Being social > being competent

[spongebob]

A small story for context.
I've been rotting for some time and kept improving myself mentally and my whole value mindset.
This came at the cost of having almost no social contact or very low quality of it.
I forgot how important it was untill the next situation.

Im studying at the library and meet some guy I met earlier at the telephone shop. We talked about our study (same one) and I asked him the best technique and way (because he's multiple years ahead of me)

In the end he gave me very good overall advice and even gave me some summaries of notes and exams he had.
This has saved me multiple days of studying and could potentially determine if I fail or pass the study (and therefor my whole life)

Now the thing is:
I used to be very closed (didnt socialise much) but tried to change that today (looksmaxxed definitely helps because better looks = better status) for the first time and look how much it has helped me.
Im not even talking about all the girls' IOIs I've ignored or rejected which has caused a whole bunch of other shortages.


TLDR:
Be social. It makes life 100x easier.
You dont have to learn everything by yourself By trial and error which will cost you valuable time.

 

[Prince88]

How do I become social and stop being high inhib?

 

[spongebob]

How do I become social and stop being high inhib?

Get a job.
Get some activity which forces you to be social. Can be sports of volunteering. Just practice in whatever kind

 

[StacyCorruptor]

How do I become social and stop being high inhib?

just stop being a pussy

 

[MoggerGaston]

I am always one of the most competent guys in my field. So I am never the guy that profits from social interaction, but always the guy supplying incompetent people like you with advice, summaries of notes and exams, etc. I don't do this anymore.


Social interaction does indeed benefit incompetent people.

 

[TITUS]

I am always one of the most competent guys in my field. So I am never the guy that profits from social interaction, but always the guy supplying incompetent people like you with advice, summaries of notes and exams, etc. I don't do this anymore.


Social interaction does indeed benefit incompetent people.

This, competent people are too busy being competent to be social, they don't need "connections" and social rackets, you either spend your time being proficient at your skill or being proficient at being social.
Ideally you do both though, there is a point of diminishing returns for both.

 

[spongebob]

I havw framed it in the wrong way I think. It wasn't ment to be a parasite but rather like birds flying in certain pattern to spend less energy.
I could've learned the study technique on my own after a year or I could just hear it from someone who has more experience. 2nd is better.
You always need to be competent because people don't like incompetent people. They're worthless

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

I was...not social. Or, not social in regards to the Mulatto race, since I am Blasian and refused to worship Mulattoes.

Re: Where did Latin American come from?

UnsourcedAnon Join Date: 2016-01-12 Post Count: 563

#184813661Saturday, March 05, 2016 3:09 PM CST Simple. They have been tainted with inferior "Amerindian" DNA. It is quite comparable to mulatto hybrids. Various parasitic groups also have remnants of Polynesian DNA. It is quite repulsive.

Re: if the age is on the clock, shes ready for the co_k :^) Unsourced_Anon Join Date: 2016-03-08 Post Count: 58 #190266129Wednesday, June 01, 2016 7:20 PM CDT Perhaps you do not understand how to read clocks? I presume that you are a Mulatto, given your stupidity.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

A small story for context.
I've been rotting for some time and kept improving myself mentally and my whole value mindset.
This came at the cost of having almost no social contact or very low quality of it.
I forgot how important it was untill the next situation.

Im studying at the library and meet some guy I met earlier at the telephone shop. We talked about our study (same one) and I asked him the best technique and way (because he's multiple years ahead of me)

In the end he gave me very good overall advice and even gave me some summaries of notes and exams he had.
This has saved me multiple days of studying and could potentially determine if I fail or pass the study (and therefor my whole life)

Now the thing is:
I used to be very closed (didnt socialise much) but tried to change that today (looksmaxxed definitely helps because better looks = better status) for the first time and look how much it has helped me.
Im not even talking about all the girls' IOIs I've ignored or rejected which has caused a whole bunch of other shortages.


TLDR:
Be social. It makes life 100x easier.
You dont have to learn everything by yourself By trial and error which will cost you valuable time.

Relatable

 

[Deleted member 11126]

A small story for context.
I've been rotting for some time and kept improving myself mentally and my whole value mindset.
This came at the cost of having almost no social contact or very low quality of it.
I forgot how important it was untill the next situation.

Im studying at the library and meet some guy I met earlier at the telephone shop. We talked about our study (same one) and I asked him the best technique and way (because he's multiple years ahead of me)

In the end he gave me very good overall advice and even gave me some summaries of notes and exams he had.
This has saved me multiple days of studying and could potentially determine if I fail or pass the study (and therefor my whole life)

Now the thing is:
I used to be very closed (didnt socialise much) but tried to change that today (looksmaxxed definitely helps because better looks = better status) for the first time and look how much it has helped me.
Im not even talking about all the girls' IOIs I've ignored or rejected which has caused a whole bunch of other shortages.


TLDR:
Be social. It makes life 100x easier.
You dont have to learn everything by yourself By trial and error which will cost you valuable time.

You either have to be super competent or social. If you are below average in both of these your fucked.

If your competent enough you can get away with being the biggest aspie jerk and same thing is true with being social you can get away with being slightly below average. Social probably mogs because it helps you in all areas of life a good coder for example with no social skills can only do well money wise but will not have good relationships and they cannot branch out and start a business. Its a great meta skill to pair with being competent. In tech if you are decent socially you can easily be a manager since the standards for being social are lower.