As an incel not having a GF is big reason behind boredom

[ManletBlackcel]

Yes not having a social circle will make you hella bored and will turn you into a hermit however when I was part of a social circle it was pretty uncommon for us to hangout every week and most our interactions were through school or video games.

Even if I were to have a social circle now it would be rare for us to hang out due to life. Now boredom is a normal occurrence to me as most video games, anime and YouTube don’t hit the same as they used to. Eat, sleep, work and repeat is pretty much my life in a nutshell now.

Now if I were to have a girlfriend? I doubt I would ever be bored. We would plan trips, watch movies and anime together, play video games together, play sports together, talk about life. And if all that gets tiresome we would just end up fucking to pass the time.

I don’t know if there is a saying or quote about this but if there is I think it goes something like “Even the smallest of experiences feel like the biggest of moments when spent together with the ones you love”.

Has anyone here gotten a girlfriend and life just felt way more fun and boredom just vanished or even gotten a girlfriend but broke up and life felt way more boring? I’m genuinely interested if there are any studies relating to boredom correlating to not being in a relationship.

Thoughts?

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[datboijj]

I guess relativly speaking
but the lack of responsibilities
exposure effect
and the lack of funds for audacious activities are the main cause
in my opinion

 

[ManletBlackcel]

I guess relativly speaking
but the lack of responsibilities
exposure effect
and the lack of funds for audacious activities are the main cause
in my opinion

I hear that but even richcels with unlimited funds rope because they can’t find a genuine relationship with a girl and life was too boring doing everything alone

 

[forevergymcelling]

Yeah it's good but they can also stop you from doing productive shit when they're bored

E.g. when I wanna spend the evening doing work and she convinces me to watch a movie and order a pizza

 

[ManletBlackcel]

Yeah it's good but they can also stop you from doing productive shit when they're bored

E.g. when I wanna spend the evening doing work and she convinces me to watch a movie and order a pizza

True. I would see that as a stress reliever rather than a distraction tbh cause after I finish work when I get back home I do jack shit anyway only difference is I’m doing it alone than with a partner.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

True. I would see that as a stress reliever rather than a distraction tbh cause after I finish work when I get back home I do jack shit anyway only difference is I’m doing it alone than with a partner.

I ain’t had a hoe for a few years now but form what I remember it is taxing on your time as well. Having a birch is nice and all but it’s not sunshine and rainbows, I often catch myself wishing I had a birch again but then remember what it’s like and change my mind. Women are a cancer just watch porn get a hobby try make money etc and you’ll not be as bored

When I’m bored I like to eat a lot of food, prob not the best idea but food gives me huge dopamine

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

after my gf broke up with me i got lots of more free time so its good tbh

was more bored with her than now that im single

 

[kwacker777]

Tbh the majority of foids seem pretty boring. Would be less boring but I think a decent social circle would have 10x more for you to do.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Tbh the majority of foids seem pretty boring. Would be less boring but I think a decent social circle would have 10x more for you to do.

boring in what way

 

[Kamui]

Yeah it's good but they can also stop you from doing productive shit when they're bored

E.g. when I wanna spend the evening doing work and she convinces me to watch a movie and order a pizza

I ain’t had a hoe for a few years now but form what I remember it is taxing on your time as well. Having a birch is nice and all but it’s not sunshine and rainbows, I often catch myself wishing I had a birch again but then remember what it’s like and change my mind. Women are a cancer just watch porn get a hobby try make money etc and you’ll not be as bored

When I’m bored I like to eat a lot of food, prob not the best idea but food gives me huge dopamine

Yep as both stated above it can be a mixed bag

This is why getting into a relationship when you have no options or have never had a gf before can be bad, you’re deluded by your sense of love so it drives you off of your purpose and being as productive as you could possibly be to achieve your goals, Ik so many normies that get pseudo cucked by their gfs cuz they give them way too much attention and cuz of the power imbalance they know they’d never be able to recreate that type of relationship again they’re stuck

Honestly if you’re a guy who has his shit together (looks, finances, social circle etc) a lot of foids you’ll meet won’t have much to offer besides their pussy, there will inevitably be foids that you may click with not based off of looks but most foids can only leverage the idea of sex to you since they’re legit nothing without it

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Yep as both stated above it can be a mixed bag

This is why getting into a relationship when you have no options or have never had a gf before can be bad, you’re deluded by your sense of love so it drives you off of your purpose and being as productive as you could possibly be to achieve your goals, Ik so many normies that get pseudo cucked by their gfs cuz they give them way too much attention and cuz of the power imbalance they know they’d never be able to recreate that type of relationship again they’re stuck

Honestly if you’re a guy who has his shit together (looks, finances, social circle etc) a lot of foids you’ll meet won’t have much to offer besides their pussy, there will inevitably be foids that you may click with not based off of looks but most foids can only leverage the idea of sex to you since they’re legit nothing without it

Yeah I did the same thing with the last girl I was dating (she wasn’t my gf but we did everything a couple would do) I was an incel so I didn’t wanna be incel again and thus put all the power into her hands, losing her was terrifying cos I knew I’d be Truecel again but obvs you can’t tell a foid that.

Maybe I’m weird but u find having a gf gives me a lot of motivation to grind and work hard, call it the inner simp but I like to be a traditional man and provide while my hoe gives me pussy and cooks. As I’m incel I have very little motivation to do anything productive so I can say that’s determined by the type of person you are.

I now grind still but with less zeal and focus because I wanna leave Europe and live fine

 

[ManletBlackcel]

Tbh the majority of foids seem pretty boring. Would be less boring but I think a decent social circle would have 10x more for you to do.

The real black pill is the most the population is boring. Even I’ll say I’m a boring mfker. But I do think you’re correct a good social circle is the key to living a fulfilling life but that’s hard to find if it isn’t established in high school

 

[teefight]

Yeah it's good but they can also stop you from doing productive shit when they're bored

E.g. when I wanna spend the evening doing work and she convinces me to watch a movie and order a pizza

lifemogs me

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You need a women in your life = beta cuck

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

never bored when you're a musician

 

[ManletBlackcel]

You need a women in your life = beta cuck

Guess I’m a beta cuck then

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Guess I’m a beta cuck then

Correct