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Deleted member 2621
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Dont get me wrong, you should be looksmaxxing, you should know the blackpill in the back of your mind.
But as an operative mindset I feel like it is a bad idea.
Let me tell you a little story: I am better looking than I was a few years ago. Which is not that crazy because I didnt set the bar very high in the first place. I was redpilled and into pickup and all that shit and had the mindset of "confidence is key" and all that shit. Although, I did have some success with girls back then since I was a cocky nonchalant dick. I talked to girls in the club, on the streets or on the beach. My attitude has quietly become more, well, quiet. I didnt even notice until today, but I have been so obsessed with looksmaxxing that I became crazy self-conscious. I didnt have the balls to approach AT ALL. Girls I know became less flirty and interested even though I got better looking, I often heard people who were amazed how much I changed during puberty. Nevertheless my success with girls went down to basically zero, and I didnt even realize it. Than, today, I was at a lake swimming and a beautiful girl comes along and puts her towel close to mine even tho there was plenty of room. She smiles at me once, I smile back and she goes swimming. This is the point every NT confident person would have struck up a conversation, she was literally my perfect 10. My thoughts? Uhh... cant do that wiithout my roid bloat, need to wait for my bones to grow, my palate expander arrives tomorrow, after that I can approach, it will do wonders...... She got out of the water after swimming and changed into her normal clothes, without using any towel or anything, she just stood there bare naked and was smoking hot. It literally felt like god was making fun of me for being a pussy, but thats not all. She started doing Yoga (with her clothes on again, sadly) awith her ass facing me... I walked past her twice and didnt say a word. Moral of the story: Be blackpilled, think redpilled
But as an operative mindset I feel like it is a bad idea.
Let me tell you a little story: I am better looking than I was a few years ago. Which is not that crazy because I didnt set the bar very high in the first place. I was redpilled and into pickup and all that shit and had the mindset of "confidence is key" and all that shit. Although, I did have some success with girls back then since I was a cocky nonchalant dick. I talked to girls in the club, on the streets or on the beach. My attitude has quietly become more, well, quiet. I didnt even notice until today, but I have been so obsessed with looksmaxxing that I became crazy self-conscious. I didnt have the balls to approach AT ALL. Girls I know became less flirty and interested even though I got better looking, I often heard people who were amazed how much I changed during puberty. Nevertheless my success with girls went down to basically zero, and I didnt even realize it. Than, today, I was at a lake swimming and a beautiful girl comes along and puts her towel close to mine even tho there was plenty of room. She smiles at me once, I smile back and she goes swimming. This is the point every NT confident person would have struck up a conversation, she was literally my perfect 10. My thoughts? Uhh... cant do that wiithout my roid bloat, need to wait for my bones to grow, my palate expander arrives tomorrow, after that I can approach, it will do wonders...... She got out of the water after swimming and changed into her normal clothes, without using any towel or anything, she just stood there bare naked and was smoking hot. It literally felt like god was making fun of me for being a pussy, but thats not all. She started doing Yoga (with her clothes on again, sadly) awith her ass facing me... I walked past her twice and didnt say a word. Moral of the story: Be blackpilled, think redpilled