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Went for a job interview, got mogged by the staff there. Most had NW1 - NW1.5 hairlines in their late 20s and 30s. (I'm NW 3 at 22)

AFAIK there was only one other guy who applied for the job. It was a junior position, but really, who are you going to pick? The incel looking dude who dropped out of university and is trying to find a job - or the late 20's guy, who has better talking skills, more assertive, way more experience and education , who was bald but could grow a beard and use his superior forward growth to solve problems.

I got asked if I was married. I GOT ASKED IF I WAS FUCKING MARRIED.

I'm 22. FUCKING 22 AND I PASS AS SOMEONE IN THEIR EARLY 30S :feelsrope:

I hadn't even finished the journey home before I was called to say I didn't get the job.
 
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Normally they would know your age at a job interview
 
Normally they would know your age at a job interview
hr department is filled with the most lazy subhumans
literally the scum of the humanity
 
22 was married age a couple of years ago
 
Normally they would know your age at a job interview
I was taken by some different staff to a different room to to a task, and it was a guy in there who asked me.

He was Filipino (so still had a full set of hair in his 40s/50s), so I probably looked super old to him.
 
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Don't tell me about this shit, I already want to slit my wrists.
Naturally depending on ur face ofc u might seem older to ppl but being 22 and being confused as a 16 yo is worse
 
Quit grabbing my dick ass incel
 
22 and being confused as a 16 yo is worse
No, it really isn't. I used to get mistaken sometimes for 14 - 16 at 18 and 16 - 17 at 19. I always would prefer to be mistaken as younger as it meant I had more "pretty" features that hadn't aged way yet. I don't have the best bone structure, so being pretty was my best option.

Now that I'm balding my "prettyness" or whatever it is has gone, and it puts emphasis on my (lack of) bone structure.
 
Get a hair transplant ASAP before you regret and hop on fin
 
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No, it really isn't. I used to get mistaken sometimes for 14 - 16 at 18 and 16 - 17 at 19. I always would prefer to be mistaken as younger as it meant I had more "pretty" features that hadn't aged way yet. I don't have the best bone structure, so being pretty was my best option.

Now that I'm balding my "prettyness" or whatever it is has gone, and it puts emphasis on my (lack of) bone structure.
Fringemax like me. I also have a big forehead even tho I’m probably never gonna be bald due to my family father and mother part I do have a HUGEEE forehead ever since I was a baby so I have bangs
 
Get a hair transplant ASAP before you regret and hop on fin
I can't afford a hair transplant but I'm starting minoxidil today (didn't do it yesterday as I didn't want any swelling for the interview).
 
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Fringemax like me
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I'm growing it out, but this is what I'm working with. It's incredibly sparse too, when wet it looks sickly.
 
Went for a job interview, got mogged by the staff there. Most had NW1 - NW1.5 hairlines in their late 20s and 30s. (I'm NW 3 at 22)

AFAIK there was only one other guy who applied for the job. It was a junior position, but really, who are you going to pick? The incel looking dude who dropped out of university and is trying to find a job - or the late 20's guy, who has better talking skills, more assertive, way more experience and education , who was bald but could grow a beard and use his superior forward growth to solve problems.

I got asked if I was married. I GOT ASKED IF I WAS FUCKING MARRIED.

I'm 22. FUCKING 22 AND I PASS AS SOMEONE IN THEIR EARLY 30S :feelsrope:

I hadn't even finished the journey home before I was called to say I didn't get the job.
You just gotta be more confident.
 
You just gotta be more confident.
My parents are literally this. It's so fucking unfair. They just will never understand, too old.
 
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My parents are literally this. It's so fucking unfair. They just will never understand, too old.
Be kind to your parents.
 
Be kind to your parents.
I am. But when it comes to looks and the importance of them, we will just never see eye to eye. They came from a different time and era, where things had different priorities etc. I can't talk to them about any issues otherwise they just say to "get over it" or "be confident", so I turn to strangers in fringe online communities.
 
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I am. But when it comes to looks and the importance of them, we will just never see eye to eye. They came from a different time and era, where things had different priorities etc. I can't talk to them about any issues otherwise they just say to "get over it" or "be confident", so I turn to strangers in fringe online communities.
I am glad to hear that you are kind to your parents. Unfortunately a lot of people who identify as incels tend to be jerkbags towards their parents and not to the bad people around them. I agree that parents will not be seeing things eye to eye when it comes to societal beliefs, but like you say, they have different experiences.
 
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Went for a job interview, got mogged by the staff there. Most had NW1 - NW1.5 hairlines in their late 20s and 30s. (I'm NW 3 at 22)

AFAIK there was only one other guy who applied for the job. It was a junior position, but really, who are you going to pick? The incel looking dude who dropped out of university and is trying to find a job - or the late 20's guy, who has better talking skills, more assertive, way more experience and education , who was bald but could grow a beard and use his superior forward growth to solve problems.

I got asked if I was married. I GOT ASKED IF I WAS FUCKING MARRIED.

I'm 22. FUCKING 22 AND I PASS AS SOMEONE IN THEIR EARLY 30S :feelsrope:

I hadn't even finished the journey home before I was called to say I didn't get the job.
There are married 22 year olds out there.
 
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Her birthday is only a few days away from mine. If I was born in Korea I would've been a gigamogger.
I want to go to squishy land!!
 
I got asked if I was married. I GOT ASKED IF I WAS FUCKING MARRIED.
You should have said: "No sir! For me work is the first priority! Work, work, work! Getting a job here is my dream.". Companies love unmarried people, they can squeeze more work out of them, since they have less responsibilities at home.
 
I want to go to squishy land!!
I want to, because apparently the women are hot, but I would probably end up being mogged by even women (being pretty is prioritized in Asia, I'm just ugly).
 
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You should have said: "No sir! For me work is the first priority! Work, work, work! Getting a job here is my dream.". Companies love unmarried people, they can squeeze more work out of them, since they have less responsibilities at home.
Funny thing is, is that all three guys who were interviewing me were married. They obviously made sure to mention their wives / children at least twice. They say they don't have much free time due to having wives / children, but they seem to bring it up and seem quite happy about it.
 
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Funny thing is, is that all three guys who were interviewing me were married. They obviously made sure to mention their wives / children at least twice. They say they don't have much free time due to having wives / children, but they seem to bring it up and seem quite happy about it.
Yeah, married guys tend to hate and envy those unmarried, they want to somehow justify their shitty decision and drag others into the married lifestyle, so they won't be the only ones to suffer. To a potential boss is better however to tell him that work is the main focus of your life.
 
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Yeah, married guys tend to hate and envy those unmarried, they want to somehow justify their shitty decision and drag others into the married lifestyle, so they won't be the only ones to suffer. To a potential boss is better however to tell him that work is the main focus of your life.
IDK, I got the opposite vibe from them, like they really enjoyed being married. Seeing as they're average looking (with average jobs), they probably were't getting much attention from women anyway tbh.

Yeah, maybe saying that work is the main focus of my life might get me brownie points, but then again, what if he really was, as you were saying, just trying to justify himself being married and takes the response as an attack on him.
 
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