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Disclaimer: I'm asian so that makes it even more brutal. Didn't use fashion though, It's all about the face. Imagine what chad gets.
Alright, boys, buckle up. This weekend was the pure embodiment of brutal blackpill reality, and if you're not taking hardmaxxing seriously yet, this is your wake-up call. I'm still just getting started with it myself, but trust me—there’s no way out without it. Let’s dissect the absolute mogging I experienced firsthand, what it means for us, and why hardmaxxing isn’t just an option; it’s the only way forward if you want to survive in this JFL world.
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The Initial Blackpill: FaceApp, Looksmaxxing Forums, and a Whole New "Face"
Started off the weekend with a FaceApp binge inspired by years of lurking here and on other looksmaxxing communities. By now, I’m past reading theories on ratios, standards, and morphs; I know my flaws inside and out. But using FaceApp? Damn, it’s surreal. I made my eyes slightly larger, slimmed down my nose, added that idealized jawline (you know the sliding genioplasty effect I’m talking about), cleaned up my acne, darkened my hair, and gave myself that Chad tan with CO2 laser smoothness. I even threw in some partial buccal fat removal (highly recommended), and let’s just say... Night. And. Day.
Before these tweaks, I was averaging 4 matches a week with women who are average to below on every damn platform—at best.
But with the filters on, I’m talking matching with htb to stacylites on Tinder and getting called a “male model” in the DMs at times.
JFL. It’s like living in a different universe. Pre-filter, not a single Stacylite or even MTB would give me a second look; post-filter? My DMs exploded with validation from randoms on Reddit to people saying, "Wow, you're handsome"—all for the price of a few aesthetic adjustments.
But of course, deep down, I knew it wasn’t sustainable. It was a mirage.
The Club Experience: Reality Checks and Rejection Brutality
After riding high on the FaceApp mog, I decided it was time to test the waters IRL. Pulled out all the stops—got an Uber to the club, put on a stylish composer-style costume for a halloween party, and expected the digital success to translate in real life. But JFL—as soon as I showed up, the difference hit me like a brick wall. Every Becky I approached saw through the online-enhanced version of me in a split second. No matter what angle I took, it was obvious I wasn't Chad; I wasn’t even high-tier normie in person. I was ltn to mtn at BEST.
Long story short, girls weren't interested, and I got left behind. Felt the sting of that brutal blackpill truth: if you're even slightly below expectation IRL, there’s no makeup for that. I was reminded how face and physique are the gatekeepers for any interaction with high-SMV women. Confidence, personality, even dressing well—they only get you so far if your jawline and height aren’t up to par.
Mid-Night Debrief: Meeting the Chad Lite and Getting Mogged
Later in the night, I ran into a Turkish guy—about 6'1" with a rhinoplasty that enhanced his already solid features. Guy had that Chad Lite look and easily attracted girls, even a high-SMV black girl he approached right in front of me. Watching him succeed where I couldn’t was another brutal reminder of how hardmaxxing can elevate even a mid-tier normie to Chad status with a few well-targeted changes. This guy wasn’t towering at 6’3”+, but his height was enough, and with a strong nose, jaw, and build, he was light-years ahead in the field. Just witnessing him in action reaffirmed the need to hardmax, not softmax, if you want to stop living with constant rejection.
If you want to know his surgeon, his instagram is drhayatiakbas.
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Lessons Learned: Why Hardmaxxing is Non-Negotiable
Look, this weekend proved to me there’s no “faking” Chad. If you’re serious about competing, you need to hardmax—half measures don’t cut it. Think you’re done after softmaxxing a few facial tweaks? JFL
, I was mistaken to think the FaceApp effect would carry over. Hardmaxxing—legit surgery, structured workouts, grooming perfection—is the only way forward.
Here’s the plan:
1. Rhinoplasty: Essential. After seeing the Turkish Chad Lite’s success with it, it’s clear that fixing even minor flaws in the nose can make or break you. I augmented my radix, refined the bridge, and lowered my nonexistent east asian columella.
2. Sliding Genioplasty: Jaw game is non-negotiable. You either have a razor-sharp jaw, or you don’t. If you’re not genetically blessed, this is the way. In my pics i performed around 6-7mm horizontal and 3-4 mm vertical.
3. Buccal Fat Removal: Lean face = alpha look. Midface heaviness? JFL, you’re already limiting yourself if you don’t address this. This isn't that apparent in my pics i took out 1/3rd to 1/4th max in the morph, so it might not be entirely necessary.
4. Eyebrow Microblading/Upper Blepharoplasty: Your eye area speaks volumes. I thickened my brows with castor oil, minoxidil, dermastamping and blading, as well as drew it a little bit lower. Also I gave myself a ptosis repair for very subtle double eyelids that still look masculine (not bit but still medium size since I'm east asian).
4. Hair Transplant: Self explanatory. hair is life, it really is. Finasteride, minoxidil, hair transplant in Turkey if needed. ACT EARLY.
I’m setting up consultations and will report back on progress, but I’ll be real—this entire experience was a painful but necessary wake-up call. No more half-measures. I’m not a Chadlite/HTN yet, but if these blackpill weekends taught me anything, it’s that playing catch-up isn’t optional anymore.
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Final Thoughts: Embrace the Blackpill and Take Action
The cold, hard truth is that the SMV world is relentless, and if you’re not prepared to face the rejection head-on, this lifestyle isn’t for you. So, if you’re lurking here, reading posts, and thinking about “maybe” getting one or two surgeries, wake up. Hardmaxxing is the only option. Not there yet, but I’ll be documenting the journey as I go, and one day, the goal is to be the one who finally mogged others.
