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That’s what i hear whenever I talk to someone about my past, how the guilt of my actions are still onto me, how i am still a horrible person and wanting to become better.

I tell them that and they say that’s in the past and what matters is now, what matters how you act now.

It’s a good advice until they contradict themselves not even seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks and months later.

Bringing up my past actions that i did what i was not proud of and i don’t blame them. I don’t blame on anyone.

We are not perfect, we always forget. The way i receive news is not from any different person.


But question to you guys, have you guys ever had someone mention your past actions that you were not proud of, perhaps doesn’t want it being mentioned.

If so, what was your reaction and for those that hasn’t had this happened yet. Whats your opinion? Should this be used in arguments sometimes?

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@Ralix @bust @inversions @hax @valentine
 
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seriously? No replies or view? Not a single molecule?
 
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i was not human 1 year ago
 
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i was not human 1 year ago
But has this happened to you? Someone bringing up your past which you were not proud of you?
 
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BUMP 🥲
 
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That’s what i hear whenever I talk to someone about my past, how the guilt of my actions are still onto me, how i am still a horrible person and wanting to become better.

I tell them that and they say that’s in the past and what matters is now, what matters how you act now.

It’s a good advice until they contradict themselves not even seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks and months later.

Bringing up my past actions that i did what i was not proud of and i don’t blame them. I don’t blame on anyone.

We are not perfect, we always forget. The way i receive news is not from any different person.


But question to you guys, have you guys ever had someone mention your past actions that you were not proud of, perhaps doesn’t want it being mentioned.

If so, what was your reaction and for those that hasn’t had this happened yet. Whats your opinion? Should this be used in arguments sometimes?

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@Ralix @bust @inversions @hax @valentine
i did so much cringe shit and said so much terrible shit to people in my past that i try to avoid them and just stay indoors all day. i hate going to the masjid cuz then i see these people and they probably remember all the cringe shit i did. i deadass need to move out of my hometown.
 
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Yup. People never want to let go of the things you did a long time ago
 
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That’s what i hear whenever I talk to someone about my past, how the guilt of my actions are still onto me, how i am still a horrible person and wanting to become better.

I tell them that and they say that’s in the past and what matters is now, what matters how you act now.

It’s a good advice until they contradict themselves not even seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks and months later.

Bringing up my past actions that i did what i was not proud of and i don’t blame them. I don’t blame on anyone.

We are not perfect, we always forget. The way i receive news is not from any different person.


But question to you guys, have you guys ever had someone mention your past actions that you were not proud of, perhaps doesn’t want it being mentioned.

If so, what was your reaction and for those that hasn’t had this happened yet. Whats your opinion? Should this be used in arguments sometimes?

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@Ralix @bust @inversions @hax @valentine
no, nobody knows my past. ive made up a few lies for when people ask me about it
im not even ashamed of it, i just want privacy
 
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That’s what i hear whenever I talk to someone about my past, how the guilt of my actions are still onto me, how i am still a horrible person and wanting to become better.

I tell them that and they say that’s in the past and what matters is now, what matters how you act now.

It’s a good advice until they contradict themselves not even seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks and months later.

Bringing up my past actions that i did what i was not proud of and i don’t blame them. I don’t blame on anyone.

We are not perfect, we always forget. The way i receive news is not from any different person.


But question to you guys, have you guys ever had someone mention your past actions that you were not proud of, perhaps doesn’t want it being mentioned.

If so, what was your reaction and for those that hasn’t had this happened yet. Whats your opinion? Should this be used in arguments sometimes?

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@Ralix @bust @inversions @hax @valentine
I do actually, its not a thing i did but that i had to do, i had an open heart surgery and im pretty insecure about the scar that goes all the way down to my sternum, and when someone brings it up i feel dread and angriness:feelswah:
 
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have you guys ever had someone mention your past actions that you were not proud of, perhaps doesn’t want it being mentioned.

If so, what was your reaction and for those that hasn’t had this happened yet. Whats your opinion? Should this be used in arguments sometimes?
There probably were some incidents where people used my past against me, but I don’t really have anything specific in mind. I think bringing up someone else’s mistakes doesn’t make your own disappear, but rather shows insecurity and a lack of actual arguments against what you’re saying. It often happens that when people lose an argument, they start bringing up personal stuff like your past as an insult, because most go into a defense mechanism.
 
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i had an open heart surgery and im pretty insecure about the scar that goes all the way down to my sternum, and when someone brings it up i feel dread and angriness:feelswah:
Wear it with proud
 
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