Brutal ngl

[AlexAP]

In the last months, I finally managed to reduce the amount of contact I had to a girl I was in the friendzone in (since about March last year). It was good, and not as a big deal as I thought (although I had other problems, different topic). But yesterday and today was bad ngl. I was invited to McDonald's with her, I said okay but should have known better. Another guy showed up and clearly was trying to get her. It was brutal.

Today she called me, saying someone gave her cards for a concert today. She was on the phone with me doing all the preparations, then out of nowhere said the other guy (from yesterday) was going with her, then she continued the preparation and small talk with me. She even stayed on the phone while driving to him, what a bitch. She only hung up when the guy came to the car and greeted her.

So she's going to watch Pietro Lombardi with the other guy in Dortmund now, while I'm posting this on .org.

Guys, I feel like I have to cut off all contact with her, or stuff like this will repeat.

 

[Vincent Freeman]

its your looks and other shortcomings caused by not being able to grow up

 

[AlexAP]

its your looks and other shortcomings caused by not being able to grow up

Incoherent rambling

 

[Darkeningstar]

I would say so, fortunately I have never had female friends.

 

[Vincent Freeman]

Incoherent rambling

yes thats op

 

[TurboOgre]

Just block her for your own sanity

You won't get her anyways, what's to lose?

 

[Cyrus]

I would say so, fortunately I have never had female friends.

having them is worse than not having them

 

[AlexAP]

Just block her for your own sanity

You won't get her anyways, what's to lose?

This would require a little effort. We go to the same clubs, she knows where I live (and visited me as "surprise"), and we talk every day and sometimes hang out.

So I would need to not just block her, I would also need to tell her to not talk to me in clubs and never visit me, and give a reason.

 

[Darkeningstar]

having them is worse than not having them

I'm weird and introverted, I wouldn't be of use to females unless they were attracted to me.
The female 'friends' I had were friends of girls with whom I had a relationship

 

[Sprinkles]

Today she called me, saying someone gave her cards for a concert today. She was on the phone with me doing all the preparations, then out of nowhere said the other guy (from yesterday) was going with her, then she continued the preparation and small talk with me. She even stayed on the phone while driving to him, what a bitch. She only hung up when the guy came to the car and greeted her.

So she's going to watch Pietro Lombardi with the other guy in Dortmund now, while I'm posting this on .org.

Guys, I feel like I have to cut off all contact with her, or stuff like this will repeat.

do u feel cucked

 

[Darkeningstar]

This would require a little effort. We go to the same clubs, she knows where I live (and visited me as "surprise"), and we talk every day and sometimes hang out.

So I would need to not just block her, I would also need to tell her to not talk to me in clubs and never visit me, and give a reason.

I understand that you want to be a good person, but it's not necessarily useful to behave in the same way as you would with a male

 

[CookieGuy]

its your looks and other shortcomings caused by not being able to grow up

Not in all cases of the friendzone, but definitely some

There are ways to tell if she liked you or not, it’s very easy to do.

Examples: drawing you, trying to stand close to you, lots of hugs, calling you handsome, reaching out to you first, acting weaker around you.

However it is entirely possible that she found OP attractive but rather wanted someone else who was more mature or had a personality that was better, or she just had her eyes on a guy who LOOKED BETTER. Friendzone doesn’t automatically mean ugIy, lots of factors can contribute

 

[TurboOgre]

This would require a little effort. We go to the same clubs, she knows where I live (and visited me as "surprise"), and we talk every day and sometimes hang out.

So I would need to not just block her, I would also need to tell her to not talk to me in clubs and never visit me, and give a reason.

Either gradually start decreasing the amount you interact with her or just go cold turkey

But you know what needs to be done, it's up to you If you can do it or not

 

[CookieGuy]

I'm weird and introverted, I wouldn't be of use to females unless they were attracted to me.
The female 'friends' I had were friends of girls with whom I had a relationship

Exactly. Same for me (I’m a cutecel mtn)

 

[CookieGuy]

Either gradually start decreasing the amount you interact with her or just go cold turkey

But you know what needs to be done, it's up to you If you can do it or not

Cold turkey? More like Fly to Turkey and get some Implants and Trimax

 

[AlexAP]

do u feel cucked

Kinda, but it's weird, because the other guys must feel cucked too. She did it a few times, guys wanted to date her, and she somehow brings me in. One time she even called me while being in the restaurant wih another guy (just for "fun").