If you’re still on the fence, remember: hardmaxxing is mandatory.
Alright, boys, buckle up. This weekend was the pure embodiment of brutal blackpill reality, and if you're not taking hardmaxxing seriously yet, this is your wake-up call. I'm still just getting started with it myself, but trust me—there’s no way out without it. Let’s dissect the absolute mogging I experienced firsthand, what it means for us, and why hardmaxxing isn’t just an option; it’s the only way forward if you want to survive in this JFL world.
---
The Initial Blackpill: FaceApp, Looksmaxxing Forums, and a Whole New "Face"
Started off the weekend with a FaceApp binge inspired by years of lurking here and on other looksmaxxing communities. By now, I’m past reading theories on ratios, standards, and morphs; I know my flaws inside and out. But using FaceApp? Damn, it’s surreal. I made my eyes slightly larger, slimmed down my nose, added that idealized jawline (you know the sliding genioplasty effect I’m talking about), cleaned up my acne, darkened my hair, and gave myself that Chad tan with CO2 laser smoothness. I even threw in some partial buccal fat removal (highly recommended), and let’s just say... Night. And. Day.
Before these tweaks, I was averaging 4 matches a week with women who are average to below on every damn platform—at best.
But with the filters on, I’m talking matching with htb to stacylites on Tinder and getting called a “male model” in the DMs at times.
JFL. It’s like living in a different universe. Pre-filter, not a single Stacylite or even MTB would give me a second look; post-filter? My DMs exploded with validation from randoms on Reddit to people saying, "Wow, you're handsome"—all for the price of a few aesthetic adjustments.
But of course, deep down, I knew it wasn’t sustainable. It was a mirage.
The Club Experience: Reality Checks and Rejection Brutality
After riding high on the FaceApp mog, I decided it was time to test the waters IRL. Pulled out all the stops—got an Uber to the club, put on a stylish composer-style costume for a halloween party, and expected the digital success to translate in real life. But JFL—as soon as I showed up, the difference hit me like a brick wall. Every Becky I approached saw through the online-enhanced version of me in a split second. No matter what angle I took, it was obvious I wasn't Chad; I wasn’t even high-tier normie in person. I was ltn to mtn at BEST.
Long story short, girls weren't interested, and I got left behind. Felt the sting of that brutal blackpill truth: if you're even slightly below expectation IRL, there’s no makeup for that. I was reminded how face and physique are the gatekeepers for any interaction with high-SMV women. Confidence, personality, even dressing well—they only get you so far if your jawline and height aren’t up to par.
Mid-Night Debrief: Meeting the Chad Lite and Getting Mogged
Later in the night, I ran into a Turkish guy—about 6'1" with a rhinoplasty that enhanced his already solid features. Guy had that Chad Lite look and easily attracted girls, even a high-SMV black girl he approached right in front of me. Watching him succeed where I couldn’t was another brutal reminder of how hardmaxxing can elevate even a mid-tier normie to Chad status with a few well-targeted changes. This guy wasn’t towering at 6’3”+, but his height was enough, and with a strong nose, jaw, and build, he was light-years ahead in the field. Just witnessing him in action reaffirmed the need to hardmax, not softmax, if you want to stop living with constant rejection.
If you want to know his surgeon, his instagram is drhayatiakbas.
---
Lessons Learned: Why Hardmaxxing is Non-Negotiable
Look, this weekend proved to me there’s no “faking” Chad. If you’re serious about competing, you need to hardmax—half measures don’t cut it. Think you’re done after softmaxxing a few facial tweaks? JFL
, I was mistaken to think the FaceApp effect would carry over. Hardmaxxing—legit surgery, structured workouts, grooming perfection—is the only way forward.Here’s the plan:
1. Rhinoplasty: Essential. After seeing the Turkish Chad Lite’s success with it, it’s clear that fixing even minor flaws in the nose can make or break you. I augmented my radix, refined the bridge, and lowered my nonexistent east asian columella.
2. Sliding Genioplasty: Jaw game is non-negotiable. You either have a razor-sharp jaw, or you don’t. If you’re not genetically blessed, this is the way. In my pics i performed around 6-7mm horizontal and 3-4 mm vertical.
3. Buccal Fat Removal: Lean face = alpha look. Midface heaviness? JFL, you’re already limiting yourself if you don’t address this. This isn't that apparent in my pics i took out 1/3rd to 1/4th max in the morph, so it might not be entirely necessary.
4. Eyebrow Microblading/Upper Blepharoplasty: Your eye area speaks volumes. I thickened my brows with castor oil, minoxidil, dermastamping and blading, as well as drew it a little bit lower. Also I gave myself a ptosis repair for very subtle double eyelids that still look masculine (not bit but still medium size since I'm east asian).
4. Hair Transplant: Self explanatory. hair is life, it really is. Finasteride, minoxidil, hair transplant in Turkey if needed. ACT EARLY.
I’m setting up consultations and will report back on progress, but I’ll be real—this entire experience was a painful but necessary wake-up call. No more half-measures. I’m not a Chadlite/HTN yet, but if these blackpill weekends taught me anything, it’s that playing catch-up isn’t optional anymore.
---
Final Thoughts: Embrace the Blackpill and Take Action
The cold, hard truth is that the SMV world is relentless, and if you’re not prepared to face the rejection head-on, this lifestyle isn’t for you. So, if you’re lurking here, reading posts, and thinking about “maybe” getting one or two surgeries, wake up. Hardmaxxing is the only option. Not there yet, but I’ll be documenting the journey as I go, and one day, the goal is to be the one who finally mogged others.
If you’re still on the fence, remember: hardmaxxing is mandatory.
