Argument w/ my Mom

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

I can't go a day without her cursing me out, yelling, screaming at the top of her lungs, locking me out the house for hours, slapping/punching me in the face. This has been happening on a weekly, often daily basis since I was like 13.
But now keeps on making fun of the fact I attempted suicide.

Tried an apology n too reason w/ her - This is how the dialogue went -

---

- "Yk I don't believe what I'm saying whenever I yell or curse you out? Its all out of spite;
Like when you - [ Mentioned time where she said all her children were worthless & wished they'd never been born ].
You don't actually believe or feel that way right?"

- "Well you [ Continues on rant & I cut her off ]

-"Yes or no"

- "In that moment, yes. I hated all of you."

- "Great, so outside of this & moments alike, you don't believe that right?"

- [ Condescending Tone ] "What don't you get?"

- "Again, You don't feel like way outside of those moments right?"

- Silence

---

After that I'm just shocked how narcy she really was. Just shows most people are just unfit to be a parent.

@imontheloose

 

[ragingmanlet]

whats stoppoing you from cutting her off?

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

whats stoppoing you from cutting her off?

I'm 16

 

[ragingmanlet]

I'm 16

understandable

i have the same issue

narcy parents are the worst

 

[snuggylion5]

Killing urself is pretty low t ngl

 

[sergdying]

Nigga is getting bitched by his own mother

Stand up bro

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

Nigga is getting bitched by his own mother

Stand up bro

Can't do much. She's threatened to call the police on me

 

[sergdying]

Can't do much

Defend yourself, legally she can't throw u out the house.

 

[Sovereign]

You need to report this to someone or move out ASAP. Wtf am I reading

 

[snuggylion5]

Can't do much. She's threatened to call the police on me

Ur 16 what are they gonna do if u stop her

 

[theblueprints]

Sorry to hear this bro

 

[ijustwannaascendlol]

understandable

i have the same issue

narcy parents are the worst

Nigga is 16

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

You need to report this to someone or move out ASAP. Wtf am I reading

Everyone else in my family is telling me to just cope n work around her

 

[sergdying]

Can't do much. She's threatened to call the police on me

what will police do tho?

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

as someone with a mean and cruel mother i 100% relate

the only advice i can give you is: save up and move out as soon as possible

people like her will never change their ways, they will always be like this. cut your losses and prepare to move out when you’re ready. start finding something to make money and save up. the more independent you are from her the better

 

[User28823]

BROOOO IGNORE THE DUMB BITCH N BLAST THIS IN UR ROOM WITH UR DOOR CLOSED TO AURA FARM

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

what will police do tho?

Im js afraid of the shit she'll say to them
She's lied to my own sibling n father, & friend's mothers just to get them to despise me

 

[Sovereign]

Everyone else in my family is telling me to just cope n work around her

If you can endure 1-2 more years, become indifferent to her and keep your space if possible, but is there someone else you trust who can help you? A teacher/counselor? Literally child abuse.

 

[sergdying]

Im js afraid of the shit she'll say to them
She's lied to my own sibling n father, & friend's mothers just to get them to despise me

Record her or something so you have evidence, don't be stupid, if you wanted change you would force change

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

as someone with a mean and cruel mother i 100% relate

the only advice i can give you is: save up and move out as soon as possible

people like her will never change their ways, they will always be like this. cut your losses and prepare to move out when you’re ready. start finding something to make money and save up. the more independent you are from her the better

She's completely obtuse to having me work or do anything productive which is weird to me.
I just tried to get her to sign me up for a Pharmaceutical Internship over them Summer. And she blew me off

[ I asked this since shes constant abt saying I dont do HW / focus on school ( I'm Triple AP, n Honors, & doing 3 Sports all Varsity ) ]

If It isn't HW, she'll yell about sports, if it isnt sports, she'll yell about my room, if nothing else, she'll insult me.

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

Record her or something so you have evidence, don't be stupid, if you wanted change you would force change

Rest of my family would hate me for going that far tbh

 

[sergdying]

Rest of my family would hate me for going that far tbh

Too high inhib son, caring about anything anyone says in the first place is high inhib

 

[ragingmanlet]

Nigga is 16

ok?

 

[rawr]

Nigga is 16

so?

