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first of all this shit is not edited and i cant spell so bite me. slayers feel free to fact check me if im wrong.
this thread is geared twards improving basic sex skills, it will therefore go through a bare bones detailed instructional list. it is VERY IMPORTANT TO NOTE that this is NOT intended to be followed word for word. it is simply to give you an idea of how a tried and true strategy works. i will then explain in bulleted detail how different things work
Basic thread organization
prelude (bare bones sex instructions)
details:
Prelude, simple sex instructions all unnesisary complexities removed
-first of all sex does not need to be complicated to be good but ill explain that later
-foreplay = 60% P in V = 40%
details:
the most important thing about foreplay is anticipation. waiting for the proper time to continue to the next step is important, when you are cuddling you should wait untill the physical satisfaction is not enough anymore. cuddle "harder" untill you cannot bear not eating each others face. the kissing will only feel enjoyable/exiting if there is significant anticipation/buildup. same with all the steps of sex. dont put ur dick in untill shes moaning and dripping with her legs wrapped around you and its CLEAR that she cant take the anticipation anymore. also keep your bodies close/interlocked during the entire time. minimize any time where your bodies are physically apart, taking of clothes/putting on condoms ruins the moment even though it takes less than a minute. ideally the longest time you are apart is when you take her pants off (unavoidable time expense). only take off other clothes if you can do it with minimal time expense, better to fuck her with her shirt on then take 2 minutes to take it and her bra off. it ruins the moment.
the entire foreplay thing will likely take a long time, with a new girl you havent fucked yet then probably 2+ hours, also even if you get good at it long is still ideal, but never worry about how long it takes. just enjoy the process and wait till her anticipation is past its breaking point.
neck kissing done correctly is the most important foreplay activity. boob kissing especialy her nipples can be very good as well, depends on the girl tho, not required. once you have reached this point you should be very aggressive with her moving her into a more submissive position. holding her neck, hair, pushing on her hips, boobs, ets... be gentle but strong and decisive.
i almost allways get on top of a girl and between her legs while making out (waiting for the anticipation to build to that point) once you are there you can put your knee/thigh into her crotch and just apply some pressure without moving it (this is very effective if she is very aroused). and at some point move to where both your crotches are pushing together (you are still clothed) this will build more anticipation.
as you pull her head back by her hair to suck on her neck while you squese her waste with your bulge against her pants she will for sure be wet as fuck if you took your time with all this. but dont fuck her yet, let her feel it be so close but not quite there till she needs it inside her.
you must seem eager while your doing this. when you kiss her neck it has to be ravenous like your pulling her into you clawing at her... even if you arent actually ravenous you gotta act that way. like you realllllly want her and your taking it aggresivly, like your loosing control of yourself. this is hot to girls.
best position in my opinion is missionary, i have tried lot of them but missionary works the best. also i rairly switch positions unless i am doing more then 20min streight of sex or something. another good position is pronebone where she lays on her back.
as far as cumming quickly or whatver i used to cum in like 30 sec. now it takes me longer usually at least 5 min. often 20 min streight ish, one time over 1.5 hours straight i measured, only with slight pauses if i got close. im gauging the time where i am P in V.
i used to go 2-3 rounds but now i usually only do 1 or maybe 2. second round its almost impossible to cum. can go forever literally. its all experience. dont be embaressed if you cum really fast when you first start having sex.
