At 19, I realized Real Friends don’t EXIST anymore

[kurd]

There’s seriously no such thing as a real friend anymore. Everyone just pretends to be cool with you but the second you’re not around they’re talking behind your back, making fun of you, or twisting your words. And what's even worse? They'll embarrass you in front of others, especially girls, just to look cool. Like how insecure do you have to be to throw your own friend under the bus just to get some laughs or clout?

I used to think I had real friends. People I could trust. People I could be myself around. I opened up, I told them personal things, stuff I barely told anyone, and they just used it against me. Next thing I know, my business is being passed around like a joke and I'm hearing my own secrets from people I never even spoke to. That shit sucks.

The worst part? The moment they found out I was doing well, like financially or just in life in general, they changed instantly. Their whole vibe flipped. All of a sudden they were interested, acting fake supportive, being way too nice, asking what I’m up to, trying to stay close. Not because they cared. But because they wanted something. Money. Favors. Some sort of benefit from being around me. They didn’t want to see me win unless they were getting a piece of it too.

So yeah, I cut everyone off. I’m done. I don’t want friends. I don’t want to trust people anymore. Every time I did, it backfired. People either betrayed me, used me, or tried to tear me down. I’ve been through enough fake smiles, shady conversations, and toxic energy to know that being alone is honestly safer.

What all of this did to me mentally is something I don’t think people even understand. These so called friends completely messed with my head. They ruined my trust in people. They made me paranoid to the point where I overthink every interaction. I constantly feel like I’m being watched or talked about. I can’t relax around anyone anymore. My stress levels are through the roof because I’m always expecting the worst. And it all came from people I used to call friends.

I’m 19 and I’ve already decided that I’d rather walk through life solo than ever let someone that close to me again. Real friends don’t exist. Not in my world. And I’ve made peace with that.

 

[isis_Bleach]

fuck normies

 

[kurd]

fuck normies

Genuinely, people on this forum have helped me way more then friends ever helped me in my whole life

 

[Sceptical]

is this thread related to the "i hate fucking moroccans" thread you posted earlier?

 

[kurd]

is thread related to the "i hate fucking moroccans" thread you posted earlier?

Yes, but not all of my friends were moroccan. But the ones that did the most damage were moroccan.

I cut off everyone i knew like 20 people and will start over when i move to spain in 4 months

 

[Blackgymmax]

Genuinely, people on this forum have helped me way more then friends ever helped me in my whole life

The ugly guys on the forum are the exact same once you ascend to actual chadlite. Now I’m in a different dimension and retards cope hard. That’s why I just shit on any htn

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

I realized this at 15 probably, friendship between men is so rare, and I mean TRUE friendship.

Most dudes will fake being your friend to use you for money or girls or favors.

 

[Sceptical]

Yes, but not all of my friends were moroccan. But the ones that did the most damage were moroccan.

I cut off everyone i knew like 20 people and will start over when i move to spain in 4 months

good
changing locations will give you a fresh start and better opportunities

 

[kurd]

I realized this at 15 probably, friendship between men is so rare, and I mean TRUE friendship.

Most dudes will fake being your friend to use you for money or girls or favors.

Dude, i got fucked over so hard by my “friends” that i knew for 6+ fucking years. You don’t even understand how fucked (financially and mentally). I never knew people can change so fast

 

[kurd]

good
changing locations will give you a fresh start and better opportunities

Yep, and i will NOT make the same mistakes again. I learned from this shit

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Dude, i got fucked over so hard by my “friends” that i knew for 6+ fucking years. You don’t even understand how fucked (financially and mentally). I never knew people can change so fast

Im sorry bro, I know what you mean trust me.

I got betrayed every way possible in my teens, my best friend told me he was gonna help me with my oneitis and ended up having his way with her behind my back, the another best friend told me I wasn’t being left out of the group while they had another group and hanged out without me.

All the stuff I told them they told everyone, they used to bully me or make fun of me in front of foids too, brutal shit.

Never trust normies, or anyone in general tbh.

 

[flippasav]

Never has never will.

 

[kurd]

Im sorry bro, I know what you mean trust me.

I got betrayed every way possible in my teens, my best friend told me he was gonna help me with my oneitis and ended up having his way with her behind my back, the another best friend told me I wasn’t being left out of the group while they had another group and hanged out without me.

All the stuff I told them they told everyone, they used to bully me or make fun of me in front of foids too, brutal shit.

Never trust normies, or anyone in general tbh.

Yep.

I never realized friends are like this bro, i’ve never had those BIG of a problems when i wasn’t doing financially well. But you have to realize people IRL doesn’t matter if theyre your “friends” THEY DO NOT WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY OR HAVE MONEY OR ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU BETTER THEN THEM. they will not wanna see you do better. Don’t tell anyone shit and keep distance

 

[kurd]

Never has never will.

mirin

 

[MiserableMan]

True friendship can only be built during childhood or during life and death situations. No shit most people aren't going to be or will be your friends, everybody is using each other, i mean you probably have also used others for your own benefits at least once in your life.

