Can’t get commitment/consistency from girls. Is it my looks?

[RealNinja]

This is me. Height is 6’1, bidelt between 20 and 21 inches. Since starting this semester I’ve been on dates with 2 girls. One of them just randomly ghosted me after we hung out together and had really good conversations. The other one had a bitchy attitude and overreacted to dumb shit I said and never wanted to talk to me again. I had my first kiss at a school football game and got the girls social media… she acted flaky as fuck, noncommittal, long reply times, etcetera.

I’m confused as to why I don’t get commitment or enthusiasm even from these LTB girls. I am non NT (Asperger’s) but still know social etiquette and how to act normal. I have friends including female friends. My male and female friends, family members, people online, etcetera say I look good. Why the fuck can’t I get a girl to see me consistently or date me? Am I just more non NT than I perceive myself to be, or are people lying about my level of attractiveness?

 

[raleqtambrobret]

I am non NT (Asperger’s)

 

[RealNinja]

@raleqtambrobret i am “non NT” but not to a severe degree, or at least I don’t think so… I know social ettiquette, I have normal body language and mannerisms, I’m engaged when speaking to people, I don’t ramble about special interests etcetera… my main non NT traits are that I have some weird opinions on various things and sometimes I can be blunt/literal. Must you be COMPLETELY nt to have a chance at a gf?

 

[raleqtambrobret]

@raleqtambrobret i am “non NT” but not to a severe degree, or at least I don’t think so… I know social ettiquette, I have normal body language and mannerisms, I’m engaged when speaking to people, I don’t ramble about special interests etcetera… my main non NT traits are that I have some weird opinions on various things and sometimes I can be blunt/literal. Must you be COMPLETELY nt to have a chance at a gf?

if you're actually diagnosed with aspergers then that's your answer