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

She's completely obtuse to having me work or do anything productive which is weird to me.
I just tried to get her to sign me up for a Pharmaceutical Internship over them Summer. And she blew me off

[ I asked this since shes constant abt saying I dont do HW / focus on school ( I'm Triple AP, n Honors, & doing 3 Sports all Varsity ) ]

If It isn't HW, she'll yell about sports, if it isnt sports, she'll yell about my room, if nothing else, she'll insult me.

do we have the same mom lol?

i feel physically sick when i see her enter the room. like my stomach sinks in and i feel nauseous

i hate when she comes near me and stares at me with her big eyes, she always has something negative to say about me, the worst is the insults about my looks

i swear that woman has done more damage to my self esteem than any user on this site ever could

she’s a mean, cold hearted, witch. i really don’t like being related to her at all. i often dream about running away or wishing she was dead so that i could finally be free

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

do we have the same mom lol?

i feel physically sick when i see her enter the room. like my stomach sinks in and i feel nauseous

i hate when she comes near me and stares at me with her big eyes, she always has something negative to say about me, the worst is the insults about my looks

i swear that woman has done more damage to my self esteem than any user on this site ever could

she’s a mean, cold hearted, witch. i really don’t like being related to her at all. i often dream about running away or wishing she was dead so that i could finally be free

Same. But its her the voice for me.
Its everyday, the same condescending tone, constantly trying to make me feel like shit about anything & everything.
And the screaming, the yelling, etc. How could anybody tolerate this for as long as I have?
Sometimes I wonder how she dosent get tired of it

*How is your own mother making fun of your looks, shes half the reason as to why you look that way. Some people r just that retarded lol

 

[Daddy's Home]

Go see your doctor / school psychologist / call the child helpline in your country / talk to your homeroom teacher or a teacher you feel close to about this, and tell them in detail everything that’s happening; they will guide you on what to do next..

You can’t just accept being physically and psychologically abused, she will pay for all of this, what she's doing is extremely serious; you are an individual being, what she's doing is illegal

You’ll also need to undergo a period of therapy to try to get back to normal as much as possible after something like this..

These are extremely serious matters, and you need to act quickly for the sake of your health..

You’re only 16; life expectancy for men is around 76 years, so you have about 60 years left to live in this life, she will likely pass away within the next 20 to 30 years..

You need and deserve to live the rest of your life in a healthy and dignified way, and she has absolutely no right to change that

 

[ijustwannaascendlol]

ok?

so?

 

[GynoGladiator]

I'm 16

JoinedAug 13, 2023

mirin son

 

[ragingmanlet]

being a certain age is gay now???

 

[rawr]

 

[HardcoreLooksmaxxer]

I remember my mom told me to rope and I’m the same age as you and I literally start laughing because once you stop caring you see how stupid it is

 

[imontheloose]

After that I'm just shocked how narcy she really was. Just shows most people are just unfit to be a parent.

@

@imontheloose

having kids proactively causes a lifetime of suffering. its the worst crime one could do. there is no good parent; all share a baseline guilt for the act alone.

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

Go see your doctor / school psychologist / call the child helpline in your country / talk to your homeroom teacher or a teacher you feel close to about this, and tell them in detail everything that’s happening; they will guide you on what to do next..

You can’t just accept being physically and psychologically abused, she will pay for all of this, what she's doing is extremely serious; you are an individual being, what she's doing is illegal

You’ll also need to undergo a period of therapy to try to get back to normal as much as possible after something like this..

These are extremely serious matters, and you need to act quickly for the sake of your health..

If she does anything further than punching me in the face I'll take it further
It just dosen't seem like the other members of my family care to the extent they should. Like more people here care than them.
I just need something a bit more & I'll be content with going to the police. She's swerved the car back and forth in one of her tantrums before

You’re only 16; life expectancy for men is around 76 years, so you have about 60 years left to live in this life, she will likely pass away within the next 20 to 30 years..

You need and deserve to live the rest of your life in a healthy and dignified way, and she has absolutely no right to change that

I've been praying for it to be sooner. Sometimes I js wish bro. Appreciate you bhai

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

@Daddy's Home @Shrek2OnDvD @imontheloose

Thoughts on asking my dad to send me to Boarding School?

 

[imontheloose]

@Daddy's Home @Shrek2OnDvD @imontheloose

Thought's on asking my dad to send me to Boarding School?

i dont get y u dont just shotgun him? id shoot both of them n rape anyone else i see, crippling them for their lives. thats what ppl deserve for bringing this existence upon me.

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

@Daddy's Home @Shrek2OnDvD @imontheloose

Thoughts on asking my dad to send me to Boarding School?

reading about your mother, it seems like almost anything would be better than being around her

if i was you i would try to find one far away from her so physical contact is limited, try to disable all digital communication too

 

[Daddy's Home]

punching me in the face

WTF are I am reading, bro? She’s literally hitting you in the face, which is the most important part of your body..

What do you mean by “more”? Like, what do you expect her to do to you?

Just do what I told you, it doesn’t matter what the rest of the family does, since they’re easily manipulated by your mom. You need someone impartial to protect and guide you..

