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This guide is not about looks, of course you need to look good before this is applicable and useful

1. Opened posture
Self explanatory

2. Confidence comes from experience
You have to expose yourself and talk to people before you get confident
Confidence doesn't come from within and preparation, but from knowing that you can handle a situation, and this only comes truly after you handled situations

3. Confidence /= display of confidence
Even if you're not confident, fake it till you make it

4. Mimmic what confident people do
Dont copy the chads tho, people around you looks level that are popular

5. Practical points
Talk slowly
be articulate
speak loud (not too loud tho)
smile
use your hands
pay attention to everyone in the group
if appropriate, use touch

6. Forget everything that you read
It need to come naturally, if you think about being articulate for example it'll be akward
so at first it will be but eventually it needs to come without thinking, and you should only be focused on the others, not on what you're going to say or how

It takes some time & practive but rememeber that the more you talk the faster you'll improve

Then there are specific points that you don't need to focus on already but
calling people by their name when you greet them (makes them feel good)
asking for small favors from time to time (psychological effect that makes them like you more)
erase negative words from you vocabulary, unless to exagerate or for sarcasm/irony
Avoid negative sarcsam (like saying the food was excellent even tho it was blatantly bad)
in general don't talk bad about anyone unless its 1 on 1 with this person & there is high level of trust

Opinions ?
 
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This guide is not about looks, of course you need to look good before this is applicable and useful

1. Opened posture
Self explanatory

2. Confidence comes from experience
You have to expose yourself and talk to people before you get confident
Confidence doesn't come from within and preparation, but from knowing that you can handle a situation, and this only comes truly after you handled situations

3. Confidence /= display of confidence
Even if you're not confident, fake it till you make it

4. Mimmic what confident people do
Dont copy the chads tho, people around you looks level that are popular

5. Practical points
Talk slowly
be articulate
speak loud (not too loud tho)
smile
use your hands
pay attention to everyone in the group
if appropriate, use touch

6. Forget everything that you read
It need to come naturally, if you think about being articulate for example it'll be akward
so at first it will be but eventually it needs to come without thinking, and you should only be focused on the others, not on what you're going to say or how

It takes some time & practive but rememeber that the more you talk the faster you'll improve

Then there are specific points that you don't need to focus on already but
calling people by their name when you greet them (makes them feel good)
asking for small favors from time to time (psychological effect that makes them like you more)
erase negative words from you vocabulary, unless to exagerate or for sarcasm/irony
Avoid negative sarcsam (like saying the food was excellent even tho it was blatantly bad)
in general don't talk bad about anyone unless its 1 on 1 with this person & there is high level of trust

Opinions ?
just take pregab and alc broooooooo
 
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In summary: become niggerz.
 
This guide is not about looks, of course you need to look good before this is applicable and useful

1. Opened posture
Self explanatory

2. Confidence comes from experience
You have to expose yourself and talk to people before you get confident
Confidence doesn't come from within and preparation, but from knowing that you can handle a situation, and this only comes truly after you handled situations

3. Confidence /= display of confidence
Even if you're not confident, fake it till you make it

4. Mimmic what confident people do
Dont copy the chads tho, people around you looks level that are popular

5. Practical points
Talk slowly
be articulate
speak loud (not too loud tho)
smile
use your hands
pay attention to everyone in the group
if appropriate, use touch

6. Forget everything that you read
It need to come naturally, if you think about being articulate for example it'll be akward
so at first it will be but eventually it needs to come without thinking, and you should only be focused on the others, not on what you're going to say or how

It takes some time & practive but rememeber that the more you talk the faster you'll improve

Then there are specific points that you don't need to focus on already but
calling people by their name when you greet them (makes them feel good)
asking for small favors from time to time (psychological effect that makes them like you more)
erase negative words from you vocabulary, unless to exagerate or for sarcasm/irony
Avoid negative sarcsam (like saying the food was excellent even tho it was blatantly bad)
in general don't talk bad about anyone unless its 1 on 1 with this person & there is high level of trust

Opinions ?
preciate the guide bro probably one of the most useful ones i’ve seen 🙏
 
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Cope :feelshehe:
 
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Pure autism. You can't learn charisma. You either have it or you don't.
 
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Pure autism. You can't learn charisma. You either have it or you don't.
and if you don't you gotta fake it
muh I can't improve social skills cuz Im a lazy retard
 
and if you don't you gotta fake it
muh I can't improve social skills cuz Im a lazy retard
Most have good social skills. Few have charisma
 
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