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yandex99
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I see pakistani and indian guys happy as hell with their traditional wives from arranged marriages.Tibetan and cambodians do the same and they're buddhists.
These guys,alot of them would never get anything in the dating 'free market'that the west has imposed on the world,where in the past even europe had traditional arranged marriages where Family is involved.
In a arranged marriage,it isn't just about the women's excitement and pleasure,the family well-being is involved,continuing the lineage in a equal or better manner and also there is a sense of duty and selflessness involved on behalf of both the man and the woman.
Like capitalism,the dating free market sucks where only a few select men get ALL of the wealth,in this case sexual wealth,whereas everyone else lives like serfs,or goes hungry.
Sex and romantic companionship is a need,I don't care what mgtows say,it is.
In the dating free market most men do not have their needs met,or have to work very hard to get their needs met,and in it,it's a constant state of wooing the woman for life,basically a job interview for life just to keep the woman 'interested'.
Traditional cultures understand that Love is something that grows overtime,and that infatuation dissipates overtime.
These cultures are highly evolved on the spiritual and social familial levels and believe in a sense of Duty for others and the Greater good,in constrast to western individualism.
This is why I think arranged marriage is best and should be promoted by traditionalists.
When I say arranged marriage,I do not mean coercive marriages,I don't think any man will want that anyway,but rather like the jewish concept of a Shidduchin or matchmaking between couples.
this does exist in the west but it is VERY expensive and the women have the same standards as any swipe dating app.Same for christian dating sites,As I've learned.
This is because you cannot have a traditional way of matching couples in a individualistic immoral society where materialism reigns over all.
I think alot of men should seek Tribal wives in India,particularly among the Bhili in Rajasthan or if you're christian,a christian wife thru the medium of a local pastor,even if you must pay for the service.
You can also put ads in newspapers saying you're looking for a christian wife.it beats the uncertainty of 'dating'even christian 'dating'which is just a secular imposition on the christian social life,as 'dating'and being unchaperoned with a woman can lead to Fornication,and I've seen pentecostal prophets say Jesus wants arranged marriages with the permission of the parents,and that people shouldn't date unchaperoned.
I want out of this whole 'dating' mess.It is a MESS.
Free markets are always a mess.sexual and financial capitalism only benefit the minority.
These guys,alot of them would never get anything in the dating 'free market'that the west has imposed on the world,where in the past even europe had traditional arranged marriages where Family is involved.
In a arranged marriage,it isn't just about the women's excitement and pleasure,the family well-being is involved,continuing the lineage in a equal or better manner and also there is a sense of duty and selflessness involved on behalf of both the man and the woman.
Like capitalism,the dating free market sucks where only a few select men get ALL of the wealth,in this case sexual wealth,whereas everyone else lives like serfs,or goes hungry.
Sex and romantic companionship is a need,I don't care what mgtows say,it is.
In the dating free market most men do not have their needs met,or have to work very hard to get their needs met,and in it,it's a constant state of wooing the woman for life,basically a job interview for life just to keep the woman 'interested'.
Traditional cultures understand that Love is something that grows overtime,and that infatuation dissipates overtime.
These cultures are highly evolved on the spiritual and social familial levels and believe in a sense of Duty for others and the Greater good,in constrast to western individualism.
This is why I think arranged marriage is best and should be promoted by traditionalists.
When I say arranged marriage,I do not mean coercive marriages,I don't think any man will want that anyway,but rather like the jewish concept of a Shidduchin or matchmaking between couples.
this does exist in the west but it is VERY expensive and the women have the same standards as any swipe dating app.Same for christian dating sites,As I've learned.
This is because you cannot have a traditional way of matching couples in a individualistic immoral society where materialism reigns over all.
I think alot of men should seek Tribal wives in India,particularly among the Bhili in Rajasthan or if you're christian,a christian wife thru the medium of a local pastor,even if you must pay for the service.
You can also put ads in newspapers saying you're looking for a christian wife.it beats the uncertainty of 'dating'even christian 'dating'which is just a secular imposition on the christian social life,as 'dating'and being unchaperoned with a woman can lead to Fornication,and I've seen pentecostal prophets say Jesus wants arranged marriages with the permission of the parents,and that people shouldn't date unchaperoned.
I want out of this whole 'dating' mess.It is a MESS.
Free markets are always a mess.sexual and financial capitalism only benefit the minority.
