Broke up with girlfriend of 2 years

[hunter-]

I need someone to talk to please

 

[BigBallsLarry]

We can talk if you want, i was with my ex for 4 years before we broke off. It's a hard time.

 

[hunter-]

We can talk if you want, i was with my ex for 4 years before be broke off. It's a hard time.

How do you deal with it?? I feel like I have no goal anymore. She was all I lived for

 

[BigBallsLarry]

How do you deal with it?? I feel like I have no goal anymore. She was all I lived for

Well that's how you'll always feel at first.

It's a simple mistake of giving your all in the relationship, without thinking about the 'what if'.

I made the same mistake, when we were together we always promised eachother that we're different, that we're gonna grow old together, that we aren't like all the other relationships.. But that's how it always gets you. You don't expect anything to go wrong, so you dump all in. You lose friends, hobbies, time, everything for the relationship, so when it disappears you're left with nothing.

But this isn't something permanent, that feeling of void, it might last a week, might last a month, might last a few -- it all depends on when YOU become ready to move on and achieve greater things for YOURSELF.

it took me around a month to pick myself up personally, i was just like you, completely empty inside. I invested everything and was left with nothing. But. you're probably young and there's more to life than relationships and friendships. Pick up the gym, pick up any hobby.. Work towards self improvement.

When we broke off, i made a tiktok account where i would just post my journey of self improvement for no one to see. I'd post the healthy meals I'd make, physique updates.. etc.

Breaking up with a relationship that took everything from you is a blessing in disguise. Yes, it's heartbreaking, but think about all the time you have now for YOURSELF. No more worries, no more screaming in your ear, no more staying up all night. You have you and yourself, one person to focus on and one person to improve and make unstoppable.

Good luck man, all love. You're a strong man and a breakup won't change that. Worse thing you can do is cry over spilled milk - or even worse, seek revenge. You're wiser than that.

 

[Euron]

U can talk to me. Ik the feeling

 

[hunter-]

Well that's how you'll always feel at first.

It's a simple mistake of giving your all in the relationship, without thinking about the 'what if'.

I made the same mistake, when we were together we always promised eachother that we're different, that we're gonna grow old together, that we aren't like all the other relationships.. But that's how it always gets you. You don't expect anything to go wrong, so you dump all in. You lose friends, hobbies, time, everything for the relationship, so when it disappears you're left with nothing.

But this isn't something permanent, that feeling of void, it might last a week, might last a month, might last a few -- it all depends on when YOU become ready to move on and achieve greater things for YOURSELF.

it took me around a month to pick myself up personally, i was just like you, completely empty inside. I invested everything and was left with nothing. But. you're probably young and there's more to life than relationships and friendships. Pick up the gym, pick up any hobby.. Work towards self improvement.

When we broke off, i made a tiktok account where i would just post my journey of self improvement for no one to see. I'd post the healthy meals I'd make, physique updates.. etc.

Breaking up with a relationship that took everything from you is a blessing in disguise. Yes, it's heartbreaking, but think about all the time you have now for YOURSELF. No more worries, no more screaming in your ear, no more staying up all night. You have you and yourself, one person to focus on and one person to improve and make unstoppable.

Good luck man, all love. You're a strong man and a breakup won't change that. Worse thing you can do is cry over spilled milk - or even worse, seek revenge. You're wiser than that.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I really don’t feel like I could ever move on from this

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I really don’t feel like I could ever move on from this

You can do it man, it's not a matter of whether you can or not, it's a matter of whether you want to.

the sadness and feeling of emptiness - It's all in your head, but eventually you man up and start realizing the upsides.

 

[PrettyLights]

i don’t date girls. i’m a true cell and get no bitches

 

[nsk4ll]

I need someone to talk to please

damn

 

[hunter-]

You can do it man, it's not a matter of whether you can or not, it's a matter of whether you want to.

the sadness and feeling of emptiness - It's all in your head, but eventually you man up and start realizing the upsides.

If you say so. I’m really grateful you’re here genuinely I was so lost and I still am but at least I know you went through it too and got out of it and I feel like this already helps me
Thank you so much

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

ropefuel thread

 

[BigBallsLarry]

If you say so. I’m really grateful you’re here genuinely I was so lost and I still am but at least I know you went through it too and got out of it and I feel like this already helps me
Thank you so much

Of course bhai. Stay strong

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

cell

 

[hunter-]

U can talk to me. Ik the feeling

Now that she’s gone what do I do when I try / want to try to rope ?

 

[Eltrē]

We can talk if you want, i was with my ex for 4 years before we broke off. It's a hard time.

Aren't you like 15 or 16?
How do you have an ex of 4 years at that age?

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Aren't you like 15 or 16?
How do you have an ex of 4 years at that age?

I'm 18

 

[Euron]

Now that she’s gone what do I do when I try / want to try to rope ?

