Can't decide on what to do

[darkness97]

i have always been considered a very "pretty" looking person but i feel like i am starting to lose it and need to grow facial hair. i have to keep shaving to maintain a clean face and it's starting to get tiresome. I am also trying to gain weight and stop being skinny.

i am 26 now and still like going to bars. there are two bars in my area.

Younger club:
Pros:
girls are younger and arguably prettier
immature
Speak English primarily
more people at this club making it less awkward if alone
more easy-going girls who are willing to dance and make out with me.
most ioi's here

Cons:
need to shave all the time
smelly club
long line-up
stay skinny
arguably too old for this club
shitty music
if not careful could end up with an underage girl

Older club:
Pros:
Girls are older and more mature
more into black guys
better music


Cons:
arguably too young for this club.
need to grow a beard and gain weight to be competitive
need to approach more
need to learn french more

what should i do? keep shaving and go to the younger club? or stop shaving and go to the older club?

 

[Deleted member 31155]

dw you will age like milk when you reach 30

 

[darkness97]

i'm thinking about just growing the beard and easing into the older club.

 

[Deleted member 40986]

get big muscles