Being tall means nothing

[jezzoji]

I’m 19 years old, 6 foot 4, ltn. My best 4 friends are all in serious relationships some as of recently and it has left me stranded and alone. I am finding it hard to face the reality that I will never find love due to my neurodivergence. Sure I’m tall which people in this community put on a pedestal but it doesn’t matter. The real truth to finding a girlfriend is how social circles view you. Social circles I’m involved in view me as a joke. The only things I’ve done with women is on nights out with women I’ve never talked to and under the influence of alcohol. It doesn’t matter how good looking you are if you’re neurodivergent. I cannot hold conversation or take myself seriously due to years of being made fun of as a teen. I have been on dates but girls genuienly think I’m just retarded by the end of it and I can’t help it. I can’t stop acting retarded because whenever something gets awkward my default reaction is to say some retarded shit. I’m lowkey just a retard who will never find love.

 

[Framem4xx]

I’m 19 years old, 6 foot 4, ltn. My best 4 friends are all in serious relationships some as of recently and it has left me stranded and alone. I am finding it hard to face the reality that I will never find love due to my neurodivergence. Sure I’m tall which people in this community put on a pedestal but it doesn’t matter. The real truth to finding a girlfriend is how social circles view you. Social circles I’m involved in view me as a joke. The only things I’ve done with women is on nights out with women I’ve never talked to and under the influence of alcohol. It doesn’t matter how good looking you are if you’re neurodivergent. I cannot hold conversation or take myself seriously due to years of being made fun of as a teen. I have been on dates but girls genuienly think I’m just retarded by the end of it and I can’t help it. I can’t stop acting retarded because whenever something gets awkward my default reaction is to say some retarded shit. I’m lowkey just a retard who will never find love.

if you built bad reputation, these are the results

 

[ascension]

I'm 6'1 and it hasn't made any difference to my dating life. I might as well be 5'6

 

[HighIQ ubermensch]

true

 

[11OUTTA10]

It does matter, if you were short it'd just be worse. And don't you enjoy the ego boost of mogging ur friends?

 

[jezzoji]

if you built bad reputation, these are the results

I got bullied a lot in middle school for being fat and in high school girls would take the piss out of me, the only way I could cope was by making them laugh. I understand this is what happens when you build a bad reputation but it was either that or get bullied and have no friends

 

[Framem4xx]

I got bullied a lot in middle school for being fat and in high school girls would take the piss out of me, the only way I could cope was by making them laugh. I understand this is what happens when you build a bad reputation but it was either that or get bullied and have no friends

you got an answer
you were fat
pretty common behaviour

 

[jezzoji]

It does matter, if you were short it'd just be worse. And don't you enjoy the ego boost of mogging ur friends?

the ego boost of mogging my friends does nothing if they can hold down a relationship and I can’t.

 

[jezzoji]

you got an answer
you were fat
pretty common behaviour

So how do I reset how everyone perceives me? It’s my default behaviour even for people I’ve never met I just make myself the joke

 

[jezzoji]

I'm 6'1 and it hasn't made any difference to my dating life. I might as well be 5'6

If you don’t have a neuro typical friend group or hobbies that normal people do it’s over

 

[jezzoji]

true

gg

 

[Framem4xx]

So how do I reset how everyone perceives me? It’s my default behaviour even for people I’ve never met I just make myself the joke

dont be a jester first
act maturely
work on your physique if you are still fat
overall improve your looks
i guess that is why you are here right?

 

[jezzoji]

dont be a jester first
act maturely
work on your physique if you are still fat
overall improve your looks
i guess that is why you are here right?

Yes but the thing is I know I can pull some women but because of my neurodivergence I have never been able to be involved in a relationship but most people my age have so I am falling behind and missing a part of the life experience.

