being attractive is only useful if you’re too aspie to approach

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the thing is you have to look interesting, if you’re facially attractive but you dress like a boring bum and you have a boring mediocre haircut and nothing in you points to you being interesting you’re not gonna be wanted

obviously being attractive helps you look more eye catching and then people will analyze you better and determine whether you seem to be interesting or not but you can do that without being facially attractive aswell.

your face and height is only the cover of your whole book, people will look at you and see if you look interesting, if not, theyll move on. but you can approach people and show them the content of your book, this means the way you express your personality to them, the way you talk, the facial expressions you make and your body language, then depending how you go on about that, you can always make yourself attractive by it.

i say the key to everything is just pretty much look clean (look like you have good hygiene), and actually BE interesting.

chad can pull the girls he wants, but he’ll never maintain them if his character is genuinely lame
 
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for example, im ugly as fuck, but i have piercings and my own little way of dressing and shit, some people can assume my interests by looking at me, and that’s why they’re driven to me

i’ve genuinely never had problems with girls
 
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blackpill tryhard who says “cope” to this will be ignored unless they can actually debunk what i said
 
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DNR
 
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Bro this is quite dumb ngl, a chad definitely wouldn't dress like shit nor have a shitty haircut, wouldn't make sense as they know it makes them look uglier and they do not want that
 
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“Just have a good personality”maxx

Bluepilled coper
 
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They're not npcs dude, this mfs are treated as a God since they were a kid
 
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Bro this is quite dumb ngl, a chad definitely wouldn't dress like shit nor have a shitty haircut, wouldn't make sense as they know it makes them look uglier and they do not want that
i’ve seen genuine chad-faced dudes dress bummy as fuck and have a average ass cut and look boring as hell
 
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i’ve seen genuine chad-faced dudes dress bummy as fuck and have a average ass cut and look boring as hell
I've never seen a chad so that's crazy to know, but that sounds rare asf ngl as most of this people are social media famous
 
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you’re too extreme vro, don’t stress
It's legit though, they're always the leaders of the group anywhere they go and the attention is always on them
 
gonna stop ignoring u and laugh at ur stupid threads
 
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If you are high inhib absolutely nothing matters. Inhibition is the first step anything else in life dating-wise is secondary
 
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gonna stop ignoring u and laugh at ur stupid threads
if you were ignoring me to begin with wouldnt this thread not show up to begin with?
 
im ugly and aspie so
 
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for example, im ugly as fuck, but i have piercings and my own little way of dressing and shit, some people can assume my interests by looking at me, and that’s why they’re driven to me

i’ve genuinely never had problems with girls

all cope, this guy is a literal bum but still went viral

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all cope, this guy is a literal bum but still went viral

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i mean his style of dressing is also quite eye catching giving him a complete look. if he was just wearing boring gay nike tight grey joggers and walmart shoes or something he wouldnt have gone viral i can promise you
 
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i mean his style of dressing is also quite eye catching giving him a complete look. if he was just wearing boring gay nike tight grey joggers and walmart shoes or something he wouldnt have gone viral i can promise you

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“just dress better bro!” :soy::soy::soy:
 
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the thing is you have to look interesting, if you’re facially attractive but you dress like a boring bum and you have a boring mediocre haircut and nothing in you points to you being interesting you’re not gonna be wanted

obviously being attractive helps you look more eye catching and then people will analyze you better and determine whether you seem to be interesting or not but you can do that without being facially attractive aswell.

your face and height is only the cover of your whole book, people will look at you and see if you look interesting, if not, theyll move on. but you can approach people and show them the content of your book, this means the way you express your personality to them, the way you talk, the facial expressions you make and your body language, then depending how you go on about that, you can always make yourself attractive by it.

i say the key to everything is just pretty much look clean (look like you have good hygiene), and actually BE interesting.

chad can pull the girls he wants, but he’ll never maintain them if his character is genuinely lame
why else do u think this forum attracts autists... They realized they cant learn social skills and struggle so hard to do that, so want to become chad so they can get away with aspergers. Imo its best to ascend and also attempt to socialize, not just ascend and expect foids to love you or something.
 
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i’ve seen genuine chad-faced dudes dress bummy as fuck and have a average ass cut and look boring as hell
What is an “average” cut
 
do u need to have friends to get a gf
 
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“just dress better bro!” :soy::soy::soy:
nah its abt completing a congruent look, not necessarily dressing "better" thats how you can push yourself higher if youre already attractive, but if ur ugly i mean its not gonna help you
 
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bluepill ramblings dnrd
 
you mean having your own sense of style?
its more about using style to curate your image into kind of a "stereotype" or marketable look to women that matches your face and body. ill give an example.
 
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you mean having your own sense of style?
for example: it would be weird seeing someone like elias de poot try to dress like this
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hes a twig and looks like a pretty boy people would think thats a bit odd and it would lower his appeal but ofc hes a model so it wouldnt affect him too much.

however dressing like this would boost him and make him even more marketable to women.
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it fits with how he looks and appears natural
 
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i dont have any friends
it’s okay, i don’t either

this dude used to follow me around like a dog thinking we were friends but i can only be thankful cuz i met my gf thru him, she liked me and asked him to put her on with me
 
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How old are you?
 
I don't know bro, I've known literally autistic stuttering retards that dressed and smelled like shit that could pull a new girl on tinder everyday because they were good looking
 
interesting. legit thread.

i've been trying to think of a reply but i think archetypes are worth mentioning. i feel like every guy fits into a type of character based on how they look. and if they act in opposition to that they kinda get fucked.

i'm really tall, skinny, with legit dark features and often look a little scary. i also wear a lot of black and have an angry looking face naturally. i find i freak people out if i move too much (enjoying myself) or get too animated i forget how much i tower over others. but when i'm chill and kind of in a melancholic mood that's when women bother me or come close to me. every time i have slayed it was always when i was super tired, moved super slow and was kinda depressed.

some guys do very well being the life of the party, but unfortunately i have a very specific niche i can't break out of too easily.
 

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