Been going out with a girl 9 years younger than me recently

[Deleted member 616]

End of May this 19 y.o. German girl found my insta through common followers and slid into my DM. After exchanging a few words we decided to meet up. She was already very intimate towards me from the start, and we had sex on our 3rd date. Now we're meeting up 2-3 times a week (she lives 100km away from me).

Pros about her :
- Very good body : tall (170cm), big tits(34D), big ass, long legs. Could be a model if her tits were less saggy.
- Light green eyes
- Willing to fulfill my sexual fantasies
- Still kinda unexperienced in sex so I can unlock her fantasies
- Doesn't have any male friends
- Doesn't like drinking / smoking / clubbing at all
- Willing to learn my language (French)
- Always laughing and soft spoken when around me, never bitchy or nasty
- Makes everything easy for me so I don't have to make any efforts

Cons about her :
- Face is a 4psl at best with some significant flaws (UEE, flat chin, no bones whatsoever).
- Thin light blonde hair (she dyed her eyebrows black)
- Pale skin that never gets tanned
- Already spreading my name all around in her circles while I want to stay low key before my looksmaxing is completed
- Might be a liability for my looksmaxing plans since she's already getting very attached. I need to find some excuses for my post surgery downtime.

I do enjoy spending time with her - that feeling of being admired and being young again, but the blackpill is still haunting me. I can't stop myself from looking at more attractive girls and feeling sad. She already talked about LTR prospects several times, to which I always said "Well, you know that relationships, affaires, f+ etc., they are all etiquettes, why labeling ourselves with that? If we were in an official relationship we wouldn't be so chilled anymore. We'd tend to think too much, get anxious, get jealous etc."

While that was not completely a lie, the another half of the truth is, if she looked like this :

and has the same personality. I'd probably commit to her

That said it still feels nice to mess around with her. She's the first western woman I've messed around with since 2016 (was only banging EE girls in the mean time), and the youngest one since 2010. She is also very honest about why she's into me, saying "I like your body, your hair, your eyes, everything" (she even uses my back muscle pic as lockscreen JFL) , which is a solid validation of my looksmaxing endeavors.

I already made an appointment for my lower eyelid surgery + lateral canthoplasty for 7th August. And I'm already looking into possible lower third surgeries. The girl is nice but it's no point giving up my looksmaxing ambitions for her. It's not only about getting a better looking gf, but also being a giga mogger, becoming semi famous and getting that constant huge dopamine rush - a wish that she can't fulfill for me.

It's all or nothing. Get looks or die.

 

[rydofx]

Nice fam. You are doing 1000% better then i am. I just blow it with women 24/7. I think ur on a good path to finding ur soul mate

 

[Chadeep]

Creater of iconic quote is Back. " Be Chad or Die Trying"

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Life was wasted indeed

 

[Karstossos]

show face or meaningless convo honestly

 

[Deleted member 5746]

Wow nice job i guess body isn't cope

 

[Deleted member 4209]

LUCKY

 

[Eezz]

I realy hope you fucking die I realy do, I would sell my mother for a tall white girl

 

[Cares]

Tits or gtfo

 

[Deleted member 6400]

good luck with your looksmaxxing pal,we're all gonna make it

 

[Chad69]

You can legit be my dad ngl

 

[Cope]

Why humblebrag if you're not gonna show pics of either you or the chick? Just comes off as an obvious larp.

 

[Raddemon]

You can legit be my dad ngl

nigga u good ?

 

[Chad69]

nigga u good ?

Yes bro

 

[eyearea]

End of May this 19 y.o. German girl found my insta through common followers and slid into my DM. After exchanging a few words we decided to meet up. She was already very intimate towards me from the start, and we had sex on our 3rd date. Now we're meeting up 2-3 times a week (she lives 100km away from me).

Pros about her :
- Very good body : tall (170cm), big tits(34D), big ass, long legs. Could be a model if her tits were less saggy.
- Light green eyes
- Willing to fulfill my sexual fantasies
- Still kinda unexperienced in sex so I can unlock her fantasies
- Doesn't have any male friends
- Doesn't like drinking / smoking / clubbing at all
- Willing to learn my language (French)
- Always laughing and soft spoken when around me, never bitchy or nasty
- Makes everything easy for me so I don't have to make any efforts

Cons about her :
- Face is a 4psl at best with some significant flaws (UEE, flat chin, no bones whatsoever).
- Thin light blonde hair (she dyed her eyebrows black)
- Pale skin that never gets tanned
- Already spreading my name all around in her circles while I want to stay low key before my looksmaxing is completed
- Might be a liability for my looksmaxing plans since she's already getting very attached. I need to find some excuses for my post surgery downtime.

