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autistic_tendencies
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Girls think I will be an asshole/player before talking to them but they say I am nice after
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You get taken advantage of and hurt easilythere is nothing wrong with being nice.
yeah, but that's a level 1 analysis.You get taken advantage of and hurt easily
Yeah ofcourse it depend on your tone and intentions, I’m talking about with women they seem to respond better to dark triadyeah, but that's a level 1 analysis.
if you had a little brother or sister and you are generally nice to everyone and then someone decides to pick on your brother; your first instinct is to say something or defend them right? does that all of a sudden make you not a nice person? imagine being nice your sons/daughters bully, that would literally make you an asshole. now how would that be different if it concerns yourself?
you aren't being nice to yourself and people will take advantage of you if you give them the impression that it is okay to do so. "give an inch, they take a mile." people aren't mean or bad people in general, more self-absorbed and insensitive.
people really respect confidence and the ability to stand up for what you believe. some of the most influential people in history have only become influential because of their success from their conflicts. there is something really admirable about defending what you feel and doing it passionately. but according to your analysis this is just being an asshole.
women and their responses to the dark-triad behavior is something i am not that well-versed in to be honest. because as there is research that supports one type their is also research that supports that opposite that is more widely accepted.Yeah ofcourse it depend on your tone and intentions, I’m talking about with women they seem to respond better to dark triad