Changed my life today, not anxious and stressed anymore, and I think ill STILL get results anyways

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(making this instead of doing hw but im not stressed/worried! (Youll see why))

Background (skip if dnrd)

for the past few years i dont think i have ever been “present” like even a single moment

Bc i found blackpill and redpill and the “arms race” and tate and goggins I was always gogogo and achieve and achieve.

Idk i got a lot done and ascended but tbh i was straight restless. Planning everything I thought I could cut off emotions and humanity and straight up become a machine (hence my pfp and signature). Like yall probably know what im talking about yin yang darkside yada yada.

But lately Idk i wanted out bc i couldnt do it anymore. I cant sleep at night bc i take everything personally and everythings a power move and always thinking of the next move bc “WeLL lifE is ChESs hehe :forcedsmile:

I got into meditation and being present and the sabbath and it helped but td i think it peaked and I feel a huge weight just lifted off my shoulders.
Whats better is that I feel i will still achieve and get results while enjoying.



For dnrders and low iqcels

Basically: stop planning. I used to believe “if you fail to plan you plan to fail”

I would plan and time block by the second and change it if it didnt work. Goal->plan your way there to the detail.

Doesnt work.

Plan as you go, to hell with the future.

You should have an idea of the results you want and where you want to go, but dont plan, or at least make the plan very vague and not too detailed and dont stress about it too much.

You should only focus on the present and the past, never the future. At most the very next step.

If you arent low iq, you should pretty much know logically whats next to do to have a good day by the end and get what you want in the future.

No ones knows the future, but everyone knows what happened and what they can do now.

The future will plan itself if you just do what you can rn.

Proverbs 16:9
In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.

Yet AGAIN i shoulda just listened to the bible

Brahs even if you arent Christian this book literally leads to utopia (given everyone follows it)

Love yall mwah ✝️

 
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I've been meditating for 3 years, practically cured my crippling anxiety
 
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Honestly this hits way too close to home, I'm a chronic overplanner, I'm always running into paralysis analysis and "productive procrastination". Just like you, I have this constant need to plan every second of my day. It's probably just a deep fear of failure due to childhood stuff, I figured my mind is so afraid of failing that it wrongfully believes that if I just make the "perfect plan", that I'll be safe from it.

Of course, the perfect plan for anything doesn't exist, failure is ineviable and a very important part of growth. The moment I started to understand this was when I was finally able to make progress in life, just like you said, we have to learn to grapple with uncertainty and to some degree planning as we go, otherwise we spend much more time planning what we're going to do, rather than actually doing.
 
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There for sure needs to be more mental game here. I understand what you mean when you see everything from a bird's eye point of view and it leads to not being your true self in situations cause ur worried about things you shouldnt be. The most charismatic and succesful people either dont do this or they bypassed it, or atleast tp the extent where it doesnt hinder them. I guess meditiation was your remedy.

Like you mentioned God literally said you have a lot for the day, and that is your toil. You should focus on that. Its easier said than done of course. I fail at this at times. You are on to mental change though. Thats the ticket
 
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