Best socialmaxxing tips?

[Mast]

I speak only 10-30 words a day. I genuinely need something that will make me want to speak more

 

[WCIBL]

Get hella drunk everyday or take som pregab

 

[VAMPYY]

talk to old people. they got hella patience

 

[lifebeginsatHTN]

Talk to random npcs. Try socializing without stakes so if you fuck up an interaction, you can learn from it.

Don't be scared of texting or calling first, if someone else calls you, you don't think of them as a loser, so why think of yourself that way, but don't overdo it.

Don't be scared of not making sense. I just repeat obvious things if the conversation is stale, people don't care about it.

Humourmaxxing is easy, people love callbacks, sarcasm, and puns. Try slipping them into conversations. Don't laugh at your own jokes ever so if they don't work, it's not awkward. Only laugh if they laugh.

Smiling, genuinely works wonders, also your jawline is more defined when you smile.

Think of yourself as above the other person, most important tip, if you think the other person is getting more out of a conversation, you give less fucks, lesser inhibition.

Be a good listener. A conversation is simply a loop -
Story statement from them, acknowledgement, similar story from you, conclusionary statement, adding on question, repeat.

Practice.

 

[Mast]

I will definitely try this. The main issue is going out of the comfort zone for me

Talk to random npcs. Try socializing without stakes so if you fuck up an interaction, you can learn from it.

Don't be scared of texting or calling first, if someone else calls you, you don't think of them as a loser, so why think of yourself that way, but don't overdo it.

Don't be scared of not making sense. I just repeat obvious things if the conversation is stale, people don't care about it.

Humourmaxxing is easy, people love callbacks, sarcasm, and puns. Try slipping them into conversations. Don't laugh at your own jokes ever so if they don't work, it's not awkward. Only laugh if they laugh.

Smiling, genuinely works wonders, also your jawline is more defined when you smile.

Think of yourself as above the other person, most important tip, if you think the other person is getting more out of a conversation, you give less fucks, lesser inhibition.

Be a good listener. A conversation is simply a loop -
Story statement from them, acknowledgement, similar story from you, conclusionary statement, adding on question, repeat.

Practice.

 

[lifebeginsatHTN]

I will definitely try this. The main issue is going out of the comfort zone for me

Start small. I started talking to random people who smoked at the same place i smoke. If you don't smoke, just go to the grocery store or something and ask people for help. Compliment people's clothes, ask them where they got it from or something. Easiest way to make people let their guard down.