I do enjoy spending time with her - that feeling of being admired and being young again, but the blackpill is still haunting me. I can't stop myself from looking at more attractive girls and feeling sad. She already talked about LTR prospects several times, to which I always said "Well, you know that relationships, affaires, f+ etc., they are all etiquettes, why labeling ourselves with that? If we were in an official relationship we wouldn't be so chilled anymore. We'd tend to think too much, get anxious, get jealous etc."

While that was not completely a lie, the another half of the truth is, if she looked like this :
View attachment 478755View attachment 478756View attachment 478757
and has the same personality. I'd probably commit to her

That said it still feels nice to mess around with her. She's the first western woman I've messed around with since 2016 (was only banging EE girls in the mean time), and the youngest one since 2010. She is also very honest about why she's into me, saying "I like your body, your hair, your eyes, everything" (she even uses my back muscle pic as lockscreen JFL) , which is a solid validation of my looksmaxing endeavors.

I already made an appointment for my lower eyelid surgery + lateral canthoplasty for 7th August. And I'm already looking into possible lower third surgeries. The girl is nice but it's no point giving up my looksmaxing ambitions for her. It's not only about getting a better looking gf, but also being a giga mogger, becoming semi famous and getting that constant huge dopamine rush - a wish that she can't fulfill for me.

It's all or nothing. Get looks or die.

cope. i mog you give me her number

 

[poloralf]

End of May this 19 y.o. German girl found my insta through common followers and slid into my DM. After exchanging a few words we decided to meet up. She was already very intimate towards me from the start, and we had sex on our 3rd date. Now we're meeting up 2-3 times a week (she lives 100km away from me).

Pros about her :
- Very good body : tall (170cm), big tits(34D), big ass, long legs. Could be a model if her tits were less saggy.
- Light green eyes
- Willing to fulfill my sexual fantasies
- Still kinda unexperienced in sex so I can unlock her fantasies
- Doesn't have any male friends
- Doesn't like drinking / smoking / clubbing at all
- Willing to learn my language (French)
- Always laughing and soft spoken when around me, never bitchy or nasty
- Makes everything easy for me so I don't have to make any efforts

Cons about her :
- Face is a 4psl at best with some significant flaws (UEE, flat chin, no bones whatsoever).
- Thin light blonde hair (she dyed her eyebrows black)
- Pale skin that never gets tanned
- Already spreading my name all around in her circles while I want to stay low key before my looksmaxing is completed
- Might be a liability for my looksmaxing plans since she's already getting very attached. I need to find some excuses for my post surgery downtime.

I do enjoy spending time with her - that feeling of being admired and being young again, but the blackpill is still haunting me. I can't stop myself from looking at more attractive girls and feeling sad. She already talked about LTR prospects several times, to which I always said "Well, you know that relationships, affaires, f+ etc., they are all etiquettes, why labeling ourselves with that? If we were in an official relationship we wouldn't be so chilled anymore. We'd tend to think too much, get anxious, get jealous etc."

While that was not completely a lie, the another half of the truth is, if she looked like this :
View attachment 478755View attachment 478756View attachment 478757
and has the same personality. I'd probably commit to her

That said it still feels nice to mess around with her. She's the first western woman I've messed around with since 2016 (was only banging EE girls in the mean time), and the youngest one since 2010. She is also very honest about why she's into me, saying "I like your body, your hair, your eyes, everything" (she even uses my back muscle pic as lockscreen JFL) , which is a solid validation of my looksmaxing endeavors.

I already made an appointment for my lower eyelid surgery + lateral canthoplasty for 7th August. And I'm already looking into possible lower third surgeries. The girl is nice but it's no point giving up my looksmaxing ambitions for her. It's not only about getting a better looking gf, but also being a giga mogger, becoming semi famous and getting that constant huge dopamine rush - a wish that she can't fulfill for me.

It's all or nothing. Get looks or die.

Parisian golden curry will steal her from you

 

[Ascendant]

End of May this 19 y.o. German girl found my insta through common followers and slid into my DM. After exchanging a few words we decided to meet up. She was already very intimate towards me from the start, and we had sex on our 3rd date. Now we're meeting up 2-3 times a week (she lives 100km away from me).

