get a laid a lot, and once my looks are good enough, I'll be able to get laid from bars, clubs and even dating apps like Tinder. The difference is that now I know I am not forced to commit to a girl that I have sex with, I can treat her based on how she treats me, and as long as I never commit, I am free to leave whenever I want, and that is the secret that I was looking for for many years.

 

[Deleted member 2729]

Your last paragraph speaks volumes. A painful lesson is that plastic surgery isn't that helpful. Fitness is king.

just go to the gym bro

 

[grimy]

No but we surely are mentally ill browsing a board that worships male models all day.

 

[Deleted member 12611]

I'm the same. The only way I could do well on online dating is by being gymmaxxed, I'm working on it right now but I know that the pandemic will most likely end before I am gymmaxxed enough. In real life, without muscles, I wasn't slaying by any means but I had lots of opportunities with women that I took for granted. Now I have no opportunities at all. Gymmaxxing works as a backup plan in case the pandemic lasts longer and it will allow me to slay IRL.

Gymmaxxing is essential for slaying on dating apps as a man. Having an attractive face is not enough.

 

[Deleted member 5746]

I'm not autistic, I have ADHD.

Autistic people are unable to detect social cues, so they can't socialize with normal people, which forces them to be alone.
I'm not like that since I have some friends but my ADHD makes me distracted so much that I can only focus on the things that I really like, and if stop being interested in something, I stop doing it completely.

The reason why I didn't talk to the women who liked me is because I don't want to be in a relationship and I thought that by showing interest, I would eventually end up in one. What I didn't realize at the time though is that nothing forces me to commit to a woman, and sex should come before commitment, not after, otherwise you're just a beta provider/cuck.

So, knowing what I know now, the next time I meet a girl who likes me, I'll talk to her and then ask her out on a date, only to lead things up to sex, then, as long as I am getting as much sex as I want, I'll keep seeing her, but when she starts to withdraw the sex and ask for commitment, that is when I'll dump her only to repeat the same process with another girl. I'll do this while I looksmax.

By doing this, over the next couple of years, I'll get a laid a lot, and once my looks are good enough, I'll be able to get laid from bars, clubs and even dating apps like Tinder. The difference is that now I know I am not forced to commit to a girl that I have sex with, I can treat her based on how she treats me, and as long as I never commit, I am free to leave whenever I want, and that is the secret that I was looking for for many years.

Tales from the back of the short bus

 

[Deleted member 12611]

Gymmaxxing is essential for slaying on dating apps as a man. Having an attractive face is not enough.

Though face to face, face > everything else.

 

[mogstar]

No, the reason why the layout is similar is because both sites are owned by @Sergeant

There are lots of sites that use Xenforo, those 2 sites aren't unique in that regard.

The difference between incels.is and looksmax is mainly the fact that incels.is is about hate and self pity while looksmax is about self improvement, trolling and mocking people who look ugly. So, compared to incels.is , looksmax is the best site if you're trying to improve your looks. incels.is is for those who have already given up.

Also, being young has nothing to do with being unable to get laid. A guy who can't get laid at 16 won't be able to get laid more when he gets older, that is just a lie that virgins tell themselves to give themselves to feel better (what we call "coping" here).

If you're 16 and can't get laid, the only solution is to fix your looks, if you don't do that, you waste your time and since beauty only fades as we get older, if you get lazy during your teens and 20s, you'll grow up to be an oldcel (40+ year old virgin). I am guilty of making that mistake for a long time, I created excuses to explain my mistakes and failures instead of putting in the effort to actually fix things, I got lazy during my late teens and early 20s, and as a result, I am 22 and I don't look like I lift.

I'm not an incel by any means, but I could have done far more during the past couple of years. The only thing that I accomplished is my jaw surgery that I got in 2018, that improved my looks a lot but not nearly enough to give me the amount of sexual success that I want.

How are u khhv at 22 years of age and don’t consider yourself to be an incel ?

 

[randomuser2407]

How are u khhv at 22 years of age and don’t consider yourself to be an incel ?

Because I had many opportunities to succeed with women and I wasted them because I don't want a relationship.

I want to get laid yes, but I don't want to be in a committed relationship because I know that love isn't real and it isn't everlasting unlike what everyone in my family tries to tell me. I wasted my opportunities with women by showing disinterest because I thought I would have to get into a relationship with them.

What I didn't realize is that I could have dated them just to have sex then I could have told them that I wasn't looking for a relationship.

Also, I'm not KHHV, I hugged a hot 25 year old 6 foot tall girl back when I had an underbite at 18 years old, even then I had opportunities. Most guys here underestimate how useful being tall really is. I am not a Chad by any means but my height gave me so many opportunities, that my brother who looks very much like me, has never gotten, simply because he is only 5 foot 9 in height.
In fact, he had to settle for a 2/10 girl of only 5 feet tall because she was his only option, which he got through his vast social circle.
I have only 2 close friends that I rarely ever see and I got many opportunities while never going out on Friday or Saturday night, and never being introduced to anyone. Height matters far more than you people will ever realize.

It was only after the beginning of the quarantine that I realized that I could hookup with the women who like me without committing to them, but by then, it was too late. Now I get no opportunities at all because I never go out because all the bars and clubs are closed in my area and there are no events either. If there was no quarantine, I would go to events to increase my chances of meeting women and I would have a lot more opportunities than before, enough to get laid regularly.

Some people have mentioned Tinder many times but in my case, with my skinny body, it isn't an option since my height isn't visible on pictures and I don't have access to good locations and events to take NT pictures. When I take pictures alone, I look creepy and weird which gives me very few matches that don't lead anywhere. Right now, I am voluntarily celibate but involuntarily a virgin because of the pandemic, I am being cucked by a virus, it's that bad. If the pandemic lasts too long, it doesn't matter because I'll be gymmaxxed in around 3 years and in just 1 year, my physique may be good enough for Tinder.

 

[EverythingMaxxer]

I’m not incel, I have sex regularly and can get girls pretty easily. The reason I’m here is the same reason I study self improvement elsewhere. I am obsessed with bettering myself and want to be as close to perfect as I can be. This will bring me more confidence, success and happiness in life.

 

[BigBoy]

No, just me

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

just go to the gym bro

If I told 15 year old me the women I would be able to fuck years later I would have told myself to fuck off.

 

[Deleted member 2729]

If I told 15 year old me the women I would be able to fuck years later I would have told myself to fuck off.

Cool but doesn't apply to most of the genetic trash posting here. gym is such a normie advice who hasn't already gymmaxxed is not even trying but jfl it won't save non normies

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

Cool but doesn't apply to most of the genetic trash posting here. gym is such a normie advice who hasn't already gymmaxxed is not even trying but jfl it won't save non normies

90% of the people who post pictures of themselves complaining about being an incel are fat or dyel.

 

[Deleted member 5185]

Cool but doesn't apply to most of the genetic trash posting here. gym is such a normie advice who hasn't already gymmaxxed is not even trying but jfl it won't save non normies

legit 99% of people going to the gym get zero results lmao. Truly gym maxxing the right way is rare as fuk, especially when it comes to coping reets on this board who thinks their best bet is surgery lmfao

 

[Deleted member 12857]

tbh id identify as a half incel im sure there's some term for it but i can attract women i do it all the time out at the mall but i cant seem to persure them idk i just cant get out the talking stage before i ghost im WeIrD lel