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used to think condoms were cucked but lowk not really, stay safe kids. yes a girl letting you raw dawg cum in her is cool for ur ego, you feel like an alpha chad. but you might also end up with gonnorea paying child support and thats not a very alpha chad move.
also carry a few condoms, once u cum in one you kinda need a new one so if you do multiple rounds you will be good. one girl i fucked with a condom and then tried to use it again when it was still on my dick, it broke and had to give her a plan b, i actually fucked her and came in her like 2 more times rawcuz we were like "fuck it" after the first one broke, she wasnt on birth control tho. it was a whole mess she reaced wierd to the plan B. good thing tho she was like a week past ovulation so it was fine anyway. plan B wouldnt have done anything. still thats a gamble as is.
if you are gonna pull out ideally you cum in their mouth, not all girls are chill with this tho but lotta them are. if not just do it on their belly or something idk. but then u gotta clean it up
some girls like cum, usually freaky ones. one time i ate my cum out of a girl and then made out with her (inb4 gay allagations) she said it was really hot afterwards.
additional activities/specifics/concepts
very usefull if you arent going to cum inside and she will swollow just do that at the end it makes things easier.
in additon if you reach into the vagina 0-3 inches and press up twards the belly you will feel the hard pelvic bone, running along the bone is a little fleshy bit that you can press on, your pressing it between the bone and your finger.
the little thing i dont know the name of, press hard/rub it and that will work well.
also the soft fleshy area past the bone a lil deeper if you press up on it.
trying different angles and slighlty different alignments is critical, (move her legs/hips and hold them in different positions. also your hips try pushing in at a different angle untill you get a good idea of what works.)
holding your penis stationary deep inside in the right spot will feel very good to the girl (also gives your a break for a few secons if you are going to cum) doing little tiny movements in the right spot can work as well. doesent need to be long strokes. switch your angle/candence/ets... interminttently but not too often, if something is working keep doing it for a minute before adjusting do something else
faster =/= better, pounding like porn can work. but slow in and out at the right angle often works better.
experiment and see what works
main areas for neck kissing above
boobs (be less gentle than you think you should be.) the actual mammory which feels like hard chunks inside the fat of the boob if you poke it is sensitive to pressure.)
inner thigh
neck
ass (somwhat overated)
waist (underrated)
force her back into an arch (pull waist too you while making out)
push her into more volnerable/submissive positions in general
spread her cheeks/pussy while fucking if convienent
hair (to hold her head or scratch scalp)
notes
be sure she is actuall ok tho if she doesnt seem into it then prolly not a good idea.
afterward make sure she doesnt regret it, if your good at forplay you can convince almost anyone to fuck you. i have fucked cute little "good girls" who realized after that they just doubled their bodycount becouse of a meaningless hookup. you dont want her to be bitter about it. especially if your hooking up with a low bodycount/virgin. if you are pleasent she is less likely to remeber it badly.
grabbing a girls head by the hair/neck and moving/twisting their head to makout or kiss her neck is very good/dominent thing to do. or manhandling her legs into positions while you fuck her. also grabbing her waist. anything that pushes her into a more submissive or suggestive position is gooooood
girls have told me it was very good cuz of how i was dominent, but i dont even do anything crazy. just some light things. it doesent take anyting too extreme to support their psycological need to be dominated a little bit goes a long way. and it doesent have to be very extreme to be exiting. girls minds WANT too feel this and if you give them a little their mind will fill in the gaps.
a lot of domence is just low inhb and doing what u want. using the girl for what u want, now that doesnt mean you should put ur dick in her ass randomly just cuz you want too. but if your fucking her from behind and wanna kiss her, grab her by the neck and twist her head back to kiss you. if you arent getting deep enough, move her legs and manhandle her to hit it better. if shes trying to tap out but your not done yet (good sign) pin her down and keep going. its hard to explain but you will get it with practice.
ironically the best way to please a girl is to make them please you. using them and doing whatever u want forcing them along, trying to please a girl and bieng gentle is fine but girls want to feel like YOU are realllly enjoying THEM. thats what they enjoy.
also dont try to do all this shit when you start the first few times, its fine if you are a lil gay cuck at first you will figure it out, dont try to be a tough guy the experience comes with time.