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Yep.

I never realized friends are like this bro, i’ve never had those BIG of a problems when i wasn’t doing financially well. But you have to realize people IRL doesn’t matter if theyre your “friends” THEY DO NOT WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY OR HAVE MONEY OR ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU BETTER THEN THEM. they will not wanna see you do better. Don’t tell anyone shit and keep distance

Yeah, I never tell shit to anyone, either good or bad.

Being private is law.

 

[kurd]

True friendship can only be built during childhood or during life and death situations. No shit most people aren't going to be or will be your friends, everybody is using each other, i mean you probably have also used others for your own benefits at least once in your life.

That’s true,

I only have two real friends left and those are literally friends i was born with and knew from the start of my life due to our parents all being close with eachother. Those friends i can actually trust and wouldn’t change up on me.

However yes, friends do use you and so do you, but i’ve gotten taken advantage of due to me being so gullible and too nice to people which they knew of and took advantage of it. I don’t find that shit normal at all.

 

[sub5outsider]

people only care if they can benefit from you you are replaceable

 

[ilyrzk]

There’s seriously no such thing as a real friend anymore. Everyone just pretends to be cool with you but the second you’re not around they’re talking behind your back, making fun of you, or twisting your words. And what's even worse? They'll embarrass you in front of others, especially girls, just to look cool. Like how insecure do you have to be to throw your own friend under the bus just to get some laughs or clout?

I used to think I had real friends. People I could trust. People I could be myself around. I opened up, I told them personal things, stuff I barely told anyone, and they just used it against me. Next thing I know, my business is being passed around like a joke and I'm hearing my own secrets from people I never even spoke to. That shit sucks.

The worst part? The moment they found out I was doing well, like financially or just in life in general, they changed instantly. Their whole vibe flipped. All of a sudden they were interested, acting fake supportive, being way too nice, asking what I’m up to, trying to stay close. Not because they cared. But because they wanted something. Money. Favors. Some sort of benefit from being around me. They didn’t want to see me win unless they were getting a piece of it too.

So yeah, I cut everyone off. I’m done. I don’t want friends. I don’t want to trust people anymore. Every time I did, it backfired. People either betrayed me, used me, or tried to tear me down. I’ve been through enough fake smiles, shady conversations, and toxic energy to know that being alone is honestly safer.

What all of this did to me mentally is something I don’t think people even understand. These so called friends completely messed with my head. They ruined my trust in people. They made me paranoid to the point where I overthink every interaction. I constantly feel like I’m being watched or talked about. I can’t relax around anyone anymore. My stress levels are through the roof because I’m always expecting the worst. And it all came from people I used to call friends.

I’m 19 and I’ve already decided that I’d rather walk through life solo than ever let someone that close to me again. Real friends don’t exist. Not in my world. And I’ve made peace with that.

I care to disagree... as long as the 2 have a strong collective around them. i.e not fakethugging fuckboy, you can build a strong bond devoid of that.

 

[Huga buga]

Genuinely, people on this forum have helped me way more then friends ever helped me in my whole life

we love you

 

[Huga buga]

There’s seriously no such thing as a real friend anymore. Everyone just pretends to be cool with you but the second you’re not around they’re talking behind your back, making fun of you, or twisting your words. And what's even worse? They'll embarrass you in front of others, especially girls, just to look cool. Like how insecure do you have to be to throw your own friend under the bus just to get some laughs or clout?

I used to think I had real friends. People I could trust. People I could be myself around. I opened up, I told them personal things, stuff I barely told anyone, and they just used it against me. Next thing I know, my business is being passed around like a joke and I'm hearing my own secrets from people I never even spoke to. That shit sucks.

The worst part? The moment they found out I was doing well, like financially or just in life in general, they changed instantly. Their whole vibe flipped. All of a sudden they were interested, acting fake supportive, being way too nice, asking what I’m up to, trying to stay close. Not because they cared. But because they wanted something. Money. Favors. Some sort of benefit from being around me. They didn’t want to see me win unless they were getting a piece of it too.

So yeah, I cut everyone off. I’m done. I don’t want friends. I don’t want to trust people anymore. Every time I did, it backfired. People either betrayed me, used me, or tried to tear me down. I’ve been through enough fake smiles, shady conversations, and toxic energy to know that being alone is honestly safer.

What all of this did to me mentally is something I don’t think people even understand. These so called friends completely messed with my head. They ruined my trust in people. They made me paranoid to the point where I overthink every interaction. I constantly feel like I’m being watched or talked about. I can’t relax around anyone anymore. My stress levels are through the roof because I’m always expecting the worst. And it all came from people I used to call friends.

I’m 19 and I’ve already decided that I’d rather walk through life solo than ever let someone that close to me again. Real friends don’t exist. Not in my world. And I’ve made peace with that.

happened to me at 17-18 then i completely left everyone behind i’m 20 now soon