as a christian i dont understand christianity

[voluptuousness]

as a teenager facing puberty i do not understand is the "problem" of fapping . because I can't have sex, ill release that stress by ejaculating, which apparently is considered sinful because it has a "homosexual" character. this means i cant fucking cum until marriage and only then i will be able to fuck my wife in order to have kids , not for the pleasure of it .
this is basically against human nature but whatever

 

[LTNUser]

@PrinceLuenLeoncur

 

[ForeskinCarbonAlloy]

well youre not supposed to do it but nobody is perfect amirite?

 

[Mosh12]

Christianity is fake and gay

 

[2025cel]

This is the reason why I like Christianity!
Nice religion!

 

[noodlelover]

as a teenager facing puberty i do not understand is the "problem" of fapping . because I can't have sex, ill release that stress by ejaculating, which apparently is considered sinful because it has a "homosexual" character. this means i cant fucking cum until marriage and only then i will be able to fuck my wife in order to have kids , not for the pleasure of it .
this is basically against human nature but whatever

You're an addict making excuses. The addiction fades with time.

 

[wsada]

I wanna fap but God does not want me to!! God is not real!!

 

[voluptuousness]

You're an addict making excuses. The addiction fades with time.

what are you even talking about

 

[VV62]

Bro if jesus died for your sins then why not make it worth it and sin

 

[noodlelover]

what are you even talking about

Maturation addiction.

If you don't do it for long enough, you won't feel compelled to do it. You won't need to do it to relieve stress. It's virtually the same as smoking in the brain.

 

[voluptuousness]

Bro if jesus died for your sins then why not make it worth it and sin

something like that idk

 

[VV62]

Maturation addiction.

If you don't do it for long enough, you won't feel compelled to do it. You won't need to do it to relieve stress. It's virtually the same as smoking in the brain.

Smoking is not a biological need

 

[voluptuousness]

Maturation addiction.

If you don't do it for long enough, you won't feel compelled to do it. You won't need to do it to relieve stress. It's virtually the same as smoking in the brain.

ye but im fucking 17 the hormones and shit are boiling

 

[voluptuousness]

Smoking is not a biological need

its cool tho like sometimes it speaks for itself in a poetic way

 

[noodlelover]

Smoking is not a biological need

It's all dopamine release making you addicted to a behavior or substance. Same with sex addiction, or alcohol addiction.

When you frequently engage in behaviors that release large amounts of dopamine, your brain's dopamine receptors down regulate.

This means it takes more of the activity or substance to feel the same pleasure.

After your brain is used to a higher level of dopamine, you get withdrawal symptoms and emotional dependence when you don't get the substance or activity you're use to. These include stress, anxiety, and strong cravings for the activity or substance.

It doesn't matter if it's "natural' or not; It's virtually the same process of addiction, dependence, dopamine down regulation, and withdrawal symptoms in the brain.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

as a teenager facing puberty i do not understand is the "problem" of fapping . because I can't have sex, ill release that stress by ejaculating, which apparently is considered sinful because it has a "homosexual" character. this means i cant fucking cum until marriage and only then i will be able to fuck my wife in order to have kids , not for the pleasure of it .
this is basically against human nature but whatever

I know your pain…. I’m an incel who struggles with it but it’s far to big for me to answer rn cos I’m busy

I’m too lazy to give an response so ima use AI

1. Why is this considered a “problem” in Christianity?





In Christianity, sexual expression is seen as something sacred, designed by God to reflect love, unity, and procreation within the context of marriage. It’s not that sexual pleasure is inherently bad—far from it! God created sexual desire and pleasure as good gifts. However, He also gave them a purpose: to be expressed in the covenant of marriage, where they unite a husband and wife physically, emotionally, and spiritually.





When sexual acts are done outside of that purpose—whether through masturbation, pornography, or casual sex—they are seen as falling short of God’s design because:


1. They often center on self-gratification rather than the self-giving love that marriage embodies.


2. They can distort our view of sexuality, turning it into something selfish rather than relational.


3. They can create a pattern of sin that draws us away from God’s plan for intimacy and love.





2. What about the “stress” and human nature?





You’re right that sexual desire is a natural part of being human, especially during puberty. Christianity doesn’t deny that—it acknowledges the intensity of these desires. However, it also teaches that we are called to practice self-control and not be ruled by our passions. This doesn’t mean suppressing your desires or pretending they don’t exist—it means learning to direct them in a way that honors God and prepares you for healthy relationships in the future.





It’s worth noting that not all stress needs to be released through sexual acts. Learning other ways to cope with stress—like exercise, hobbies, prayer, or even talking to someone you trust—can help you manage those feelings without turning to masturbation as the only outlet.





3. Does this mean you can’t enjoy sex?





This is a common misconception. Christianity doesn’t teach that sex is only for having kids and never for pleasure. In fact, the Bible celebrates sexual pleasure within marriage (see Song of Solomon). What Christianity emphasizes is that sex isn’t just about personal enjoyment—it’s about giving yourself fully to your spouse in a way that reflects love and commitment. When sex is experienced in this context, it’s not only pleasurable but deeply meaningful.