- legs shaking, this happens if you fuck them well for a decent ammount of time
- very wet, pretty self explanitory. low bar to clear tbh but also depends on the girl
- uncontrollable sounds, sometimes girls will try to hold moans in but cant, this is good
- girl very out of breath/cant speak despite just laying there
- doing shit they regret later (good indicator, also could be looks tho)
- very changed mood after, for example munchies, hyper, ets... its a good sign if you fuck their brain chemestry enough so they act like they just took two scoops of pre workout post sex
- one time a girl was fed up with me in my car in the city and and wanted to get out, but i was like ok kiss goodbye? made out with her and built up to some forplay in the back of my car (very calculated high effort forplay). she got so horny she urgently made me drive somwhere secluded to fuck her (30 min away).
- embaresment, this is actually good generally girls will sometimes cover their face when cumming repeatedly or act shy, also if you really dominate them they will be embarresed becouse you had power over them and they submitted to you, or you "saw that side of them." kind of like they gave you something and they cant take it back. but more than normally for sex.
- tapping out, i tell them tapping out is not allowed beforhand and they laugh at me but they try to tap out anyway. so i just pin them and keep going, they dont seem to mind afterwards tho.
- unrelated to this thread but i just showed a JB a picture of my insane frame and she was like "this doesent mean anything burrrr ur actually way finer than i thought" thank my fucking dad for mogger genetics.
-also my dick is 7.5 inches bonepressed
-nobody read this far but im a fag i have gay sex with @Amnesia
random ass texts ig from like 3 different girls i would have a bunch but my old phone broke and i lost the photos, also im not a validation whore so i dont record every single thing.
@Aladin
@Brus Wane
ask me shit i definently forgot something i wrote this whole thing in my bed in the last 3 hours.
this thread is geared twards improving basic sex skills, it will therefore go through a bare bones detailed instructional list. it is VERY IMPORTANT TO NOTE that this is NOT intended to be followed word for word. it is simply to give you an idea of how a tried and true strategy works. i will then explain in bulleted detail how different things work
Basic thread organization
prelude (bare bones sex instructions)
details:
- forplay
- kissing
- sex
- cummingggg
- after
- oral on you
- oral on her
- fingering
- neck kissing
- boob kissing
- mouth kissing
- communication
- sounds
- how to be aggressive (important)
- female perspecive (important)
- results
GUIDE
Prelude, simple sex instructions all unnesisary complexities removed
-first of all sex does not need to be complicated to be good but ill explain that later
-foreplay = 60% P in V = 40%
- cuddle in a bed and let sexual tension build, this is important
- start kissing and while kissing and be more physically controlling/aggressive with her body, kiss her neck as well.
- move on top of her (if not already)
- she should be moaning/gasping and extreamly horny/exited
- sit up to pull her pants off. then get back to making out as before
- reach down and finger her
- pull your pants down and push your dick in slowly
- hold her firmly as you insert and start fucking her, do same things as before (kissing ets...) with less frequency, just missionary is fine, if you get tired switch maybe.
- cum inside her, makeout slowly after
- gently cuddle with her
- repeat if desired
details:
- forplay
the most important thing about foreplay is anticipation. waiting for the proper time to continue to the next step is important, when you are cuddling you should wait untill the physical satisfaction is not enough anymore. cuddle "harder" untill you cannot bear not eating each others face. the kissing will only feel enjoyable/exiting if there is significant anticipation/buildup. same with all the steps of sex. dont put ur dick in untill shes moaning and dripping with her legs wrapped around you and its CLEAR that she cant take the anticipation anymore. also keep your bodies close/interlocked during the entire time. minimize any time where your bodies are physically apart, taking of clothes/putting on condoms ruins the moment even though it takes less than a minute. ideally the longest time you are apart is when you take her pants off (unavoidable time expense). only take off other clothes if you can do it with minimal time expense, better to fuck her with her shirt on then take 2 minutes to take it and her bra off. it ruins the moment.
the entire foreplay thing will likely take a long time, with a new girl you havent fucked yet then probably 2+ hours, also even if you get good at it long is still ideal, but never worry about how long it takes. just enjoy the process and wait till her anticipation is past its breaking point.
