being good looking could be a bad thing in the dating world

[Deleted member 10104]

if you are good looking and a girl picks you just for being good looking then you know she particularly goes after good looking guys (i.e. she's very shallow)

she may leave you for an even better looking guy.

whereas if you're just some fat fuck who got lucky and was hyper nt and seduced a girl despite everything holding you back then she's probably a good girl and not super hypergamous

tbh good looking men stay losing. being one of those lucky ugly dudes who got a super hot girl, they win.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

she particularly goes after good looking guys (i.e. she's very shallow)

they all do lmao

whereas if you're just some fat fuck who got lucky and was hyper nt and seduced a girl despite everything holding you back then she's probably a good girl and not super hypergamous

or she just chose a non chad to try to give him a chance but she won't feel like you're anything special

think of this movie:

in this one the hottie says she sees the guy as "safe" and easy to control, won't be good long term though because of the power imbalance in the relationship when she has other dudes constantly giving her attention

 

[Deleted member 5746]

 

[jjyb12345]

whereas if you're just some fat fuck who got lucky and was hyper nt and seduced a girl despite everything holding you back then she's probably a good girl and not super hypergamous

IT NEVER IS LIKE THAT . WHENEVER A HOT GIRL PICKS A FAT OR UGLY FUCK ITS CUZ SHE EITHER WANTS A PROVIDER BETABUXX OR CONTROL IN THE RELATIONSHIP OR A STABLE NON CHEATING BOYFRIEND WHO SHE KNOWS CANT CHEAT

 

[Deleted member 4123]

She might like you for other things though. Could be status,ntness,money,etc

Either way for a ltr you'll have to offer moe than looks. For ons its just physical attraction I guess. Or it play a big part at least (whethether youre nr or not,etc)

 

[Gonthar]

whereas if you're just some fat fuck who got lucky and was hyper nt and seduced a girl despite everything holding you back then she's probably a good girl and not super hypergamous

There aren't really any "good girls", if you aren't good looking the relationship will be very strained, you'll be constantly shit-tested and she will always think that she could get someone better. You'll also feel very stressed, because she can always have plenty of other options, while you don't; if she leaves you, it's pretty much over, it's not like you have tons of other girls waiting in line to have a chance with you.

 

[jjyb12345]

WOMEN TOLERATE WAS LESS FOR UGLY GUYS AND ONLY WANT THEM CUZ THEY DONT WANT TO BE CHEATED ON AND WANT SECURITY. THEY WILL TOLERATE ANYTHING FOR CHAD CUZ THEY TRULY DESIRE HIM

 

[Deleted member 5698]

Wish i could cope like that.

 

[BigBoy]

How I cope tbh

 

[SadnessWYJ]

over kf you did't meet your gf in online game without seeing each other faces

 

[SadnessWYJ]

gf(male)

 

[SadnessWYJ]

unironically over if it's actually a man