Pros about her :
- Very good body : tall (170cm), big tits(34D), big ass, long legs. Could be a model if her tits were less saggy.
- Light green eyes
- Willing to fulfill my sexual fantasies
- Still kinda unexperienced in sex so I can unlock her fantasies
- Doesn't have any male friends
- Doesn't like drinking / smoking / clubbing at all
- Willing to learn my language (French)
- Always laughing and soft spoken when around me, never bitchy or nasty
- Makes everything easy for me so I don't have to make any efforts

Cons about her :
- Face is a 4psl at best with some significant flaws (UEE, flat chin, no bones whatsoever).
- Thin light blonde hair (she dyed her eyebrows black)
- Pale skin that never gets tanned
- Already spreading my name all around in her circles while I want to stay low key before my looksmaxing is completed
- Might be a liability for my looksmaxing plans since she's already getting very attached. I need to find some excuses for my post surgery downtime.

I do enjoy spending time with her - that feeling of being admired and being young again, but the blackpill is still haunting me. I can't stop myself from looking at more attractive girls and feeling sad. She already talked about LTR prospects several times, to which I always said "Well, you know that relationships, affaires, f+ etc., they are all etiquettes, why labeling ourselves with that? If we were in an official relationship we wouldn't be so chilled anymore. We'd tend to think too much, get anxious, get jealous etc."

While that was not completely a lie, the another half of the truth is, if she looked like this :
View attachment 478755View attachment 478756View attachment 478757
and has the same personality. I'd probably commit to her

That said it still feels nice to mess around with her. She's the first western woman I've messed around with since 2016 (was only banging EE girls in the mean time), and the youngest one since 2010. She is also very honest about why she's into me, saying "I like your body, your hair, your eyes, everything" (she even uses my back muscle pic as lockscreen JFL) , which is a solid validation of my looksmaxing endeavors.

I already made an appointment for my lower eyelid surgery + lateral canthoplasty for 7th August. And I'm already looking into possible lower third surgeries. The girl is nice but it's no point giving up my looksmaxing ambitions for her. It's not only about getting a better looking gf, but also being a giga mogger, becoming semi famous and getting that constant huge dopamine rush - a wish that she can't fulfill for me.

It's all or nothing. Get looks or die.

Honestly very based. Everyone should know that you cant stop your progress for emotional femoid creatures. She might like you now, but its not guarantee that she will in 1 year, heck even 6 months.

Looksmaxxing is a life long task and comes before anything else, even before family. Because if youre looksmaxed to a high degree, you could always start a new family and if it fails another family and so on. You cant do that if you let yourself go and prioritize wife and family.

 

[Deleted member 616]

Honestly very based. Everyone should know that you cant stop your progress for emotional femoid creatures. She might like you now, but its not guarantee that she will in 1 year, heck even 6 months.

Looksmaxxing is a life long task and comes before anything else, even before family. Because if youre looksmaxed to a high degree, you could always start a new family and if it fails another family and so on. You cant do that if you let yourself go and prioritize wife and family.

That's true but people tend to underestimate the fact that good times with the opposite sex is very likely to kill your ambition and determination. I remember there was a member on this site who used to be very based yet started to consider marrying his new gf several months after they got together. That's also the reason why I decided to come back to this site. The daily blackpill is essential to keep me on the right track.

 

[Ascendant]

That's true but people tend to underestimate the fact that good times with the opposite sex is very likely to kill your ambition and determination. I remember there was a member on this site who used to be very based yet started to consider marrying his new gf several months after they got together. That's also the reason why I decided to come back to this site. The daily blackpill is essential to keep me on the right track.

Yeah thats a huge weakness, that makes many men lose their ambition to keep improving and looksmaxing when they have good times with a foid, which is only a downwards spiral.

The initial "excitement" and "novelty" of the new partner vanishes rather fast, one has to be prepared for times after that, cause nothing is eternal. You might like her now and in 1 year, but in 2 you might not any more, same for her. Gotta always be prepared for what comes "after", become more often than not, "after" comes sooner than one expects.

 

[johncruz12345]

Lets us go

 

[Deleted member 6403]

don't ever cuff her bro, keep her on her toes

 

[Germania]

What is your PSL OP?

 

[Deleted member 616]

The initial "excitement" and "novelty" of the new partner vanishes rather fast, one has to be prepared for times after that, cause nothing is eternal. You might like her now and in 1 year, but in 2 you might not any more, same for her. Gotta always be prepared for what comes "after", become more often than not, "after" comes sooner than one expects.

Know that too good tbh. I used to be in LTR where we even started talking marriage and kids but everything went shit 1-2 years later.

It's indeed a human weakness to be content with the initial excitement. As blackpilled as I am I need to constantly remind myself of it before falling too deep, especially when she talked about going on vacation together for example.

