being a late bloomer doesn’t fix anything

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people always say “your time will come” but they don’t tell you that by the time it does it won’t even matter anymore, i didn’t glow up in high school, didn’t get noticed, didn’t get compliments, didn’t get anything, girls didn’t even look at me, i was just a face in the background, now i’m 28 and yeah maybe i look a bit better, maybe i get a little attention now, but it feels hollow, it doesn’t hit the same, it’s not genuine, it’s not that pure kind of attention you see kids getting when they’re young and dumb and excited, now it’s just algorithm dating and shallow small talk, now it’s just “you’re cute” but with dead eyes and a phone in hand, and the worst part is knowing they would’ve ignored me back then, i wasn’t good enough when it mattered and now that i “made it” it just feels like a consolation prize, like i got invited to a party after the music stopped and everyone’s leaving, late bloomers don’t win, they just show up to a game that ended years ago, and yeah maybe i’m not ugly now but what’s the point, i missed the era where love actually felt real and spontaneous and dumb and magical, now everything’s a checklist, a strategy, a coping mechanism, i didn’t want to “get hot at 28” i wanted to get passed a note in math class saying “do u like me yes or no”, that stuff’s gone forever and no amount of self improvement brings it back
 
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Time is money
 
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people always say “your time will come” but they don’t tell you that by the time it does it won’t even matter anymore, i didn’t glow up in high school, didn’t get noticed, didn’t get compliments, didn’t get anything, girls didn’t even look at me, i was just a face in the background, now i’m 28 and yeah maybe i look a bit better, maybe i get a little attention now, but it feels hollow, it doesn’t hit the same, it’s not genuine, it’s not that pure kind of attention you see kids getting when they’re young and dumb and excited, now it’s just algorithm dating and shallow small talk, now it’s just “you’re cute” but with dead eyes and a phone in hand, and the worst part is knowing they would’ve ignored me back then, i wasn’t good enough when it mattered and now that i “made it” it just feels like a consolation prize, like i got invited to a party after the music stopped and everyone’s leaving, late bloomers don’t win, they just show up to a game that ended years ago, and yeah maybe i’m not ugly now but what’s the point, i missed the era where love actually felt real and spontaneous and dumb and magical, now everything’s a checklist, a strategy, a coping mechanism, i didn’t want to “get hot at 28” i wanted to get passed a note in math class saying “do u like me yes or no”, that stuff’s gone forever and no amount of self improvement brings it back
Stop being a fag this is ur second attention seeking post. Ur a fully grown man get a grip
 
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are you genuinely retarded or trying to get a rise out of me?
I've known this since I was around 19, its a vent post
I’m just asking cause it seems dumb to only realise now. Well why didn’t u do anything about it then
 
I’m just asking cause it seems dumb to only realise now. Well why didn’t u do anything about it then
what would I have done?
I was ugly, and I wasn't educated on Lipus or roids
 
But at least you have something to cry abt now to get attention
???
ya virtual attention that doesn't mean anything and lasts 0.5 secs
so valuable, just let me vent, do you not know what venting is for..?
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I don't do it for people here I do it for my personal well-being
plus its all archived, I can look back into it if I need
 
???
ya virtual attention that doesn't mean anything and lasts 0.5 secs
so valuable, just let me vent, do you not know what venting is for..?
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I don't do it for people here I do it for my personal well-being
plus its all archived, I can look back into it if I need
That’s not results from online venting, that’s from real venting to another human being that is paying attention to you, probably a psychologist idk but not quite the same. Of course it helps to vent, this doesn’t, all it does is give you some online attention like you said, if you wanted genuine help you wouldn’t do ts
 
???
ya virtual attention that doesn't mean anything and lasts 0.5 secs
so valuable, just let me vent, do you not know what venting is for..?
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I don't do it for people here I do it for my personal well-being
plus its all archived, I can look back into it if I need
But fr if u wanna get better vent to a human
 
That’s not results from online venting, that’s from real venting to another human being that is paying attention to you, probably a psychologist idk but not quite the same. Of course it helps to vent, this doesn’t, all it does is give you some online attention like you said, if you wanted genuine help you wouldn’t do ts
the study says otherwise
 
Use ur head for a second, why would venting to a screen be the same as a human being
the study isn't talking about face to face, it was about writing and virtual
in person venting is therapy

I'm done replying to this argument,
its leading us nowhere
 
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