Break-up tips

[frentanyl]

Does anyone have any good break-up tips? Did you ever dump anyone?
I need to break up, but I really don't know how to do it. Been together like 2.5 years but I'm just not feeling it anymore. How can I do this without being a dick/being hated?
Any tips?

 

[nobodylovesme]

Say you want to break up. Kinda simple, no?

 

[frentanyl]

Say you want to break up. Kinda simple, no?

Can't do that randomly after 2.5 years. Well, I guess one COULD, but that does not seem realistic.
I want to remain un-hated if at all possible...

 

[Pueblo]

Have sex with another woman lmao

 

[nobodylovesme]

Can't do that randomly after 2.5 years. Well, I guess one COULD, but that does not seem realistic.
I want to remain un-hated if at all possible...

You just say, you wanna have the talk. Explain your situation, and talk about it. There really isn't any better way.

 

[frentanyl]

You just say, you wanna have the talk. Explain your situation, and talk about it. There really isn't any better way.

That's the thing - there is nothing to explain. I am just not feeling it and kinda don't want to be tied down, but that seems like a massive DICK thing to say. There are some other issues such as their mild self harm shit and whatever, but that is a side issue lol

 

[qazw]

Does anyone have any good break-up tips? Did you ever dump anyone?
I need to break up, but I really don't know how to do it. Been together like 2.5 years but I'm just not feeling it anymore. How can I do this without being a dick/being hated?
Any tips?

Just try to make her break up with you. Start doing things she doesn’t like until she can’t handle it any more. She will lose interest in you and not be hurt much by the breakup

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Don’t explain just leave

 

[frentanyl]

Don’t explain just leave

Sorry Chaddington, I'm not low inhib enough for that

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Does anyone have any good break-up tips? Did you ever dump anyone?
I need to break up, but I really don't know how to do it. Been together like 2.5 years but I'm just not feeling it anymore. How can I do this without being a dick/being hated?
Any tips?

ask her if she wants kids. If she does, say that you don't want them and break up with her saying how you don't want to waste her time and that she deserves someone who wants kids

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Sorry Chaddington, I'm not low inhib enough for that

Well the thing is the more you drag it out the more pissed off she will be for leading her on

 

[frentanyl]

Just try to make her break up with you. Start doing things she doesn’t like until she can’t handle it any more. She will lose interest in you and not be hurt much by the breakup

I kinda tried this, but to be honest there is basically NOTHING that will work. Clingy as fuck basically.

ask her if she wants kids. If she does, say that you don't want them and break up with her saying how you don't want to waste her time and that she deserves someone who wants kids

That is one issue. Doesn't want them... but I do... however as we are in early 20s, this doesn't really matter as it's not like I am going to be having kids anytime soon anyway. I guess that could be a decent excuse.

 

[frentanyl]

Well the thing is the more you drag it out the more pissed off she will be for leading her on

I know this. It's a double-edged sword. I did almost end things, but then something like one of our birthdays happens, or some other shit that makes it bad timing. Also sometimes if we do have a great date then I sort of think I won't bother with the risk and hassle of breaking up, however this feeling fades after like a day.

 

[qazw]

I kinda tried this, but to be honest there is basically NOTHING that will work. Clingy as fuck basically.

That is one issue. Doesn't want them... but I do... however as we are in early 20s, this doesn't really matter as it's not like I am going to be having kids anytime soon anyway. I guess that could be a decent excuse.

Set her up with one of your friends without her knowing you planned it. Get him to take her off your hands. You can just break up with the excuse of cheating after that

 

[frentanyl]

Set her up with one of your friends without her knowing you planned it. Get him to take her off your hands. You can just break up with the excuse of cheating after that

I have almost no friends... for a very good reason (wealthmaxxing mainly). Maybe I will make a thread about that at some point.

Anyhow, life is not a movie. Nice idea tho, thanks fren.

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Doesn't want them... but I do... however as we are in early 20s, this doesn't really matter as it's not like I am going to be having kids anytime soon anyway.

then do what i just said just in reverse jfl. Honestly besides this your only ways out are to larp as a depressed alcoholic while gradually becoming more cold to her hoping she'll leave you or just leave a town forever

 

[frentanyl]

then do what i just said just in reverse jfl. Honestly besides this your only ways out are to larp as a depressed alcoholic while gradually becoming more cold to her hoping she'll leave you or just leave a town forever

Yeah I might try this (not the alcoholic part)
Seems like the best bet and doesn't put the blame on anybody.

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Yeah I might try this (not the alcoholic part)
Seems like the best bet and doesn't put the blame on anybody.

2.5 years ain't no joke bud. Sorry but no way she won't be hating you a lil bit

 

[frentanyl]

2.5 years ain't no joke bud. Sorry but no way she won't be hating you a lil bit

I said from the beginning that no relationship that starts in early 20s lasts that long... (I know not strictly true, but 'settling down' in my 20s feels fucked up, especially seeing as I only had like 6 months of fucking around with mild success as I got into dating when I was in early 20s)

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

do you have a lot of mutual friends?

 

[frentanyl]

do you have a lot of mutual friends?

No

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

No

then why do you care if she will hate you, the breakup won't affect you personally