Chadlite stole my slay

[Bart]

Been in US for almost a month and I met some of my cousins friends. One guy invited me for his birthday party. When I arrived we started smashing vodka shots (Polish party after all).
After like an hour or so my cousin arrived with her friends. I met them for the first time the day before but only for a hiking trip so couldn't slay there.
I started dropping my drunk game on one of the blondes that I built the strongest connection with the day before. I also knew that her boyfriend cheated on her recently so it would've been easier for me to slay.
It was going good until I literally just left to the toilet and when I came back some two guys were already talking to her.
At that point I already knew that it was over so I just went to grab a few shots with the birthday boy. After a while I noticed that the girl left somewhere with one of those guys. They've been gone for almost an hour and when they came back the guy started telling us that he just cheated on his girlfriend.
Brutal

 

[Chadeep]

Are you Chad?

 

[Bart]

Are you Chad?

I've been rated HTN multiple times here. I mean that guy mogged me for sure

 

[TechnoBoss]

That's when you intrude on the conversation directed towards the men. Ask the men in a joking/more aggressive manner what was being said while you were gone. Yes they can be chadlite but if you show any signs of weakness like just creeping back to your seat and being meek, it's over. Atleast you can say you tried to assert yourself. Sometimes you will just lose buddy. First mistake was going to the bathroom leaving men unattended with your slay. If its two random guys, genuinely just but in and say "lets try a different place" to the girl. Put yourself as a physical block between the dudes and her. Of course if these two dudes want to fight you aren't going to take them on so just keep your attention on her and escort her outside for a smoke/vape etc to put distance. Don't be confrontational with the men but be direct with the girl. You'll understand everything based on everyones reactions to what you're saying.

 

[Bart]

That's when you intrude on the conversation directed towards the men. Ask the men in a joking/more aggressive manner what was being said while you were gone. Yes they can be chadlite but if you show any signs of weakness like just creeping back to your seat and being meek, it's over. Atleast you can say you tried to assert yourself. Sometimes you will just lose buddy. First mistake was going to the bathroom leaving men unattended with your slay. If its two random guys, genuinely just but in and say "lets try a different place" to the girl. Put yourself as a physical block between the dudes and her. Of course if these two dudes want to fight you aren't going to take them on so just keep your attention on her and escort her outside for a smoke/vape etc to put distance. Don't be confrontational with the men but be direct with the girl. You'll understand everything based on everyones reactions to what you're saying.

Thanks for advice, I'll definitely keep that in mind in the future. However, this time I think it was completely looks issue. If I mogged that guy the girl would probably simply return to talking to me when I returned from the bathroom

 

[Deleted member 67738]

It’s over

 

[Deleted member 74849]

Been in US for almost a month and I met some of my cousins friends. One guy invited me for his birthday party. When I arrived we started smashing vodka shots (Polish party after all).
After like an hour or so my cousin arrived with her friends. I met them for the first time the day before but only for a hiking trip so couldn't slay there.
I started dropping my drunk game on one of the blondes that I built the strongest connection with the day before. I also knew that her boyfriend cheated on her recently so it would've been easier for me to slay.
It was going good until I literally just left to the toilet and when I came back some two guys were already talking to her.
At that point I already knew that it was over so I just went to grab a few shots with the birthday boy. After a while I noticed that the girl left somewhere with one of those guys. They've been gone for almost an hour and when they came back the guy started telling us that he just cheated on his girlfriend.
Brutal

There is little you can do in those cases, at least it didn't happen to you on the spot

 

[castizo_ascender]

That's when you intrude on the conversation directed towards the men. Ask the men in a joking/more aggressive manner what was being said while you were gone. Yes they can be chadlite but if you show any signs of weakness like just creeping back to your seat and being meek, it's over. Atleast you can say you tried to assert yourself. Sometimes you will just lose buddy. First mistake was going to the bathroom leaving men unattended with your slay. If its two random guys, genuinely just but in and say "lets try a different place" to the girl. Put yourself as a physical block between the dudes and her. Of course if these two dudes want to fight you aren't going to take them on so just keep your attention on her and escort her outside for a smoke/vape etc to put distance. Don't be confrontational with the men but be direct with the girl. You'll understand everything based on everyones reactions to what you're saying.

Read every molecule

 

[tyronechadmax]

If its two random guys, genuinely just but in and say "lets try a different place" to the girl.

Nobody is saying this shit lol. Way too confrontational and what if she says no? It’s over.