being approached feels so off

[Fat Ego-tripper]

approaching and observing the girl become ecstatic the second she realizes what's happening feels so much better and more validating as a man, basically signalling you have the upper hand in that entire game in general

the opposite, getting directly approached by them only has one advantage - easy sex (assuming you find them attractive).

other than that, it's off-putting and mostly just means the girl who approached you is male-brained/a whore/desperate to prove something to herself or someone/something else equally detached from the possibility that she finds you exceptionally attractive. it also often means that you were just the first guy with good enough looks she got the chance to interact with, and that it has nothing to do with you standing out beyond passing the minimum threshold

when i was younger, i thought guys who were saying they enjoyed "hunting" way more than just passively waiting for a girl to come to them were just coping with the realization that they have to run numbers game to get pussy (some were probably indeed just coping, if they also looked meh while saying that), but now i realize what they meant

 

[The Homelander]

approaching and observing the girl become ecstatic the second she realizes what's happening feels so much better and more validating as a man

the opposite, getting directly approached by them only has one advantage - easy sex (assuming you find her attractive).

other than that, it's off-putting and mostly just means the girl who approached you is male-brained/a whore/desperate to prove something to herself or someone/something else equally detached from the possibility that she finds you exceptionally attractive

 

[Vultus Tui Res]

approaching and observing the girl become ecstatic the second she realizes what's happening feels so much better and more validating as a man

the opposite, getting directly approached by them only has one advantage - easy sex (assuming you find her attractive).

other than that, it's off-putting and mostly just means the girl who approached you is male-brained/a whore/desperate to prove something to herself or someone/something else equally detached from the possibility that she finds you exceptionally attractive

when i was younger, i thought guys who were saying they enjoyed "hunting" way more than just passively waiting for a girl to come to them were just coping with the realization that they have to run numbers game to get pussy (some were probably indeed just coping, if they also looked meh while saying that), but now i realize what they meant

Agreed.

 

[Fat Ego-tripper]

Agreed.

positively surprised.

posted this because i see vapid virgins constantly yapping about girl approaches; they don't know better, so they assume that's peak "accomplishment" of gl guys, when it couldn't be further from the truth.

obviously, in practice, you'll probably both be successful when approaching and approached frequently (and vice versa, for obvious reasons), but this porn-addict-like obsession with girls jumping on you as the only proof you look good is so childish and telling of the sexual and social experience of guys repeating it like broken records it's sad

 

[Vultus Tui Res]

positively surprised.

posted this because i see vapid virgins constantly yapping about girl approaches; they don't know better, so they assume that's peak "accomplishment" of gl guys, when it couldn't be further from the truth.

obviously, in practice, you'll probably both be successful when approaching and approached frequently (and vice versa, for obvious reasons), but this porn-addict-like obsession with girls jumping on you as the only proof you look good is so childish and telling of the sexual and social experience of guys repeating it like broken records it's sad

Took the words right out off my mouth.

 

[albanianblackguy]

approaching and observing the girl become ecstatic the second she realizes what's happening feels so much better and more validating as a man, basically signalling you have the upper hand in that entire game in general

the opposite, getting directly approached by them only has one advantage - easy sex (assuming you find them attractive).

other than that, it's off-putting and mostly just means the girl who approached you is male-brained/a whore/desperate to prove something to herself or someone/something else equally detached from the possibility that she finds you exceptionally attractive. it also often means that you were just the first guy with good enough looks she got the chance to interact with, and that it has nothing to do with you standing out beyond passing the minimum threshold

when i was younger, i thought guys who were saying they enjoyed "hunting" way more than just passively waiting for a girl to come to them were just coping with the realization that they have to run numbers game to get pussy (some were probably indeed just coping, if they also looked meh while saying that), but now i realize what they meant

ngl when i think about it, i've seen a few girls approach and all of them were mega whores like ran through asf

 

[Fat Ego-tripper]

ngl when i think about it, i've seen a few girls approach and all of them were mega whores like ran through asf

and, even if they are not necessarily promiscuous, when you get directly, overtly sexually approached by a girl out of nowhere (let's exclude nightclubs, where everyone is drunk and horny, here), the first thing that should pop into your mind is - if she did that without any hesitation, knowing women are still looked down on for undertaking the active role in the process, there are two options:
1. you are the best looking guy within a radius of 50 km
2. she probably did the same thing yesterday and will probably do the same thing tomorrow regardless of how your interaction ends.

of course. option number 2 is much more likely to be true.

 

[PeasantKing53]

A girl approaching doesn’t always mean she’s male brained. Some girls have realized that approaching for them has such a high success rate, so they will approach anyone and everyone they find remotely attractive because almost 99% will say yes.

I’ve been approached several times in regular public settings and the majority of the time I fucked the girl the day of, or had the chance to. Approaching is a valid strategy for women.

 

[White_Bwoi]

Good post ngl, why buddy is banned tho..

Girls (pretty ones / queen bees) NEVER approach first, that the law.
Hoes / drunk / if you're model tier will come sometimes but not THAT often, scared/intimidated/social pressure no to be a whore etc.

So you must ACT. But if she's REALLY ATTACTED and head over heels from the get go, she'll make it VERY EASY for you, she will position herself near you, will look you IN THE EYE (biggest getaway) and at some point you must do something if she's good enough, end of story.
Good luck