As someone who is 5’4 and never had any issues with women and dating. I’m sharing my tips

[The Homelander]

To every short guy out there — listen up.

I’m 5’4”, Indian, and married to a 6’1” German woman.

So believe me when I say: height isn’t the problem.

Back in college, I didn’t rely on apps. I showed up in real life. I was funny, outgoing, and unafraid to approach women. I asked for numbers, made real connections, and yeah — I dated, had girlfriends, even friends with benefits. That was 15 years ago.

Here’s the truth: Online dating is brutal if you’re short. Most people — not just women — swipe based on superficial stats. They’ll skip over a great personality the moment they see your height.

So my advice? Get off dating apps. They’re toxic and shallow, and they’re not made for guys like us. Instead:

• Dress well • Build your confidence • Learn how to actually talk to women • Watch free videos, read books, get coaching if you need to

It’s all out there — and most of it is free.

If you want proof, message me. I’ll tell you exactly how I ended up with a woman who could’ve easily ignored me — but didn’t. Why? Because I showed up. Confident. Real. Present.

Stop chasing validation online. Show up in real life. That’s how you win.

EDIT - WOW THIS BLEW UP!

Sorry guys I can’t reply to everyone on personal chat… since I have hundreds of people asking the same questions… what did I do? Am I real and not a bot? Am I rich?

Absolutely nothing. I never cared about my height or focused on it as an issue

I made friends, joined clubs and events on campus

Got to know many folks and through mutual friends and acquaintances got to know girls. That’s it.

No I’m not rich. My wife makes more money than I do lol and no I don’t care she’s more successful financially. Im happy with own career.

Here are pics of my wife and I if it helps since the time we met in college -

Spoiler: imgur

Spoiler: post

@itzyaboyJJ @Alias! @rrm_ss2

 

[Pento]

Only read the first few words

 

[gooner23]

 

[134applesauce456]

 

[2025cel]

I’m 5’4”, Indian, and married to a 6’1” German woman.

why is bhai dumpster diving?

 

[r0tt1ng1nmyb3d]

don’t even need to say it

 

[Deleted member 134910]

Does 175cm counts as the same boat as you?

 

[The Homelander]

why is bhai dumpster diving?

One man's trash is another man's treasure. In this case, the treasure belongs to dalits. Only izraeli kweens for brahmin kangz.

 

[IlI]

Does 175cm counts as the same boat as you?

yea pretty much.

 

[New Poster]

Bro is massively dating up

 

[pajjeetslayer]

To every short guy out there — listen up.

I’m 5’4”, Indian, and married to a 6’1” German woman.

So believe me when I say: height isn’t the problem.

Back in college, I didn’t rely on apps. I showed up in real life. I was funny, outgoing, and unafraid to approach women. I asked for numbers, made real connections, and yeah — I dated, had girlfriends, even friends with benefits. That was 15 years ago.

Here’s the truth: Online dating is brutal if you’re short. Most people — not just women — swipe based on superficial stats. They’ll skip over a great personality the moment they see your height.

So my advice? Get off dating apps. They’re toxic and shallow, and they’re not made for guys like us. Instead:

• Dress well • Build your confidence • Learn how to actually talk to women • Watch free videos, read books, get coaching if you need to

It’s all out there — and most of it is free.

If you want proof, message me. I’ll tell you exactly how I ended up with a woman who could’ve easily ignored me — but didn’t. Why? Because I showed up. Confident. Real. Present.

Stop chasing validation online. Show up in real life. That’s how you win.

EDIT - WOW THIS BLEW UP!

Sorry guys I can’t reply to everyone on personal chat… since I have hundreds of people asking the same questions… what did I do? Am I real and not a bot? Am I rich?

Absolutely nothing. I never cared about my height or focused on it as an issue

I made friends, joined clubs and events on campus

Got to know many folks and through mutual friends and acquaintances got to know girls. That’s it.

No I’m not rich. My wife makes more money than I do lol and no I don’t care she’s more successful financially. Im happy with own career.

Here are pics of my wife and I if it helps since the time we met in college -

Spoiler: imgur

Spoiler: post

@itzyaboyJJ @Alias! @rrm_ss2

this is a legendary shit post

 

[Tenzen Thenziro]

To every short guy out there — listen up.

I’m 5’4”, Indian, and married to a 6’1” German woman.

So believe me when I say: height isn’t the problem.

Back in college, I didn’t rely on apps. I showed up in real life. I was funny, outgoing, and unafraid to approach women. I asked for numbers, made real connections, and yeah — I dated, had girlfriends, even friends with benefits. That was 15 years ago.

Here’s the truth: Online dating is brutal if you’re short. Most people — not just women — swipe based on superficial stats. They’ll skip over a great personality the moment they see your height.

So my advice? Get off dating apps. They’re toxic and shallow, and they’re not made for guys like us. Instead:

• Dress well • Build your confidence • Learn how to actually talk to women • Watch free videos, read books, get coaching if you need to

It’s all out there — and most of it is free.

If you want proof, message me. I’ll tell you exactly how I ended up with a woman who could’ve easily ignored me — but didn’t. Why? Because I showed up. Confident. Real. Present.

Stop chasing validation online. Show up in real life. That’s how you win.

EDIT - WOW THIS BLEW UP!

Sorry guys I can’t reply to everyone on personal chat… since I have hundreds of people asking the same questions… what did I do? Am I real and not a bot? Am I rich?

Absolutely nothing. I never cared about my height or focused on it as an issue

I made friends, joined clubs and events on campus

Got to know many folks and through mutual friends and acquaintances got to know girls. That’s it.

No I’m not rich. My wife makes more money than I do lol and no I don’t care she’s more successful financially. Im happy with own career.

Here are pics of my wife and I if it helps since the time we met in college -

Spoiler: imgur

Spoiler: post

@itzyaboyJJ @Alias! @rrm_ss2

tales from india, literally

 

[Manchild_v2]

5'4-5 is gigantic. i'm 5'2 and feel quite normal

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Dress well • Build your confidence • Learn how to actually talk to women • Watch free videos, read books, get coaching if you need to

It’s all out there — and most of it is free.

theyre like a broken record

 

[Elias144]

Bro why do you have 16.5k posts on .org as presumably a mid 30s married man who had no trouble with women? Why tf are you even here?