Well I wanted to kms too, but smth stopped me n i tried to focus more on my life. After that i realised that i should hate her nor say any what if-s n went on my life.
You should just remind urself that life doesnt end because of a girl, except if she lit kills u. Focus on the things you like, go out with the homies, js anything but thinking bout her n depressing urself. Dont hate on her, shell js be in ur mind more n more. Lastly try to cut as much contact as possible.
The what if-s shouldnt be a thing. The whole shit already happened, u cant change it so dont bother urself think howd u be able to save it.
Dont want to raise ur expectations that wont happen fast, it may take months. But after some time ud be back to normal n a new girl will get w u.
Trust me, g. Ive been here already it wasnt easy, but everything is good now. There was one long ass reply that explained things really well too. If you have any questions, i got u

 

[hunter-]

Well I wanted to kms too, but smth stopped me n i tried to focus more on my life. After that i realised that i should hate her nor say any what if-s n went on my life.
You should just remind urself that life doesnt end because of a girl, except if she lit kills u. Focus on the things you like, go out with the homies, js anything but thinking bout her n depressing urself. Dont hate on her, shell js be in ur mind more n more. Lastly try to cut as much contact as possible.
The what if-s shouldnt be a thing. The whole shit already happened, u cant change it so dont bother urself think howd u be able to save it.
Dont want to raise ur expectations that wont happen fast, it may take months. But after some time ud be back to normal n a new girl will get w u.
Trust me, g. Ive been here already it wasnt easy, but everything is good now. There was one long ass reply that explained things really well too. If you have any questions, i got u

How do I cope through something like that ? It hurts so bad i genuinely don’t know what to do

 

[Euron]

How do I cope through something like that ? It hurts so bad i genuinely don’t know what to do

It hurts really bad in the start. If you like to do smth js do it whenever u catch urself think bout her. Going out w my hommies helped me a lot to stop thinking bout her.
The hardest part tho is to accept it

 

[Asdec]

bump

 

[Asdec]

How do I cope through something like that ? It hurts so bad i genuinely don’t know what to do

I hope you are doing better. My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. It wasn’t really a good start to 2026 ig. I genuinely don’t think I will ever find anyone even half as good as she is. I invested so much. I did so many things for her. We both thought we had something special that set us apart from other relationships, that we would grow old together and live a happy life.

She is incredibly beautiful, caring, funny, and overall an interesting person. I was certain I would spend my entire life with her. However, so many things happened in her personal life that caused her to develop apathy. She told me she doesn’t want to be in any relationship for a long time and that she simply can’t love me anymore because of everything combined: her grandfather, whom she was very close to, died of cancer two months ago. Ten days ago, her mother was also diagnosed with cancer; and on top of that, she has to study intensively because she is in medical school.

These past two months have been absolute hell for both of us. I had a lot of personal issues going on as well. She told me that maybe, in the future, we could reconnect, perhaps in a year or two, but she doesn’t want to give me any hope.

 

[hunter-]

I hope you are doing better. My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. It wasn’t really a good start to 2026 ig. I genuinely don’t think I will ever find anyone even half as good as she is. I invested so much. I did so many things for her. We both thought we had something special that set us apart from other relationships, that we would grow old together and live a happy life.

She is incredibly beautiful, caring, funny, and overall an interesting person. I was certain I would spend my entire life with her. However, so many things happened in her personal life that caused her to develop apathy. She told me she doesn’t want to be in any relationship for a long time and that she simply can’t love me anymore because of everything combined: her grandfather, whom she was very close to, died of cancer two months ago. Ten days ago, her mother was also diagnosed with cancer; and on top of that, she has to study intensively because she is in medical school.

These past two months have been absolute hell for both of us. I had a lot of personal issues going on as well. She told me that maybe, in the future, we could reconnect, perhaps in a year or two, but she doesn’t want to give me any hope.

I feel you man, I’m actually pretty close to your situation bcs she told me we might reconnect one day but nothing is sure. It’s been about one week and I’m gonna be honest it didn’t get any easier for now, I miss telling her about my day and talking to her. I really miss the way she looked into my eyes when we were tgt. However I try to distract myself and I strongly advise you to do the same. Even if you might want to crawl up in your bed and do nothing, that’s when it’s going to hit the most and I learned that to get over a breakup, it’s the same as with lust; you can’t fight it your only option is to run. Do activities you generally like, spend time with your friends, whatever keeps you busy because the moment you’re alone with yourself, that’s when it hits the hardest.

Personally I think I haven’t even gone through the worst part yet cuz in 2 days I’m going back to school so I’ll see her there for the first time since the breakup. It’s going to be hard.
Anyway I wish you the best of luck and if you want to talk about anything feel free I’m here, either in this thread or a private conv.

 

[Asdec]

I feel you man, I’m actually pretty close to your situation bcs she told me we might reconnect one day but nothing is sure. It’s been about one week and I’m gonna be honest it didn’t get any easier for now, I miss telling her about my day and talking to her. I really miss the way she looked into my eyes when we were tgt. However I try to distract myself and I strongly advise you to do the same. Even if you might want to crawl up in your bed and do nothing, that’s when it’s going to hit the most and I learned that to get over a breakup, it’s the same as with lust; you can’t fight it your only option is to run. Do activities you generally like, spend time with your friends, whatever keeps you busy because the moment you’re alone with yourself, that’s when it hits the hardest.

Personally I think I haven’t even gone through the worst part yet cuz in 2 days I’m going back to school so I’ll see her there for the first time since the breakup. It’s going to be hard.
Anyway I wish you the best of luck and if you want to talk about anything feel free I’m here, either in this thread or a private conv.

Hey man, today I completely fucked up, could you please dm me? I have restricted permissions so I can't dm you

 

[.hk7k]

I need someone to talk to please

U need someone to talk to? How gay

 

[hunter-]

U need someone to talk to? How gay

stfu nigga u clearly never lost someone you actually loved if you react like that

 

[hunter-]

Hey man, today I completely fucked up, could you please dm me? I have restricted permissions so I can't dm you

yh done bro sorry I took a bit long to answer

 

[.hk7k]

stfu nigga u clearly never lost someone you actually loved if you react like that

Alright its normal i was lowkey pissed