darkness97
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being neurotypical is a meme that has unfortunately became a serious statement. Very few people are actually Neuro diverse .
being charismatic, sociable or outgoing solely relies on intelligence. conversations, humor and social awareness are complicated things. intelligent people are intelligent because they are able to deal with complicated things well. the same people who say they can't understand social situations are the same people who can watch movies and tv shows depicting very complicated social phenomena that require an intelligent person to grasp.
Intelligent people have an intuitive understanding of things like body language, speech patterns and humor hence why they don't need lessons for it. they are able to grasp interest fairly easily and able to navigate social situations well.
The reason why people say that they aren't NT are for two possible reasons.
1. they aren't attractive and blame societies rejection of them on their 'mental condition'.
2. They are too cowardly or shy to take advantage of interest and they hate to place themselves in socially challenging situations. hence they blame this inhibition on a rare mental condition that affects 2% of the NA population.
this isn't a binary thing and two of these statements can exist in a person to varying degrees depending on the circumstance.
For number 1, personal hygiene, dress and fitness is something that can help.
for number 2, understanding your own personal issues and attachment styles, or therapy can help.
being charismatic, sociable or outgoing solely relies on intelligence. conversations, humor and social awareness are complicated things. intelligent people are intelligent because they are able to deal with complicated things well. the same people who say they can't understand social situations are the same people who can watch movies and tv shows depicting very complicated social phenomena that require an intelligent person to grasp.
Intelligent people have an intuitive understanding of things like body language, speech patterns and humor hence why they don't need lessons for it. they are able to grasp interest fairly easily and able to navigate social situations well.
The reason why people say that they aren't NT are for two possible reasons.
1. they aren't attractive and blame societies rejection of them on their 'mental condition'.
2. They are too cowardly or shy to take advantage of interest and they hate to place themselves in socially challenging situations. hence they blame this inhibition on a rare mental condition that affects 2% of the NA population.
this isn't a binary thing and two of these statements can exist in a person to varying degrees depending on the circumstance.
For number 1, personal hygiene, dress and fitness is something that can help.
for number 2, understanding your own personal issues and attachment styles, or therapy can help.