Can anyone here actually explain how to get a girlfriend/get girls in general?

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It seems many here separate the concept of being "PSL God" from actually having a girlfriend and being normal gl dude.

I personally have no idea how to get a girlfriend or get girls, despite having experience with girls.

So I am clueless even with experience.

How do you simply go from a girl interested to actually having anything more than that? How do even go from no girl interested to a process whereby one MAY SOMEDAY become interested, on a day by day approach or basis?

Can somebody actually explain the steps or something?

Not in THEORY but in PRACTICALITY.

How to go from no gf and point 'X' to having some form of a relationship, hookup or more, without vague theories.

Show me the blueprint; the steps; the process in specific details.
 
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You need to …

Try harder
 
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You need to talk to a lot of girls until you find someone who matches your vibrations and you can effortlessly attract
 
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Social circle and being NT, that’s how normies get relationships
 
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dont even think about being an orbiter if you dont have atleast o pry tier orbitals. Minimum to even talk to a woman in 2023 is looking like de poot. Please stop coping with muh social circle. If you were a true 8spl chad women would suck your dick just by looking at your ogee curve supporting those deep-set compact orbital hunter eyes. Unfortunately you are a subhuman and no woman will ever love you, So sorry.

Get Surgery Or Rope
 
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Social circle and being NT, that’s how normies get relationships

Both are incel copes. None of those things exist outside of PSL.

Normies naturally grow in to social strata, you can't just "become NT" and suddenly a gf appears out of thin air.

Faggot.

So explain it in steps, not vague ideologies.
 
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idk im 28khhv
 
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dont even think about being an orbiter if you dont have atleast o pry tier orbitals. Minimum to even talk to a woman in 2023 is looking like de poot. Please stop coping with muh social circle. If you were a true 8spl chad women would suck your dick just by looking at your ogee curve supporting those deep-set compact orbital hunter eyes. Unfortunately you are a subhuman and no woman will ever love you, So sorry.

Get Surgery Or Rope

This but unironically. Almost.

This is like 75% accurate tbh.

Only difference is disagreement on where Chad begins or to what league of women you'd appeal based on your own current looks/SMV.

But the truth is once you got the right looks I think all else falls in place easier.
 
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Both are incel copes. None of those things exist outside of PSL.

Normies naturally grow in to social strata, you can't just "become NT" and suddenly a gf appears out of thin air.

Faggot.

So explain it in steps, not vague ideologies.
I never said one could become NT, it’s all genetically determined
 
I never said one could become NT, it’s all genetically determined

I delivered pizza on my bicycle to two hot young Latinas and they complimented me.

Not on my looks but on my job as a bicycle delivery boy.
 
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This but unironically. Almost.

This is like 75% accurate tbh.

Only difference is disagreement on where Chad begins or to what league of women you'd appeal based on your own current looks/SMV.

But the truth is once you got the right looks I think all else falls in place easier.
Bro NT doesnt exist.

It will sound overexaggerated as fuck if I say this on here and people will say cope, however, I have been at both sides of the coin.

I was a fat ass ngga most of my early puberty, going into HS i weighed around 80kg @ 5"7 lol.

I was fat pretty much my entire life until recently. Gladly enough my dads genes (he has an insanely wide rami malek tier jaw) and me chewing pretty much my entire life saved my bones underneath that fat.
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Now, once I leanmaxxed, and actually got motivated to get shit done. I saw the true brutality of this superficial world. Like unironically from the day I step foot in my new school till now, I have NEVER made the active effort to get to know anyone. Literally never. I unironically still autistically have my mouth closed and hardmew at school. Yet my entire life has changed.

I dont want to make this a brag thread but looking good in highscchool (even if only a standard or two above normal deviation) is such an insane halo. Its literally like highschool movies and how they represent chads. I also play varsity soccer so I guess that helps.

