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I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
 
If you need to learn how to slay than it never began jfl
 
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I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
This isnt the perfect site to ask
 
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I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
Dude a trick I learned is if ur trying to flirt with a girl but you dont know how to portray yourself, talk to her as if you know a naughty secret about her
 
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I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
get money and buy a whore
 
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Dude a trick I learned is if ur trying to flirt with a girl but you dont know how to portray yourself, talk to her as if you know a naughty secret about her
Thank you, the only reply actually trying to help lol😭
 
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get money and buy a whore
Dude while I was lurking I saw some crazy shit (no pun intended) abt u. Idgaf if its true but I was wondering how you had so much money
 
get money and buy a whore
Idk where I could get a whore, I’m in a small town and the next city is hours away, I don’t have a car and can’t work till December.
 
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It comes naturally to anyone who isn’t mentally disabled
Im not mentally disabled/ im perfectly fine at talking to people. I would still wonder the same like how do u go from talking to a girl to fucking her.
 
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Im not mentally disabled/ im perfectly fine at talking to people. I would still wonder the same like how do u go from talking to a girl to fucking her.
Ask her if you she wants to fuck, if she says no she’s not physically attracted to you
 
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Ask her if you she wants to fuck, if she says no she’s not physically attracted to you
Bro ig that works if ur on a date and she doesnt hold herself up highly. Some chicks will like u but still wont wanna seem "easy". Foids have hundreds of options so they can pass up on u
 
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Im not mentally disabled/ im perfectly fine at talking to people. I would still wonder the same like how do u go from talking to a girl to fucking her.
Exactly, I’m not completely mentally fucked over I’m just struggling on how to talk to them well enough to get them to want to fuck
 
I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
show us your face we need to see what we are working with
 
Let’s say this is true, how do I improve
Ok u need to start learning how to flirt/be less socially aware. The key to talking to girls is unironically being yourself in the way that you should not be having to consciously think abt it, it should be as natural as talking to ur friends. U can only reach that stage if u start making an effort to be more social. Start talking to chicks when u get the chance. Get on insta if ur in highschool or dating apps or whatever if u want to talk to chicks without being face to face.
 
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Bro ig that works if ur on a date and she doesnt hold herself up highly. Some chicks will like u but still wont wanna seem "easy". Foids have hundreds of options so they can pass up on u
yea but im talking about when u get to know her for a bit, of course if u don’t even know her she will deny u for sex automatically even if ur a chad
 
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I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
Also I re read this, if ur homeschooled I would reccomend u make a snapchat account and quick add girls and just send them full face snaps. Also do u have any friends at all? If so, get an instagram profile going and follow there friends and so on and then dm the girls u find pretty, first dm them some rnadom shit but if u start a convo then ask them out. Make sure u have full photos of u on ur account
 
yea but im talking about when u get to know her for a bit, of course if u don’t even know her she will deny u for sex automatically even if ur a chad
Haha yeah bro I thought u were saying like just go up to a chick at the grocery store and ask her if she wants to fuck and I was like damn this guy is delusional
 
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I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
cant speak on flirting with girls but if you wanna make friends go to the gym and find some kids your age and talk to them idk
 
Ok u need to start learning how to flirt/be less socially aware. The key to talking to girls is unironically being yourself in the way that you should not be having to consciously think abt it, it should be as natural as talking to ur friends. U can only reach that stage if u start making an effort to be more social. Start talking to chicks when u get the chance. Get on insta if ur in highschool or dating apps or whatever if u want to talk to chicks without being face to face.
So I just have to think less talk more?
 
Haha yeah bro I thought u were saying like just go up to a chick at the grocery store and ask her if she wants to fuck and I was like damn this guy is delusional
I actually saw a video of a pretty good looking guy who did this exact experiment

 
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yea but im talking about when u get to know her for a bit, of course if u don’t even know her she will deny u for sex automatically even if ur a chad
When would be the right time to ask
 
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I post myself pretty frequently on TikTok, it’s ivanadayr12. It’s been able to get girls to talk to me but none are close
Dude I would redact that dont cross over personal life with this forum. U look MTN and nice body.
 
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Also I re read this, if ur homeschooled I would reccomend u make a snapchat account and quick add girls and just send them full face snaps. Also do u have any friends at all? If so, get an instagram profile going and follow there friends and so on and then dm the girls u find pretty, first dm them some rnadom shit but if u start a convo then ask them out. Make sure u have full photos of u on ur account
Alright, thank you
 
I actually saw a video of a pretty good looking guy who did this exact experiment


Dude mirin his inhib but thats crazy they all said no. Hes decent looking but also not to tall. Idk it makes sense regardless of his looks
 
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After around 3 dates or so
When would be the right time to ask
Facts, I would say though, dont ask if they wanna fuck cus some girls might think thats douche. (Theyll sitll prolly say yes though) Instead - u can just physically escalate, start kissing them more and rubbing against then and then slip ur hands down
 
Dude mirin his inhib but thats crazy they all said no. Hes decent looking but also not to tall. Idk it makes sense regardless of his looks
There was a video of the exact opposite, a girl asking 100 guys out for sex

And most of them said yes :lul:
 
There was a video of the exact opposite, a girl asking 100 guys out for sex

And most of them said yes :lul:
Just typical :feelswhy:. I mean hey I would to but lmao. Girls have to many options
 
I’m not totally lost due to being nd, I can still pull off hanging around normal people but I am not sure how to talk to women enough to the point where they’re willing to have sex with me. I’m struggling and need advice, also where to find women my age since I’m homeschooled and js moved so ik no one. I’m not that unattractive and I’m sure I’m more attractive than the average guy where I’m at but the important part that I’m missing is how to flirt and who to flirt with.
Flirt with who you like that is receptive towards you with their body language. Flirting is different for everyone. One way of flirting will show different results for two similar looking guys.

If a girl likes you she'll make it very easy for you to flirt with her. And she'll show you that that's what she wants by the way she looks at you and situates herself while she's in the same place as you.

Also, when you do get a good back and forth going with her and it looks like you might be leading her to some promising place bust out some interesting photos of yourself. It builds a lot of inteigue which is always good.

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What are good ideas for dates that would get them interested enough for them to want to fuck
Dude anything can be a date at our age, just go to chipotle and then walk around ro some shit and then when u get somewhere quite u can kiss
 
Flirt with who you like that is receptive towards you with their body language. Flirting is different for everyone. One way of flirting will show different results for two similar looking guys.

If a girl likes you she'll make it very easy for you to flirt with her. And she'll show you that that's what she wants by the way she looks at you and situates herself while she's in the same place as you.

Also, when you do get a good back and forth going with he and it looks like you might be leading her to some promising place bust out some interesting photos of yourself. It builds a lot of inteigue which is always good.

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These are the photos I like to show, for example.
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