Casual sex is cope

[user1728482728]

Casual Sex is cope. Think about it, it’s actually not very hard to get casual sex at a bar or on tinder. Even if you’re not that good looking. Girls will fuck you for lots of other reasons, maybe they are super horny and you are the best option around at the time. Or maybe they just want to make their ex jealous. Maybe they like to get guys to fall in love and then ghost then (girls legit do this for fun). Maybe they are just a damaged slut.

Unless the girl you hook up with says to your face that says she finds you extremely attractive, then the sex is a cope to validate yourself, and you may as well stay home and jerk off.

I want to LOOKSMAX, not hedonism max. I don’t want sex, I want to be admired and treated like a god for my looks. Being approached at a bar, and having a girl gush uncontrollably about how attractive you are, and blush when you look at her is way better than casual passionless sex. If you just care about the physical aspect of sex just do heroin. It’s cheaper and feels way better.

Like this:

I’d take over sex 100 times out of 100

 

[BigBoy]

Shit thread dnrd

 

[Deleted member 9355]

I was out with a gl homie a week ago, he just went over to a girl she knew that was sitting in a restaurant close to us and talked a bit.
I watched from afar as I waited with the other homies but he got tons of IOIs.
Even if he gets nothing from her I bet it feels very existence-validating (oh good thing I live cause I felt that kind of thing)

 

[user1728482728]

I was out with a gl homie a week ago, he just went over to a girl she knew that was sitting in a restaurant close to us and talked a bit.
I watched from afar as I waited with the other homies but he got tons of IOIs.
Even if he gets nothing from her I bet it feels very existence-validating (oh good thing I live cause I felt that kind of thing)

Yeah tbh. Mires > sex

 

[EckhartTollemaxx]

Sex is the end-goal and reoroduction is the real purpose of sex.

Validation is great too but it isn't the main thing.
And to get that type of validation as in op's gif you have to be giga gl top 0.1%.

The top 5% just fuck all they want like it's supposed to be.

 

[Deleted member 10104]

cope all that matters is getting women pregnant

 

[Bewusst]

Imagine caring about getting validation for sth mostly predetermined such as your looks. Keep basing your self-worth on other people‘s opinion about you. To others you might be what you look like but why adopt this principle yourself? That‘s weak character