4. Why does Christianity ask for this self-control?





You mentioned that waiting until marriage feels “against human nature,” and I get why it feels that way. But Christianity often calls us to rise above our immediate impulses to pursue something greater. Jesus Himself said:





“If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Matthew 16:24)





This doesn’t mean Christianity is against pleasure; it means that temporary sacrifices lead to greater joy and fulfillment in the long run. Waiting for marriage is not about repressing your sexuality—it’s about channeling it in a way that honors God, your future spouse, and even yourself.





5. Encouragement and Hope





It’s okay to struggle with this—it’s part of being human. You’re not alone, and you’re not a failure for wrestling with these desires. The key is to keep striving toward God’s plan, even when it feels difficult. Pray for strength, talk to someone you trust about your struggles, and remember that God’s grace is always available to help you grow.





While it might seem like a lot to ask now, the discipline and self-control you develop will benefit not just your future marriage but also your relationship with God and your understanding of yourself.

 

[The Grinch]

Nobody cares about you or your incel dick tbh

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

as a teenager facing puberty i do not understand is the "problem" of fapping . because I can't have sex, ill release that stress by ejaculating, which apparently is considered sinful because it has a "homosexual" character. this means i cant fucking cum until marriage and only then i will be able to fuck my wife in order to have kids , not for the pleasure of it .
this is basically against human nature but whatever

Arent you a girl

 

[voluptuousness]

Nobody cares about you or your incel dick tbh

unc chill out damn it

 

[voluptuousness]

Arent you a girl

party's over get over it

 

[The Grinch]

unc chill out damn it

No need to get mad, it‘s just reality. There‘s a reason you’re alone and it‘s not by choice

 

[voluptuousness]

Arent you a girl

also arent you BROWN

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

party's over get over it

I want to say something sexually explicit but im afraid ill get a warning from that one mod

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

also arent you BROWN

I would rather be an aboriginal than a white female

 

[voluptuousness]

No need to get mad, it‘s just reality. There‘s a reason you’re alone and it‘s not by choice

womp womp

 

[voluptuousness]

I would rather be an aboriginal than a white female

0/10 ragebait lol

 

[voluptuousness]

I would rather be an aboriginal than a white female

wym youd rather bro you actually ARE some
sort of nigger thats just trolling using wifi

 

[voluptuousness]

Nigga if i saw you irl...

id be mad too if i was a nigger rotting @ some shithole

 

[The Grinch]

wym youd rather bro you actually ARE some
sort of nigger thats just trolling using wifi

id be mad too if i was a nigger rotting @ some shithole

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

id be mad too if i was a nigger rotting @ some shithole

Nigga you are a female

 

[voluptuousness]

here we are again with this fucking moron alluding to who knows what

 

[The Grinch]

here we are again with this fucking moron alluding to who knows what

Seems like i hit a nerve

 

[voluptuousness]

Nigga you are a female

yeah ik its really hard for you bro . and ngl i understand why you are so frustrated but just try venting somewhere else

 

[134applesauce456]

ye but im fucking 17 the hormones and shit are boiling

I mean nobody said it would be easy

and technically it's okay to fail, sins are very forgivable as long as you are truly sorry and make an effort to change

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

yeah ik its really hard for you bro . and ngl i understand why you are so frustrated but just try venting somewhere else

 

[voluptuousness]

Seems like i hit a nerve

seems like you fell for the biggest ragebait in history kekw dumb nigger thought hes onto something

 

[thales20]

because it has a "homosexual" character

It is indeed a sin, but not because of this JFL

this is basically against human nature but whatever

i mean this is the objective of following Christ, you need to reject the flesh.

But its not like God gonna send you to hell instantly because you did so, its a sin with the same weight as the others but God is fair

 

[voluptuousness]

get bitched kek go away

 

[The Grinch]

Incel reported my post

 

[voluptuousness]

Incel reported my post

i didnt do shit they edited my msg aswell lol

 

[King Solomon]

as a teenager facing puberty i do not understand is the "problem" of fapping . because I can't have sex, ill release that stress by ejaculating, which apparently is considered sinful because it has a "homosexual" character. this means i cant fucking cum until marriage and only then i will be able to fuck my wife in order to have kids , not for the pleasure of it .
this is basically against human nature but whatever

Having sex other than for making children is sexual degeneracy. To defile yourself is leading to destruction as it not only drains your life force and brings you closer to death but also distances yourself from God. You can argue having fun is human nature and many immortal sins can be fun.

We are taught to walk in the spirit and not in the flesh and to be baptized by water to receive the holy spirit. Prayer and fasting and reading the scriptures are a powerful tool also.


Christianity is a psyops and was created by the Roman Papacy who was killing off millions of followers of Jesus but gave up and found it to. E easier to join them and indoctrinate them into their cult while hiding behind the word Christian.

It's a misnomer really and should be labeled Paulianity as virtually all chapter 304 churches are not teaching the true gospel of Jesus Christ and no one really has to my knowledge since the original apostles all died off by the early 2nd century AD.

If you truly have no chance for marriage at all then since you can't dedicate your life to building a family then dedicate your life to God and serving others. We only have maybe 5 more years left until the second coming so that should be a fairly easy task.