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I used to think personality would always rule over looks but now I’m not so sure. As a plain girl all my life, I have been rejected over and over again. Meeting people on-line and chatting to them, men often would seem really interested and attracted to my personality and would use words like ‘smart,’ ‘interesting,’ ‘unique,’ but every single time, the minute I would send photo that I think I looked good in, they would become noticeably cooler. They might say ‘nice dress’ but never anything about my face or body. Frankly, it’s been depressing. Especially when it seems to happen over and over again.
I don’t think I am all-out ugly and I take care of what I do have. But it seems no matter what I do, this pattern keeps emerging and I can only conclude it has to do with my looks.
I don’t think I am all-out ugly and I take care of what I do have. But it seems no matter what I do, this pattern keeps emerging and I can only conclude it has to do with my looks.