neck kissing done correctly is the most important foreplay activity. boob kissing especialy her nipples can be very good as well, depends on the girl tho, not required. once you have reached this point you should be very aggressive with her moving her into a more submissive position. holding her neck, hair, pushing on her hips, boobs, ets... be gentle but strong and decisive.
i almost allways get on top of a girl and between her legs while making out (waiting for the anticipation to build to that point) once you are there you can put your knee/thigh into her crotch and just apply some pressure without moving it (this is very effective if she is very aroused). and at some point move to where both your crotches are pushing together (you are still clothed) this will build more anticipation.
as you pull her head back by her hair to suck on her neck while you squese her waste with your bulge against her pants she will for sure be wet as fuck if you took your time with all this. but dont fuck her yet, let her feel it be so close but not quite there till she needs it inside her.
you must seem eager while your doing this. when you kiss her neck it has to be ravenous like your pulling her into you clawing at her... even if you arent actually ravenous you gotta act that way. like you realllllly want her and your taking it aggresivly, like your loosing control of yourself. this is hot to girls.
- sex
best position in my opinion is missionary, i have tried lot of them but missionary works the best. also i rairly switch positions unless i am doing more then 20min streight of sex or something. another good position is pronebone where she lays on her back.
as far as cumming quickly or whatver i used to cum in like 30 sec. now it takes me longer usually at least 5 min. often 20 min streight ish, one time over 1.5 hours straight i measured, only with slight pauses if i got close. im gauging the time where i am P in V.
i used to go 2-3 rounds but now i usually only do 1 or maybe 2. second round its almost impossible to cum. can go forever literally. its all experience. dont be embaressed if you cum really fast when you first start having sex.
- cummingggg
.used to think condoms were cucked but lowk not really, stay safe kids. yes a girl letting you raw dawg cum in her is cool for ur ego, you feel like an alpha chad. but you might also end up with gonnorea paying child support and thats not a very alpha chad move.
also carry a few condoms, once u cum in one you kinda need a new one so if you do multiple rounds you will be good. one girl i fucked with a condom and then tried to use it again when it was still on my dick, it broke and had to give her a plan b, i actually fucked her and came in her like 2 more times raw
cuz we were like "fuck it" after the first one broke, she wasnt on birth control tho. it was a whole mess she reaced wierd to the plan B. good thing tho she was like a week past ovulation so it was fine anyway. plan B wouldnt have done anything. still thats a gamble as is.if you are gonna pull out ideally you cum in their mouth, not all girls are chill with this tho but lotta them are. if not just do it on their belly or something idk. but then u gotta clean it up
some girls like cum, usually freaky ones. one time i ate my cum out of a girl and then made out with her (inb4 gay allagations) she said it was really hot afterwards.
- after
additional activities/specifics/concepts
- oral on you
very usefull if you arent going to cum inside and she will swollow just do that at the end it makes things easier.
- oral on her
- fingering
in additon if you reach into the vagina 0-3 inches and press up twards the belly you will feel the hard pelvic bone, running along the bone is a little fleshy bit that you can press on, your pressing it between the bone and your finger.
the little thing i dont know the name of, press hard/rub it and that will work well.
also the soft fleshy area past the bone a lil deeper if you press up on it.
- penetration
trying different angles and slighlty different alignments is critical, (move her legs/hips and hold them in different positions. also your hips try pushing in at a different angle untill you get a good idea of what works.)
holding your penis stationary deep inside in the right spot will feel very good to the girl (also gives your a break for a few secons if you are going to cum) doing little tiny movements in the right spot can work as well. doesent need to be long strokes. switch your angle/candence/ets... interminttently but not too often, if something is working keep doing it for a minute before adjusting do something else
faster =/= better, pounding like porn can work. but slow in and out at the right angle often works better.
experiment and see what works
- neck kissing
main areas for neck kissing above
- boob kissing
- mouth kissing
- places to touch
boobs (be less gentle than you think you should be.) the actual mammory which feels like hard chunks inside the fat of the boob if you poke it is sensitive to pressure.)
