[Brutal] Looks made me change my personality

[Golang]

I'm was a very hyper and energetic guy, I like socializing, talk a lot, make a lot of jokes, and overall be a funny person when I was a kid.

But now that's I'm grown up and ugly, the failo effect made my personality be seen as the "annoying guy who talks too much" in High School, no matter what I did, I was the annoying kid, all because of looks, while the good looking guy in HS who has THE EXACT SAME PERSONALITY AS ME (and in fact, he was 10000x more obnoxious that what I ever could be) gets praised 24/7 and liked by everyone (even teachers jfl).

This forced me to become less hyper, higher inhib, less social, I stopped liking to talk to people, because subconsciously I knew that that's how someone with my looks should act.

I want to be good looking so I can be myself.

 

[Deleted member 6191]

Idk realizing it for me tried to make me not be the asocial guy

 

[Deleted member 4430]

why is it only unemployed friendless virgins who sprout this nonsense in an attempt to rationalise why they have monumentally failed by modern-day standards

but muh ancestors didnt shower, didnt court women, didnt sit at desks all day with wifi & mobile phones and only ate raw meat, the jews made me this good for nothing sack of shit who brings no value to existence...it was the tap water bro!!!!!!

shut the fuck up you de-evolved fred flintstones, go and live in a fucking forest and stop clogging up society which has clearly failed you

you cant handle the modern world, you lack genetic resiliance, you are weak and must go backwards

my hair is as strong as an ox, i will not break

 

[spark]

I'm was a very hyper and energetic guy, I like socializing, talk a lot, make a lot of jokes, and overall be a funny person when I was a kid.

But now that's I'm grown up and ugly, the failo effect made my personality be seen as the "annoying guy who talks too much" in High School, no matter what I did, I was the annoying kid, all because of looks, while the good looking guy in HS who has THE EXACT SAME PERSONALITY AS ME (and in fact, he was 10000x more obnoxious that what I ever could be) gets praised 24/7 and liked by everyone (even teachers jfl).

This forced me to become less hyper, higher inhib, less social, I stopped liking to talk to people, because subconsciously I knew that that's how someone with my looks should act.

I want to be good looking so I can be myself.

I can relate. Welcome to adulthood!

 

[Vitruvian]

True looks = personality. U can tell if a person is insecure just by their face

 

[gymcelalpha]

Its all just a correlation, usually the more naturally confident you are then the better looking you are from having validation

 

[Deleted member 7651]

That s brutal man , im honestly sorry to hear that because i can kind of relate , my acne is the only thing that makes me high inhib in public