 

[ILikeNihari123]

I’m 19 years old, 6 foot 4, ltn. My best 4 friends are all in serious relationships some as of recently and it has left me stranded and alone. I am finding it hard to face the reality that I will never find love due to my neurodivergence. Sure I’m tall which people in this community put on a pedestal but it doesn’t matter. The real truth to finding a girlfriend is how social circles view you. Social circles I’m involved in view me as a joke. The only things I’ve done with women is on nights out with women I’ve never talked to and under the influence of alcohol. It doesn’t matter how good looking you are if you’re neurodivergent. I cannot hold conversation or take myself seriously due to years of being made fun of as a teen. I have been on dates but girls genuienly think I’m just retarded by the end of it and I can’t help it. I can’t stop acting retarded because whenever something gets awkward my default reaction is to say some retarded shit. I’m lowkey just a retard who will never find love.

Height does matter but Face > Height obv

 

[appealisLAW]

I cannot hold conversation or take myself seriously due to years of being made fun of as a teen.

do not overthink it man, i would say you are not ND but overly social anxious, also it's better if you find a girl outside your social cricle for numerous reasons, those are not your friends though, try finding more introverted friends who you have chemistry with, not retards who make fun of you.

 

[Framem4xx]

Yes but the thing is I know I can pull some women but because of my neurodivergence I have never been able to be involved in a relationship but most people my age have so I am falling behind and missing a part of the life experience.

i also dont have to much experience, but dont be desperated trust me
decide if you are really want a relationship or just gain experience

 

[jezzoji]

do not overthink it man, i would say you are not ND but overly social anxious, also it's better if you find a girl outside your social cricle for numerous reasons, those are not your friends though, try finding more introverted friends who you have chemistry with, not retards who make fun of yo

do not overthink it man, i would say you are not ND but overly social anxious, also it's better if you find a girl outside your social cricle for numerous reasons, those are not your friends though, try finding more introverted friends who you have chemistry with, not retards who make fun of you.

I’m not friends with them anymore. After high school as expected they never reached out and I didn’t either because I knew I was just a laughing stock. I have about only 5 friends now that I talked to but I’m the only one without a girlfriend and they talk to me less and less and I’m kind of just stuck with no people to go and do things with and to be able to go out and meet people. I live in a populated city and can’t even find a job. I’m going to try going to university next year. I tried at the start of this year but got overwhelmed in the first month i didn’t bother paying so it got delayed to next year.

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Y'all finally learning

 

[jezzoji]

i also dont have to much experience, but dont be desperated trust me
decide if you are really want a relationship or just gain experience

I don’t want a relationship it wouldn’t benefit me in anyway except comfort ability but all my best friends are in relationships and spend less time hanging out with me

 

[Framem4xx]

I don’t want a relationship it wouldn’t benefit me in anyway except comfort ability but all my best friends are in relationships and spend less time hanging out with me

then just accept it, they arent your real friends then
real friend will always find some time to spend with you

 

[jezzoji]

Y'all finally learning

In my opinion it’s the saddest truth there is. Despite a 130 iq and 6 foot 4 I will be lonely forever

 

[mufasamufasa]

yeah bro keep coping

 

[ezio6]

Whats ur frame width lil bro

 

[jezzoji]

then just accept it, they arent your real friends then
real friend will always find some time to spend with you

I guess this is true, but sadly I have no way of meeting new people at the moment and I don’t want to be left alone with genuinely nobody to talk to.

 

[Framem4xx]

I guess this is true, but sadly I have no way of meeting new people at the moment and I don’t want to be left alone with genuinely nobody to talk to.

why you dont have a opportunity to meet new people?

 

[kranerman23123]

I’m 19 years old, 6 foot 4, ltn. My best 4 friends are all in serious relationships some as of recently and it has left me stranded and alone. I am finding it hard to face the reality that I will never find love due to my neurodivergence. Sure I’m tall which people in this community put on a pedestal but it doesn’t matter. The real truth to finding a girlfriend is how social circles view you. Social circles I’m involved in view me as a joke. The only things I’ve done with women is on nights out with women I’ve never talked to and under the influence of alcohol. It doesn’t matter how good looking you are if you’re neurodivergent. I cannot hold conversation or take myself seriously due to years of being made fun of as a teen. I have been on dates but girls genuienly think I’m just retarded by the end of it and I can’t help it. I can’t stop acting retarded because whenever something gets awkward my default reaction is to say some retarded shit. I’m lowkey just a retard who will never find love.