inner thigh
neck
ass (somwhat overated)
waist (underrated)
force her back into an arch (pull waist too you while making out)
push her into more volnerable/submissive positions in general
spread her cheeks/pussy while fucking if convienent
hair (to hold her head or scratch scalp)
notes
- communication
be sure she is actuall ok tho if she doesnt seem into it then prolly not a good idea.
afterward make sure she doesnt regret it, if your good at forplay you can convince almost anyone to fuck you. i have fucked cute little "good girls" who realized after that they just doubled their bodycount becouse of a meaningless hookup. you dont want her to be bitter about it. especially if your hooking up with a low bodycount/virgin. if you are pleasent she is less likely to remeber it badly.
- sounds
- how to be aggressive (important)
grabbing a girls head by the hair/neck and moving/twisting their head to makout or kiss her neck is very good/dominent thing to do. or manhandling her legs into positions while you fuck her. also grabbing her waist. anything that pushes her into a more submissive or suggestive position is gooooood
girls have told me it was very good cuz of how i was dominent, but i dont even do anything crazy. just some light things. it doesent take anyting too extreme to support their psycological need to be dominated a little bit goes a long way. and it doesent have to be very extreme to be exiting. girls minds WANT too feel this and if you give them a little their mind will fill in the gaps.
a lot of domence is just low inhb and doing what u want. using the girl for what u want, now that doesnt mean you should put ur dick in her ass randomly just cuz you want too. but if your fucking her from behind and wanna kiss her, grab her by the neck and twist her head back to kiss you. if you arent getting deep enough, move her legs and manhandle her to hit it better. if shes trying to tap out but your not done yet (good sign) pin her down and keep going. its hard to explain but you will get it with practice.
ironically the best way to please a girl is to make them please you. using them and doing whatever u want forcing them along, trying to please a girl and bieng gentle is fine but girls want to feel like YOU are realllly enjoying THEM. thats what they enjoy.
also dont try to do all this shit when you start the first few times, its fine if you are a lil gay cuck at first you will figure it out, dont try to be a tough guy the experience comes with time.
- female perspecive (important)
- results
- legs shaking, this happens if you fuck them well for a decent ammount of time
- very wet, pretty self explanitory. low bar to clear tbh but also depends on the girl
- uncontrollable sounds, sometimes girls will try to hold moans in but cant, this is good
- girl very out of breath/cant speak despite just laying there
- doing shit they regret later (good indicator, also could be looks tho)
- very changed mood after, for example munchies, hyper, ets... its a good sign if you fuck their brain chemestry enough so they act like they just took two scoops of pre workout post sex
- one time a girl was fed up with me in my car in the city and and wanted to get out, but i was like ok kiss goodbye? made out with her and built up to some forplay in the back of my car (very calculated high effort forplay). she got so horny she urgently made me drive somwhere secluded to fuck her (30 min away).
- embaresment, this is actually good generally girls will sometimes cover their face when cumming repeatedly or act shy, also if you really dominate them they will be embarresed becouse you had power over them and they submitted to you, or you "saw that side of them." kind of like they gave you something and they cant take it back. but more than normally for sex.
- tapping out, i tell them tapping out is not allowed beforhand and they laugh at me
but they try to tap out anyway. so i just pin them and keep going, they dont seem to mind afterwards tho.- unrelated to this thread but i just showed a JB a picture of my insane frame and she was like "this doesent mean anything burrrr ur actually way finer than i thought" thank my fucking dad for mogger genetics.
-also my dick is 7.5 inches bonepressed
-nobody read this far but im a fag i have gay sex with @Amnesia
random ass texts ig from like 3 different girls i would have a bunch but my old phone broke and i lost the photos, also im not a validation whore so i dont record every single thing.
@Aladin
@Brus Wane
ask me shit i definently forgot something i wrote this whole thing in my bed in the last 3 hours.
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