 

[MogTheMogger]

lets fucking go, i missed your threads. also post her body op. nothing to lose

 

[Ascendant]

Know that too good tbh. I used to be in LTR where we even started talking marriage and kids but everything went shit 1-2 years later.

It's indeed a human weakness to be content with the initial excitement. As blackpilled as I am I need to constantly remind myself of it before falling too deep, especially when she talked about going on vacation together for example.

Good post, agree. I would also only go on vacation together if it was a legit LTR already or even plans of marrying etc.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

She is in Germany and you're in France and you're meeting 3 times a week?

wtf

 

[Usum]

I've compromised when I was young but never below 5 psl.
Respect yourself bro.

 

[Tyronecell]

Good job OP

 

[eduardkoopman]

Winning age wise.

It's cool to play the field.
it's cool to go into more commiment and go LTR with a really good fit, as well.

Each has it's good and bad points

 

[Germania]

She is in Germany and you're in France and you're meeting 3 times a week?

wtf

where is the problem? we are neighboring countries

 

[eduardkoopman]

That's true but people tend to underestimate the fact that good times with the opposite sex is very likely to kill your ambition and determination. I remember there was a member on this site who used to be very based yet started to consider marrying his new gf several months after they got together. That's also the reason why I decided to come back to this site. The daily blackpill is essential to keep me on the right track.

Truth.
Although in a liet version.
I went from like PSL 4- to PSL3 during my 4 year LTR. Basically, not caring much about apprearance as I did before

 

[Deleted member 616]

Truth.
Although in a liet version.
I went from like PSL 4- to PSL3 during my 4 year LTR. Basically, not caring much about apprearance as I did before

My ex told me I was "obsessed with my appearance", "I just want a normal guy, not a model".

JFL @ her.

 

[Vitruvian]

Wish you well. May u breed warrior blackpilled children with her

 

[eduardkoopman]

My ex told me I was "obsessed with my appearance", "I just want a normal guy, not a model".

JFL @ her.

Yeah.
JFL @ her.

AND, even is your LTR wants a lesser looking/normal dude.

It's your appearance.
+ Halo effect from good looks: RUN much much further then dating. It's usefull for work, getting help from others, and so on.
So bitch gotta back off. And let you claim myour time that needs to be spend on looksmaxxing to stay good looking.

Proofs. Looks go far beyong dating.

 

[Deusmaximus]

I would never ever date a girl 3 times before having first sex.
9yr difference will not work with ltr, keep her as a fuckbuddy and search for a bit older ltr.

 

[Patient A]

The daily blackpill is essential to keep me on the right track.

 

[Deleted member 6873]

16, I was 173cm tall, 52kg, pale,

damn nigga, carbon copy of me.

 

[Selfahate]

Based never date a women older then 24

 

[SteveRogers]

damn nigga, carbon copy of me.

You're GL though
Plus early blackpill, you'll ascend hard.

 

[Deleted member 6873]

You're GL though
Plus early blackpill, you'll ascend hard.

Thanks habibi.
Started gymcelling again and hopefully i'll be able to get a proper tan this summer.
+ planning on running some ostarine soon ngl

 

[eduardkoopman]

I would never ever date a girl 3 times before having first sex.
9yr difference will not work with ltr, keep her as a fuckbuddy and search for a bit older ltr.

9 year age difference is not that big a deal. I think.
LTR as in for lifetime it will likely not woprk, but that's the same for everyone also same aged people nowadays.
my mother was 28 years younger then my stepfather, and they were together when he passed away for 30 years.

SO I wouldn't focus to much on the age thing.
Most people don't havelife long or long relationships anymore anyways.

ALSO. Looking for a LTYR and not accepting a woman taking 3 dates before fucking you. I dunno, about finding LTR that way. If a chick has zero long game, and fucks you on the first date, she has zero LTR game usually. Assuming such man is a normie. Obvioulsy for Chad apply different rules

 

[Deleted member 616]

Based never date a women older then 24

That's one of my looksmaxing goals ngl. Talked with several foids older than 25 and it never ended up well.

 

[Pietrosiek]

Didnt read much but are ypu looksmaxed hard?

 

[hairyballscel]

17-18cm dick with girth from the gods

what did you do?

 

[SteveRogers]

what did you do?

bathmate, hand clamping, edging and jelqing for girth.

 

[hairyballscel]

bathmate, hand clamping, edging and jelqing for girth.

are clamping gains permanent?

 

[SteveRogers]

are clamping gains permanent?

Time will tell

 

[ObamasLastName]

if she can cook and is good with kids it’s a keeper

 

[Deleted member 3853]

dn rd

 

[Ultramental]

mogs me tbh