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So, guys, I’m 19M, and she’s also 19. We go to the same university. We got along on projects, made each other laugh, and all that good stuff. But then I became really soft. I tried to ask her out, got rejected, and now she’s avoiding me—even though we have all the common classes together. It’s awkward AF.
I want to fix this. Should I just let time solve it, or should I go and be like, “Yeah, that was awkward, let’s get past it”? The thing is, I really like her, and I want to looksmax and try again—maybe at the end of uni or whenever I have a good shot and am looking better. I don’t just want to hook up; I genuinely like her, and we have a lot in common.
The thing is, I have basically zero dating experience, and I need to learn to talk to women better and be more confident/manly, because I know I have high potential. I’d love any advice or stories, even if they’re not directly related. I’m new to looksmaxing, but I want to ascend and be happy.
[Also, people think I’m very smart for whatever reason, and she even said that. Even though I try to deny it, it just made things worse.]
I want to fix this. Should I just let time solve it, or should I go and be like, “Yeah, that was awkward, let’s get past it”? The thing is, I really like her, and I want to looksmax and try again—maybe at the end of uni or whenever I have a good shot and am looking better. I don’t just want to hook up; I genuinely like her, and we have a lot in common.
The thing is, I have basically zero dating experience, and I need to learn to talk to women better and be more confident/manly, because I know I have high potential. I’d love any advice or stories, even if they’re not directly related. I’m new to looksmaxing, but I want to ascend and be happy.
[Also, people think I’m very smart for whatever reason, and she even said that. Even though I try to deny it, it just made things worse.]
