Being rejected by your peers during your formative years can really damage you psychologically

[klip11]

Keep in mind, it doesn't have to be physical bullying like being beaten up and stuffed in a locker. I was reading a book on psychoemotional development and for proper mental development going into your adult years, it is important that you be accepted by your peers, including the opposite sex during your teen years. Ideally, you would be a Chad that has a big circle of friends and be able to slay any girl at your school, even including a few MILF teachers.

But it doesn't have to be that. If you have a small group of friends and even just a girlfriend or 2 during your formative years, that is all that is required for proper psychological development. If you miss these important milestones during these years, it will distort your development.

Also, take 2 guys that are virgins at the end of highschool. One guy is a football Chad that has lots of friends and can easily get a girlfriend, but because he is a Christian, he decides to abstain from sex until marriage.

The second guy, an incel, wants to have sex, but he always gets rejected. Every girl he likes rejects him. The difference between him and Chad is free will. Chad is freely choosing to abstain from sex because it is in line with his value system. The incel is being forced to abstain because of rejection from the opposite sex. In this case, Chad will still end up with proper psychological development.

 

[Deleted member 16369]

Extremely legit thread

 

[klip11]

Brutal no reply pill to high IQ post

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Brutal no reply pill to high IQ post

It’s a water post

 

[klip11]

It’s a water post

Water?

 

[Gonthar]

Keep in mind, it doesn't have to be physical bullying like being beaten up and stuffed in a locker. I was reading a book on psychoemotional development and for proper mental development going into your adult years, it is important that you be accepted by your peers, including the opposite sex during your teen years. Ideally, you would be a Chad that has a big circle of friends and be able to slay any girl at your school, even including a few MILF teachers.

But it doesn't have to be that. If you have a small group of friends and even just a girlfriend or 2 during your formative years, that is all that is required for proper psychological development. If you miss these important milestones during these years, it will distort your development.

Also, take 2 guys that are virgins at the end of highschool. One guy is a football Chad that has lots of friends and can easily get a girlfriend, but because he is a Christian, he decides to abstain from sex until marriage.

The second guy, an incel, wants to have sex, but he always gets rejected. Every girl he likes rejects him. The difference between him and Chad is free will. Chad is freely choosing to abstain from sex because it is in line with his value system. The incel is being forced to abstain because of rejection from the opposite sex. In this case, Chad will still end up with proper psychological development.

So, just be Chad, got it, that's very helpful!

 

[klip11]

So, just be Chad, got it, that's very helpful!

 

[Bojack]

Yea I was always rejected by my peers tbh

 

[thereallegend]

let's get over our high school days guys

 

[Deleted member 24278]

It leaves scars ngl

 

[190cm90kg]

daily water thread that must be repeated for socially inept autists

 

[Brus Wane]

Keep in mind, it doesn't have to be physical bullying like being beaten up and stuffed in a locker. I was reading a book on psychoemotional development and for proper mental development going into your adult years, it is important that you be accepted by your peers, including the opposite sex during your teen years. Ideally, you would be a Chad that has a big circle of friends and be able to slay any girl at your school, even including a few MILF teachers.

But it doesn't have to be that. If you have a small group of friends and even just a girlfriend or 2 during your formative years, that is all that is required for proper psychological development. If you miss these important milestones during these years, it will distort your development.

Also, take 2 guys that are virgins at the end of highschool. One guy is a football Chad that has lots of friends and can easily get a girlfriend, but because he is a Christian, he decides to abstain from sex until marriage.

The second guy, an incel, wants to have sex, but he always gets rejected. Every girl he likes rejects him. The difference between him and Chad is free will. Chad is freely choosing to abstain from sex because it is in line with his value system. The incel is being forced to abstain because of rejection from the opposite sex. In this case, Chad will still end up with proper psychological development.

This is so fucking brutal.

Kinda sad that missing out on these simple things can fuck a nigga up.

I was brutally abused from ages 8 to 15 for being morbidly obese and only really lost that weight around 16 17.

Way too late and it doesn't even matter how much I lean down or surgerymaxx, I'm mentally fucked in the head.

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

Keep in mind, it doesn't have to be physical bullying like being beaten up and stuffed in a locker. I was reading a book on psychoemotional development and for proper mental development going into your adult years, it is important that you be accepted by your peers, including the opposite sex during your teen years. Ideally, you would be a Chad that has a big circle of friends and be able to slay any girl at your school, even including a few MILF teachers.

But it doesn't have to be that. If you have a small group of friends and even just a girlfriend or 2 during your formative years, that is all that is required for proper psychological development. If you miss these important milestones during these years, it will distort your development.

Also, take 2 guys that are virgins at the end of highschool. One guy is a football Chad that has lots of friends and can easily get a girlfriend, but because he is a Christian, he decides to abstain from sex until marriage.

The second guy, an incel, wants to have sex, but he always gets rejected. Every girl he likes rejects him. The difference between him and Chad is free will. Chad is freely choosing to abstain from sex because it is in line with his value system. The incel is being forced to abstain because of rejection from the opposite sex. In this case, Chad will still end up with proper psychological development.

I've had no friends until High School. The effects of it on me speak for itself, I'm on this fourm. Would you mind sharing the book you read? I wanted to get into reading more psychological books aside from the usual self help.

Ironically, the depression only hit in High School. I was either too retarded to notice or too distracted with vidya to care about my loneliness throughout elementary and middle school.

Water?

Water as in the thread is as obvious as water is wet. Clear as water, etc.
Still very well said though, more high IQ posting about feels/society is needed in offtopic.

I was brutally abused from ages 8 to 15 for being morbidly obese and only really lost that weight around 16 17.

My exact scenario as of right now. I worked out and lost a very good chunk of my body fat 2 years ago, but the mental damage has already been done. I'm 17 now and missed out on so much life experience. I'll never have the confidence of a person who wasn't overweight to begin with.

Brutal parents letting you overeat and not pushing you to exercise pill.

 

[Brian Peppers]

Legit.

My parents said i went down hill psychologically after 19. But i really got worse at 22/23.

I had one brief GF at 13 but she shitted on me. We only dated for 9 weeks during summer holidays. No sex.

I chilled with about 3 or 4 friends from 11-14, but when i was studying in high school for my GCSE's at 15/16 my only and last friend stopped talking to me. I got bored after school and after college. Just stayed indoors with my parents, watched tv, played darts in the shed etc.

I had a terrible puberty and looked 4 years younger than my age. I was constantly called ugly, told to fuck when trying to make social connections, called "eww" by girls. Guys at college and Uni ignored my friendship attempts. People enjoyed seeing me suffer and seeing me isolated in my student accommodation. I was called a freak, loser and all kind of names and this was 17-21. Not in High School.

I believe my whole brain re-wired itself and i became extremely sad, unmotivated, avoidance personality type. Body dysmorphic disorder.

 

[BongMog]

High school never ends

 

[dimorphism]

How about being rejected by both parents and peers