You are a minor; the government, the police and local authorities are there tp help and to support you.. you can't go on living like this.. She won't stop, and you know that; you need help; you're too young; you don't fully realize what's happening; you need adults to help you bro..

 

[LXR]

I can't go a day without her cursing me out, yelling, screaming at the top of her lungs, locking me out the house for hours, slapping/punching me in the face. This has been happening on a weekly, often daily basis since I was like 13.
But now keeps on making fun of the fact I attempted suicide.

Tried an apology n too reason w/ her - This is how the dialogue went -

---

- "Yk I don't believe what I'm saying whenever I yell or curse you out? Its all out of spite;
Like when you - [ Mentioned time where she said all her children were worthless & wished they'd never been born ].
You don't actually believe or feel that way right?"

- "Well you [ Continues on rant & I cut her off ]

-"Yes or no"

- "In that moment, yes. I hated all of you."

- "Great, so outside of this & moments alike, you don't believe that right?"

- [ Condescending Tone ] "What don't you get?"

- "Again, You don't feel like way outside of those moments right?"

- Silence

---

After that I'm just shocked how narcy she really was. Just shows most people are just unfit to be a parent.

@imontheloose

Never reason with an abusive parent. My parents used to beat me black and blue with steel utensils and it would sometimes make me bleed. The only language they understood was when I fought back. Your mom doesnt really give a fuck about you. If it is in her best interest to be nice to you, she will be nice to you. Everything is about how it benefits her.

 

[iblamexyz]

I can't go a day without her cursing me out, yelling, screaming at the top of her lungs, locking me out the house for hours, slapping/punching me in the face. This has been happening on a weekly, often daily basis since I was like 13.
But now keeps on making fun of the fact I attempted suicide.

Tried an apology n too reason w/ her - This is how the dialogue went -

---

- "Yk I don't believe what I'm saying whenever I yell or curse you out? Its all out of spite;
Like when you - [ Mentioned time where she said all her children were worthless & wished they'd never been born ].
You don't actually believe or feel that way right?"

- "Well you [ Continues on rant & I cut her off ]

-"Yes or no"

- "In that moment, yes. I hated all of you."

- "Great, so outside of this & moments alike, you don't believe that right?"

- [ Condescending Tone ] "What don't you get?"

- "Again, You don't feel like way outside of those moments right?"

- Silence

---

After that I'm just shocked how narcy she really was. Just shows most people are just unfit to be a parent.

@imontheloose

why are you roping b4 slaying an egirl are u sped?

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

Never reason with an abusive parent. My parents used to beat me black and blue with steel utensils and it would sometimes make me bleed. The only language they understood was when I fought back. Your mom doesnt really give a fuck about you. If it is in her best interest to be nice to you, she will be nice to you. Everything is about how it benefits her.

WTF are I am reading, bro? She’s literally hitting you in the face, which is the most important part of your body..

What do you mean by “more”? Like, what do you expect her to do to you?

Just do what I told you, it doesn’t matter what the rest of the family does, since they’re easily manipulated by your mom. You need someone impartial to protect and guide you..

You are a minor; the government, the police and local authorities are there tp help and to support you.. you can't go on living like this.. She won't stop, and you know that; you need help; you're too young; you don't fully realize what's happening; you need adults to help you bro..

reading about your mother, it seems like almost anything would be better than being around her

if i was you i would try to find one far away from her so physical contact is limited, try to disable all digital communication too

She keeps on persisting & trying to argue with me. Just happened 3 times today.
I think i'm starting to go insane.

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

She keeps on persisting & trying to argue with me. Just happened 3 times today.
I think i'm starting to go insane.

get away from her!

 

[sillybilly]

I can't go a day without her cursing me out, yelling, screaming at the top of her lungs, locking me out the house for hours, slapping/punching me in the face. This has been happening on a weekly, often daily basis since I was like 13.
But now keeps on making fun of the fact I attempted suicide.

Tried an apology n too reason w/ her - This is how the dialogue went -

---

- "Yk I don't believe what I'm saying whenever I yell or curse you out? Its all out of spite;
Like when you - [ Mentioned time where she said all her children were worthless & wished they'd never been born ].
You don't actually believe or feel that way right?"

- "Well you [ Continues on rant & I cut her off ]

-"Yes or no"

- "In that moment, yes. I hated all of you."

- "Great, so outside of this & moments alike, you don't believe that right?"

- [ Condescending Tone ] "What don't you get?"

- "Again, You don't feel like way outside of those moments right?"

- Silence

---

After that I'm just shocked how narcy she really was. Just shows most people are just unfit to be a parent.

@imontheloose

whats stopping you from plunging a knife into her neck?

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

whats stopping you from plunging a knife into her neck?

Morals

 

[sillybilly]

Morals

good!
murder is bad guys!