HS its weird. If you look ugly you are shunned upon, If you look normie you can get a decent social circle since most are leanmaxxed normies anyways. But as soon as you start looking good according to PSL, its like a whole different world. When's the last time you saw true hollow cheeks and a wide masseter jaw irl? Now imagine that amongst a bunch of normies in HS. It almost FEELS weird for others if they see you as some introverted aspie when you look good. Normal people think in heuristics - they expect good looks = good brain chemistry and NT. If you differ from this you'll automatically raise eyes, people WILL try to talk to you no matter what you do.


your looks are everything in life. currently i'm at a state of mental confusion. Like upon initially finding the blackpill i thought it was just incel cope but no. your looks are EVERYTHING in life. Your face literally represents who you are. Your face tells someone more about you than you ever could via talking to them.


if you autistically chin tuck, hardmew, chew, inject GH , take sarms, get on all kinds of drugs, leanmaxx and better your puberty you can definitely ascend. And when i say mewing i mean like autistically hardmewing my ass off for HOURS and being in a chin tuck pretty much the entire time you're awake.
 
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Dr SmalCox
 
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I never said one could become NT, it’s all genetically determined
I think predeterminism to a degree is true as fuck to be honest.

My dad has an insanely good lower third with a great square chin. Think malek tier.

This guy was active as fuck in his puberty and played all kinds of sports. Had a great puberty.


I, on the other hand was a fat fuck throughout pretty much ALL my life before finding the blackpill. I ate a lot, and most importantly CHEWED a lot. Like pretty much every moment i was awake i was eating something or chewing gum or using my masseters in some way or the other, without even knowing what the fuck a masseter is.

When i leaned down for the first time in my life I got compliments at fucking 20% bf. I had hollow cheeks and a square jaw without ever thinking about what a masseter is.

This leads me to think that genetics do play a role in your development, one way or the other. My dad has a square jaw and wide chin because he was active in his puberty and was insanely high T. I had high prenatal T but was never too involved with sports/active. However for some reason my body decided it would chew all the time for the past 16 or so years. I never even thought about why I chewed and ate all the time before the blackpill, like i just chewed using my masseters without even knowing what the muscle was. I believe my jaw is actually a bit smaller now than when I first leaned down due to me trying out weird chewing methods trying to grow my masseters

It all comes naturally IMO. There must be a reason chads are fat in puberty, its cause they all chew throughought their development leading to a well developed face. Obviously genetics play a part.
 
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Depends on looks level:

Subhuman - your only real option is to have some sort of status or have someone pity date you, people have to approach you first or else you can expect to end up on a registry.

LTN-MTN - social circles are going to be your main outlet, find a social circle within a niche hobby, it's where the term nichemaxxing comes from. Pick up a style associated with a sub culture. Usually the bar for looks in these groups are super low, a HTN would be the equivalent of a chad in most of these circles. You'll usually find normie couples within this looks range who got together through sharing a geeky hobby or interests. Risk of being cucked is high however.

HTN - you can probably try entering social circles that aren't binded to a specific niche, a HTN will often be the best option in a room. Things like OLD will probably be out of your reach but you might find success if you fit a desirable archetype (e.g. prettyboy). You can also try clubbing at this looks level provided you're also well groomed.

Chadlite-Chad - OLD is open to you, clubs are open to you, most of the world is your oyster at this point, what advice is needed.
 
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Depends on looks level:

Subhuman - your only real option is to have some sort of status or have someone pity date you, people have to approach you first or else you can expect to end up on a registry.

LTN-MTN - social circles are going to be your main outlet, find a social circle within a niche hobby, it's where the term nichemaxxing comes from. Pick up a style associated with a sub culture. Usually the bar for looks in these groups are super low, a HTN would be the equivalent of a chad in most of these circles. You'll usually find normie couples within this looks range who got together through sharing a geeky hobby or interests. Risk of being cucked is high however.

HTN - you can probably try entering social circles that aren't binded to a specific niche, a HTN will often be the best option in a room. Things like OLD will probably be out of your reach but you might find success if you fit a desirable archetype (e.g. prettyboy). You can also try clubbing at this looks level provided you're also well groomed.

Chadlite-Chad - OLD is open to you, clubs are open to you, most of the world is your oyster at this point, what advice is needed.

I ain't got time for these fucking silly games.

