Can parents actually love all their children equally?

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Mine claim they do, but rationally speaking I just can't see that being the case.

I am 20, I have an 18 year old sister and a 10 year old brother.

My brother is good looking and he is going to grow up into a proper prettyboy, I can see it already. He is the most popular one in his class and is also taller than most kids his age.

Like, if a fairy went back in time and offered my parents:

"Do you want 2 mediocre and one amazing child or do you want 3 amazing children?"

... they'd certainly pick the latter.

So, if I'd lose to my fictional self, how can they love the actual better version of me, that being my brother, as much as they love me?
 
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My mom loves me the most tbh.

But she still loves my siblings a ton.
 
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My mom loves me the most tbh.

But she still loves my siblings a ton.
Do you think it depends on how much you are destined to achieve in your life, aka. how good your genes are compared to your siblings?
 
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Do you think it depends on how much you are destined to achieve in your life, aka. how good your genes are compared to your siblings?
possibly. I think my mom always felt more of a connection to me because she chose my name (she didn’t choose my other 2 siblings names)
She named me after one of her big brothers and she said she had the best pregnancy with me. She fattened me up as a child aswell I was fat little cute cel until I was like 10.

I also look like my mom more than my other siblings.
 
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I am 20, I have an 18 year old sister and a 10 year old brother.
Wait, you have an 18yo sister, what are you even doing here?:feelsthink:
Does she have instagram, what's her account?
 
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mine hated me and loved my younger brother :feelsbadman:
 
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Mine claim they do, but rationally speaking I just can't see that being the case.

I am 20, I have an 18 year old sister and a 10 year old brother.

My brother is good looking and he is going to grow up into a proper prettyboy, I can see it already. He is the most popular one in his class and is also taller than most kids his age.

Like, if a fairy went back in time and offered my parents:

"Do you want 2 mediocre and one amazing child or do you want 3 amazing children?"

... they'd certainly pick the latter.

So, if I'd lose to my fictional self, how can they love the actual better version of me, that being my brother, as much as they love me?
No
 
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Mine claim they do, but rationally speaking I just can't see that being the case.

I am 20, I have an 18 year old sister and a 10 year old brother.

My brother is good looking and he is going to grow up into a proper prettyboy, I can see it already. He is the most popular one in his class and is also taller than most kids his age.

Like, if a fairy went back in time and offered my parents:

"Do you want 2 mediocre and one amazing child or do you want 3 amazing children?"

... they'd certainly pick the latter.

So, if I'd lose to my fictional self, how can they love the actual better version of me, that being my brother, as much as they love me?
its over
 
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Does she have instagram, what's her account?
Weeeeeirdo.

I am not gonna give you her instagram:rolleyes:

I can give you mine tho:owo: I look cute as hell in my profile picture:forcedsmile:
 
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Weeeeeirdo.

I am not gonna give you her instagram:rolleyes:

I can give you mine tho:owo: I look cute as hell in my profile picture:forcedsmile:
Screenshot 2025 07 18 174017
 
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love is not real
your parents will only love you if it benefits them
 
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They will be closest to the earliest child I think, cause that child went through the most shit with them
 
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