I guarantee you're over measuring yourself

 

[jezzoji]

I’m not sure exactly it’s not the best but it isn’t horrendous

Whats ur frame width lil bro

 

[jezzoji]

why you dont have a opportunity to meet new people?

Because I don’t have a job or go to school right now

 

[Framem4xx]

Because I don’t have a job or go to school right now

what are you doing then
how old r u

 

[jezzoji]

I guarantee you're over measuring yourself

no I got measured at the doctor last week without shoes on 194cm. It was never about the height bro.

 

[jezzoji]

what are you doing then
how old r u

19 going to university next year, worked for 2 months full time in the past year the rest of the year and now I play video games 16 hours a day and cry

 

[aboriginalmaxxing]

dnrd + height matters

 

[jezzoji]

dnrd + height matters

What does dnrd mean in this context pls

 

[Framem4xx]

19 going to university next year, worked for 2 months full time in the past year the rest of the year and now I play video games 16 hours a day and cry

it might seem not as best advice but wait until you go to uni
or go and socialize somewhere

 

[jezzoji]

yeah bro keep coping

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Coping with what? I’ve hooked up with objectively considerably attractive girls but the problem is I’ll never be able to pursue a relationship because they think I’m autistic after getting to know me

 

[appealisLAW]

it might seem not as best advice but wait until you go to uni
or go and socialize somewhere

it's perfect advice tho, the only thing i would suggest is going to the smaller gym and meeting people there before uni.

 

[appealisLAW]

Coping with what? I’ve hooked up with objectively considerably attractive girls but the problem is I’ll never be able to pursue a relationship because they think I’m autistic after getting to know me

find an autistic gl girl, bunch of those trust me

 

[jezzoji]

it's perfect advice tho, the only thing i would suggest is going to the smaller gym and meeting people there before uni.

Okay, the only people I knew when I tried uni earlier this year were from school and I hated making new friends. I’ll try approaching it differently with an open mind next year. There is about 4 months until then what do you recommend I’m trying to find a job

 

[jezzoji]

find an autistic gl girl, bunch of those trust me

What does gl mean

 

[kranerman23123]

no I got measured at the doctor last week without shoes on 194cm. It was never about the height bro.

It's about height you're just extremely sub5 or your mom loved tylenol

 

[appealisLAW]

What does gl mean

good looking

 

[jezzoji]

It's about height you're just extremely sub5 or your mom loved tylenol

No need to be hostile bro, you can look at my other posts I’m ltn/lmtn I just struggle a lot with relationships due to my neurodivergence.

 

[jezzoji]

good looking

Oh okay, how do you meet girls, I’ve never approached a girl randomly how does it just naturally happen?

 

[appealisLAW]

Oh okay, how do you meet girls, I’ve never approached a girl randomly how does it just naturally happen?

you will meet them naturally at uni bro

 

[aboriginalmaxxing]

What does dnrd mean in this context pls

didnt read and in addiction you must be tall AND attractive to pull

 

[jezzoji]

didnt read and in addiction you must be tall AND attractive to pull

TLDR I can pull I just can’t keep anyone around because I’m autisitc as shit

 

[usd]

I guess this is true, but sadly I have no way of meeting new people at the moment and I don’t want to be left alone with genuinely nobody to talk to.

get some meta raybans, and go out and talk to people. swear it boosts your confidence

 

[jezzoji]

get some meta raybans, and go out and talk to people. swear it boosts your confidence

Like the ones to film why

 

[usd]

Like the ones to film why

yeah the blacked out ones. it boosts your confidence in a way it hides your appearance so you can mess around with people and whatnot. if ur tryna get a girl then it should be easy for u if yk how to talk. there's this one asian dude on tiktok who's ugly as shit but goes around recording people, occasionally getting girls #'s, just because he knows how to talk and his eyes are hidden

 

[kranerman23123]

No need to be hostile bro, you can look at my other posts I’m ltn/lmtn I just struggle a lot with relationships due to my neurodivergence.

Nah 6'4 ltns aren't incel