 

[Darkeningstar]

Exactly. Same for me (I’m a cutecel mtn)

I refused the girls in advance for this very reason, if I thought it wouldn't work with them.

 

[CookieGuy]

I refused the girls in advance for this very reason, if I thought it wouldn't work with them.

Is it because they mogged you or something? For me it was because they were always atleast one microrate better looking than me, or that I was worried of hurting them.

I told a lot of them many times “you should go away from me, I will hurt you, even if I don’t mean to”

 

[Darkeningstar]

Is it because they mogged you or something? For me it was because they were always atleast one microrate better looking than me, or that I was worried of hurting them.

I told a lot of them many times “you should go away from me, I will hurt you, even if I don’t mean to”

In most cases I was better looking. It was because I was looking for medium-long term compatible girls, very difficult

 

[CookieGuy]

In most cases I was better looking. It was because I was looking for medium-long term compatible girls, very difficult

Yeah that was a good call on you. Every single one I’ve messed up. They would put up for my nonsense and rudeness and lashing for such a long time and then eventually they would have a huge breakdown and cry and then I would leave.



Also it’s hard to tell if the girIs mogged me. Some people on the forum would say “I mogged” “they mogged” it was hard to tell. Maybe this forum just has a hard time rating girIs

 

[Darkeningstar]

Is it because they mogged you or something? For me it was because they were always atleast one microrate better looking than me, or that I was worried of hurting them

Yeah that was a good call on you. Every single one I’ve messed up. They would put up for my nonsense and rudeness and lashing for such a long time and then eventually they would have a huge breakdown and cry and then I would leave.



Also it’s hard to tell if the girIs mogged me. Some people on the forum would say “I mogged” “they mogged” it was hard to tell. Maybe this forum just has a hard time rating girIs

Maybe many people thought I was a narcissist or something, but I'm almost the opposite. In some cases I was forced to act like an asshole, but it had the opposite effect.

I think rating girls is quite useless

 

[CookieGuy]

Maybe many people thought I was a narcissist or something, but I'm almost the opposite. In some cases I was forced to act like an asshole, but it had the opposite effect.

I think rating girls is quite useless

Yeah true. I tried acting like a a hole because I thought they like that. This forum is werid


Also why is girl rating useless? Explain?

 

[HostSamurai]

Yeah true. I tried acting like a a hole because I thought they like that. This forum is werid


Also why is girl rating useless? Explain?

Women are a lot harder to rate because of nuanced factors. Although objectively I guess a good maxilla, nose, and eye area helps them a lot whereas men can actually get away with these things more.

 

[Darkeningstar]

Yeah true. I tried acting like a a hole because I thought they like that. This forum is werid


Also why is girl rating useless? Explain?

Because the attractiveness threshold for females is low.
Is there a difference between a mtb and a htb? Yes, but both are considered fuckable by males.

If there was a valid reason to subject female appearance to criticism then that would be useful, but the important thing is sexual selectability.
Most males either can't have it (not good looking enough), or they demand little.

 

[PsychoH]

In the last months, I finally managed to reduce the amount of contact I had to a girl I was in the friendzone in (since about March last year). It was good, and not as a big deal as I thought (although I had other problems, different topic). But yesterday and today was bad ngl. I was invited to McDonald's with her, I said okay but should have known better. Another guy showed up and clearly was trying to get her. It was brutal.

Today she called me, saying someone gave her cards for a concert today. She was on the phone with me doing all the preparations, then out of nowhere said the other guy (from yesterday) was going with her, then she continued the preparation and small talk with me. She even stayed on the phone while driving to him, what a bitch. She only hung up when the guy came to the car and greeted her.

So she's going to watch Pietro Lombardi with the other guy in Dortmund now, while I'm posting this on .org.

Guys, I feel like I have to cut off all contact with her, or stuff like this will repeat.

Never talk to her ever again. Delete her on everything and block her afterwards.