Just lay out the steps or cope. This shit involves changing "personality" which is borderline impossible.

Everyone can't just snap their fingers and become mister "fun loving cuck"

Some people are rocks and always will be.
 
 
It seems many here separate the concept of being "PSL God" from actually having a girlfriend and being normal gl dude.

I personally have no idea how to get a girlfriend or get girls, despite having experience with girls.

So I am clueless even with experience.

How do you simply go from a girl interested to actually having anything more than that? How do even go from no girl interested to a process whereby one MAY SOMEDAY become interested, on a day by day approach or basis?

Can somebody actually explain the steps or something?

Not in THEORY but in PRACTICALITY.

How to go from no gf and point 'X' to having some form of a relationship, hookup or more, without vague theories.

Show me the blueprint; the steps; the process in specific details.
Tinder/clubs are the best.
 
Depends on looks level:

Subhuman - your only real option is to have some sort of status or have someone pity date you, people have to approach you first or else you can expect to end up on a registry.

LTN-MTN - social circles are going to be your main outlet, find a social circle within a niche hobby, it's where the term nichemaxxing comes from. Pick up a style associated with a sub culture. Usually the bar for looks in these groups are super low, a HTN would be the equivalent of a chad in most of these circles. You'll usually find normie couples within this looks range who got together through sharing a geeky hobby or interests. Risk of being cucked is high however.

HTN - you can probably try entering social circles that aren't binded to a specific niche, a HTN will often be the best option in a room. Things like OLD will probably be out of your reach but you might find success if you fit a desirable archetype (e.g. prettyboy). You can also try clubbing at this looks level provided you're also well groomed.

Chadlite-Chad - OLD is open to you, clubs are open to you, most of the world is your oyster at this point, what advice is needed.
Good breakdown, but I’ll hve to also agree with OP, you can’t just enter a social circle like that without being NT and low in neuroticism
 
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Tinder/clubs are the best.

If you want to fuck mentally ill, mid, used up whores and are 5+ PSL, yeah.

No good if you want a girl with low body count who likes you or one who isn't disgusting.
 
It seems many here separate the concept of being "PSL God" from actually having a girlfriend and being normal gl dude.

I personally have no idea how to get a girlfriend or get girls, despite having experience with girls.

So I am clueless even with experience.

How do you simply go from a girl interested to actually having anything more than that? How do even go from no girl interested to a process whereby one MAY SOMEDAY become interested, on a day by day approach or basis?

Can somebody actually explain the steps or something?

Not in THEORY but in PRACTICALITY.

How to go from no gf and point 'X' to having some form of a relationship, hookup or more, without vague theories.

Show me the blueprint; the steps; the process in specific details.
personality
 
If you want to fuck mentally ill, mid, used up whores and are 5+ PSL, yeah.

No good if you want a girl with low body count who likes you or one who isn't disgusting.
You are going for str not for anything long term and I don't know why you make it so big deal.
 
You are going for str not for anything long term and I don't know why you make it so big deal.
STR or not I don't want disgusting, worn out whore-ish types.

That is on you and your drugged up haze/your prerogative to be contebt with trash

You are what you eat?

Well I believe you are what you fuck too.
 
If you’re a normie you have to be NT and have a social circle, alternative is rotting. Chadlite doesn’t need to be NT or have friends, women will talk to him everywhere he goes, all he has to do is go outside and he’ll stumble in some pussy.
 
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LOOKS (and height)

If you lack these then statusmaxx and moneymaxx
 
It seems many here separate the concept of being "PSL God" from actually having a girlfriend and being normal gl dude.

I personally have no idea how to get a girlfriend or get girls, despite having experience with girls.

So I am clueless even with experience.

How do you simply go from a girl interested to actually having anything more than that? How do even go from no girl interested to a process whereby one MAY SOMEDAY become interested, on a day by day approach or basis?

Can somebody actually explain the steps or something?

Not in THEORY but in PRACTICALITY.

How to go from no gf and point 'X' to having some form of a relationship, hookup or more, without vague theories.

Show me the blueprint; the steps; the process in specific details.
just be confident
 
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