Avoidant Ex

[harmonytingfam]

Anyone here have experience with an ex who, you didn't know was an avoidant until they randomly broke up with you?

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If so- do they try coming back like everyone says. If so how long?

I'm pretty much over her, i still miss her and think about her but have come to terms with onetis being straight up futile-

However.. she did me so fkn dirty.

I want (need) her to come back so i can reject her ass and make her feel how she made me feel when she randomly left me after almost 2 years.

she is l-ltb at best jfl.

i never thought she would leave because of the difference in our smv.

during our relationship i turned down at least 10 or more girls that hit on me over the 2 years.

she had no guys hit on her ever and if any did i'd be shocked. she was loyal but she's avoidant so her fucking nervous system is stupid and now we are seperated.

 

[harmonytingfam]

PEOPLE WITH AVOIDANT EX'S GET IN HERE

 

[estonianslayerr]

KHHV forever fym gf

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Anyone here have experience with an ex who, you didn't know was an avoidant until they randomly broke up with you?

---

If so- do they try coming back like everyone says. If so how long?

I'm pretty much over her, i still miss her and think about her but have come to terms with onetis being straight up futile-

However.. she did me so fkn dirty.

I want (need) her to come back so i can reject her ass and make her feel how she made me feel when she randomly left me after almost 2 years.

she is l-ltb at best jfl.

i never thought she would leave because of the difference in our smv.

during our relationship i turned down at least 10 or more girls that hit on me over the 2 years.

she had no guys hit on her ever and if any did i'd be shocked. she was loyal but she's avoidant so her fucking nervous system is stupid and now we are seperated.

I had a similar situation, but my ex wasn't avoidant from what i know, she just believed i didn't provide enough "entertainment" for her so she suddenly left me after almost 4 years

Breakups like these are the worst, because you aren't even sad or depressed, you're just mad at all of that relationship-building being wasted cause of 1 dumb girl.

 

[harmonytingfam]

I had a similar situation, but my ex wasn't avoidant from what i know, she just believed i didn't provide enough "entertainment" for her so she suddenly left me after almost 4 years

Breakups like these are the worst, because you aren't even sad or depressed, you're just mad at all of that relationship-building being wasted cause of 1 dumb girl.

yes spot on.

i was sad for a week at most and then it just slowly turned to frustration, and even now it still is on my mind majority of the day.

i do believe she will try and come back soon enough with time, funny enough she actually said that we could get back together after some time apart as she was breaking up with me

i believe her intentions were good, just overwhelmed- as an avoidant is, it just makes you question everything about the relationship.

KHHV forever fym gf