Asians are more of an outgroup to hapas than whites (excluding women)

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@Toggle9877 @kana this is what ive experienced

 

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Ive had very bad experiences with asian guys. Lots vehemently hated me for no apparent reason. Now i realise its a race thing

 

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Hapas are culturally and socially more white than asian in the west. This makes asian men see them as an outgroup. They also naturally see them as more of an outgroup than whites because theyre closer yet still completely different. Its like bangladeshis and turks hating each other

 

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True, even my Asian family doesn't consider me Asian at all.

 

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True, even my Asian family doesn't consider me Asian at all.

I got along with my white cousins well whereas i felt awkward around my asian family

 

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I got along with my white cousins well whereas i felt awkward around my asian family

Same with me, their always some kind of awkwardness with family specially on asian holidays

 

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@Toggle9877 @kana this is what ive experienced

Truthfully, I am one of the few .org users who doesn't see color, if you know what that statement means, but from my experience, family-wise, my immediate family (mom and dad) are both extremely racist and keep trying to desperately force me to fit in their stereotypical image of a white man, which physically includes decorating yourself with pastel clothing and maintaining short hair, whilst calling my alt-style and long hair "nappy ngr hair, ngr clothes, etc". On the other hand, the rest of my (white) extended family gives me pretty ordinary treatment, with no mention or care for my ethnicity. Same goes for my Asian side, although I don't keep much contact with them. Honestly, I find both races outgroups, and I'm very individualistic. I just can't comment much on Asian's because I've never lived around them, and have barely even seen any irl, let alone have even had an Asian friend.