Sure but you are only once in school
What do you mean?
i think looks determine your childhood, i was deformed and didnt do shit, while people who were good looking went to parties and shit had friends, childhood determines your personality and future , its over
nah man i basically described my older brothers life and he was anorexic and shit but damn he's good looking tbh, not all his friends are models tho man. It just depends on what people you find, he is very charismatic and is basically friends with everybody in my big town. literally everybody who was at his grade or 1 below him at my high school knew him. it's just being a good charistamtic person being low inhib and doing fun stuff. I really mire his childhood and teenage years man doing really low inhib stuff and just messing around. now he got his life together and is living with his childhood friend from elementary, got a good job and moneymaxxing until he can finally get enough money for tattooing equipment (he's a really good artist, I'd give everything for a quarter of his talent).
maybe, i never experienced life tbh, and im only 21. most people here probably had more life experiences than me which is a lowbar. considering im inside for years. only had school friends, no friends etc. no social development for my childhood which fucked me mentally
I hope you find love man.
probably can't, im too autistic, i feel like my personality will turn them off long term. I'm too boring, over for me
Not even talking about girls. Bro-love or genuine friendship or companionship, typically won't be with women ofc. Many kinds of "love" (maybe wrong word), in them it wouldn't matter if you are the highest degree of socially dysfunctional. Of course love for a woman aswell.
I don't even have emotions, my mind is fucked tbh, It's like I can't be NT ever. My facial expressions is always resting, never smiling etc I don't know how to start conversations or know what to say. This is why social development or experiences when young is important. Starting it at 21 is weird and feels like I've lagged behind compared to normal people, sadly I'm always comparing myself to other people. Me having no emotions feels like I have to force myself to do acting, which seems fake and not authentic
Sometimes you need to fake it. Not all social interactions come naturally. I'm at the phase of it coming naturally and actually developing it but it's hard. Just relaxing and talking is all that it takes for good convos.
You're right it's just I have a fear of making people bored or seem uninterested in me because I was always alone, and made assumptions as to why they avoided me. Maybe it's irrational
My brother did everything socially while I was stuck on the computer, He's a DJ and is very extroverted and always had friends and had girls with him, He has a developed skull. Unlike me over.
The isolation made me an introvert, while my Brother was enjoying life. He had parties with alot of girls, and had alot of friends to help him however he only has a highschool diploma, and dropped out of college. I think his flaw was that he was too invested in the social life and not education etc.Agree with you, I meant it more like a phase where you approach, ask out and fuck a lot of girls
Why tho? Honestly curious
i think game is copeWhy tho? Honestly curious
With pua phase I mean developing the skill of being able to go up to girls without hesitating, ask to hang out sometime and fuck them later
The truth hurts, but can set you free tbh (or however that saying goes)
Ok, I will be honest I was raised a christian so I don't approve the idea of slaying. Although I see the appeal of slaying, I think having a good LTR is more beneficial to you. But Slaying >>>> Shit LTR. PUA is just grifters/delusional normies trying to make money off desperate guys. You think anyone 100+ years ago needed to spend lots of money on a PUA Coach. PUA coaches probably didn't exist 100 years ago. Most females would have avoided casual sex because it would be over for them if they got pregnant with nobody to help care for the child.
Yeah for sure bro, a good LTR is the best.
Idk maybe. The problem is that if guys do this women will do this to. It only takes one chad to pump and dmup her then she is alhpa widowed for life.
