changes i've noticed since going from high-mid trust to low-ish trust

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so, in my shitty looksmax carreer i've done some looksmaxxes which i think ultimately resulted in me going from high-mid trust to low-ish trust, here are some changes in the way that people treat me that ive noticed so far:
-i get approached less both by guys and girls (weirdly enough, women older than me seem to be friendlier, the contrary goes for men older than me)
-girls act more "defensive" and imply that im a player/fuck boy
-im never the target of jokes in my male friend groups (you know when the whole group laughs about one dude in the group for X or Y motive?)
-i used to never get complimented by guys, now its 50/50
-might sounds counter intuitive but i have a easier time making new guy friends
-girls do act more submissive (but im more into being dominated so its not a plus for me)
-i get more stares from girls (and if you're wondering, no im not talkin about "oh she looked at me for 0.2 seconds, thats def IOI" type of stare)
-i dont get as much leeway from teachers/school staff as i used to when behaving reckless
-I GET TOLD EVERYSINGLE FUCKING TIME BY NEW PEOPLE I MEET THAT THEY EXPECTED ME TO BE AN ARROGANT ASSHOLE (im not)
-girls that get interested in me are more on the slutty side now :forcedsmile: (more NT and less weird tho, but still not a plus)​
-i have less perceived agreeableness and intelligence :hnghn:
-i dont get approached or stared at by gay men :lul:
-people are overall nicer to me (i attribute this 50/50 to looking better and to looking lower trust)
-i get asked often if im angry, upset or thinking about something when my face is neutral
-i dont get included in things that require physical contact (for example: play fighting)
-people think that im better at fighting than i actually am (this one is a plus cuz i kinda suck at that tbh)
-im taken more seriously overall
-my jokes are objectively less funny but they make more people laugh
So overall, i feel like the trade off wasnt worth it in my case, especially since my personality doesnt match my looks, i feel like im expected to act/be a certain way when im just not like that. im just a jolly little goy that likes to play videogames and sometimes act lowkey homosexual.
if you're wondering what changes i did to appear lower trust: im too lazy to write atm
 
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im not gonna read all this dude
 
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Thanks for sharing your experience with this. Overall, would you say it's better to be high trust or low trust?
 
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Thanks for sharing your experience with this. Overall, would you say it's better to be high trust or low trust?
depends, if you want shit to be easier with girls and you're looking more for a LTR (especially jbs) high trust for sure, also high trust tends to have a much easier time making friends (talking from experience, most dudes i saw that have lots of friends are high trust), and you can lowkey get away with shit easier if you know your way around lying if you look high trust.
if you want to be taken more seriously, are looking for ONS and just want to feel more like a "man" then low trust.
 
so, in my shitty looksmax carreer i've done some looksmaxxes which i think ultimately resulted in me going from high-mid trust to low-ish trust, here are some changes in the way that people treat me that ive noticed so far:
-i get approached less both by guys and girls (weirdly enough, women older than me seem to be friendlier, the contrary goes for men older than me)
-girls act more "defensive" and imply that im a player/fuck boy
-im never the target of jokes in my male friend groups (you know when the whole group laughs about one dude in the group for X or Y motive?)
-i used to never get complimented by guys, now its 50/50
-might sounds counter intuitive but i have a easier time making new guy friends
-girls do act more submissive (but im more into being dominated so its not a plus for me)
-i get more stares from girls (and if you're wondering, no im not talkin about "oh she looked at me for 0.2 seconds, thats def IOI" type of stare)
-i dont get as much leeway from teachers/school staff as i used to when behaving reckless
-I GET TOLD EVERYSINGLE FUCKING TIME BY NEW PEOPLE I MEET THAT THEY EXPECTED ME TO BE AN ARROGANT ASSHOLE (im not)
-girls that get interested in me are more on the slutty side now :forcedsmile: (more NT and less weird tho, but still not a plus)​
-i have less perceived agreeableness and intelligence :hnghn:
-i dont get approached or stared at by gay men :lul:
-people are overall nicer to me (i attribute this 50/50 to looking better and to looking lower trust)
-i get asked often if im angry, upset or thinking about something when my face is neutral
-i dont get included in things that require physical contact (for example: play fighting)
-people think that im better at fighting than i actually am (this one is a plus cuz i kinda suck at that tbh)
-im taken more seriously overall
-my jokes are objectively less funny but they make more people laugh
So overall, i feel like the trade off wasnt worth it in my case, especially since my personality doesnt match my looks, i feel like im expected to act/be a certain way when im just not like that. im just a jolly little goy that likes to play videogames and sometimes act lowkey homosexual.
if you're wondering what changes i did to appear lower trust: im too lazy to write atm
pics?
 
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-girls do act more submissive (but im more into being dominated so its not a plus for me)

Canadian Lol GIF
 
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what did you do to shift so dramatically, muscle, tats, etc?
 
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what did you do to shift so dramatically, muscle, tats, etc?
no pics cuz im a pussy and dont wanna be bullied. but the changes i did are:
minox and dyeing eyebrows, imo the biggest one, my eyebrows were always positively tilted, minox and dyeing them just accentuated it kind a lot tbh.
i got taller (no control over this)
thicker neck and more prominent addams apple
deeper voice (no control over this either)
lowered bodyfat (like from 18 to 15-14)
i did develop some muscle mass, but its not a lot, not enough to be perceived as an intimidating factor.
shorter hair (goes hand in hand with eyebrows, my fringe doesnt cover them anymore thus its visible that i have positively tilted eyebrows)
more hooding which makes my eyes more hunter like (especially when in the squinting, like when its sunny or i have to see objects from far away)
also from what ive been told im not the Ogre that will fuck you up kind of low trust, im more the dont approach me or i will insult you type low trust twink🥀
 
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what exactly changed in your physical appearance
 

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