Chat GPT teaches me how to text girls

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The Optimal System for Texting Hinge Girls​

Since texting on Hinge is mentally exhausting for you, the goal is to minimize effort while maximizing results. You want a structured system that prevents overthinking, keeps the conversation engaging, and leads to dates efficiently.

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The Core Strategy: "Minimal Effort, Maximum Attraction"​

1. Frontload Effort (Optimize Openers)
   • Use a strong first message so she invests in the conversation.
   • The goal is to spark emotion (curiosity, humor, or flirtation).
   • Avoid boring openers like “Hey, how’s your day?” (low effort = low response rate).
   • Use a mix of personalized openers & pre-written high-percentage openers.
2. Follow a 3-Step Texting Flow
   • Step 1: Hook – Get her engaged with a fun, flirty, or intriguing first message.
   • Step 2: Build Connection – Exchange 3-5 back-and-forths with some banter.
   • Step 3: Move to Date Setup – Once there's momentum, shift toward logistics.
3. Limit Overtexting
   • If she takes 12+ hours to reply, match her energy—don’t double-text immediately.
   • Don’t send essays—match her message length.
   • Texting is a tool to meet in real life, not an entertainment app.

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1. Best Openers to Use (Pick One)​

A. Personalized Openers (Best Response Rate)​

• Use her profile prompts, pictures, or bio.
• Example:
  • If she has a pic at a concert:
    "On a scale from 1 to “I lost my voice and spent $100 on merch,” how good was that concert?"
  • If she says she likes hiking:
    "Ok, real question—do you actually hike, or is this just a ‘cute outdoorsy girl’ flex?"

B. High-Percentage Openers (For Speed)​

• If you don’t have a good personalized opener, use:
  1. "What’s your controversial but harmless opinion?"
  2. "What’s something random you’re way too passionate about?"
  3. "What’s your go-to drunk karaoke song?"
  4. "I feel like you have strong opinions on pineapple on pizza. Defend your stance."

Tip: If you use pre-written openers, rotate them to avoid getting repetitive.

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2. How to Keep the Conversation Engaging (Without Overthinking)​

• Use "Statement-Question" Format
  • Example:
    Bad: "What do you do for work?"
    Good: "You strike me as the type to have an absurdly niche job. Let me guess—dog psychologist? Or am I way off?"
• Use Playful Challenges
  • "Ok, but can you actually cook, or are we talking ‘Trader Joe’s frozen meals’ level?"
  • "Be honest—how many unread emails are in your inbox? I won’t judge (much)."
• Match Energy
  • If she sends short, dry responses → don't overinvest (she's likely not interested).
  • If she’s engaging → escalate toward setting up a date.

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3. How to Move to Date Setup​

• Transition within 10-15 messages
  • Signs she’s interested:
    • She asks you questions.
    • She uses emojis, exclamation marks, or playful teasing.
    • She replies quickly and consistently.

How to Ask Her Out (Casual & Smooth)​

• Option 1: Direct Invite
  • "You seem fun, let’s grab coffee this week and see if you live up to the hype."
• Option 2: Playful Invite
  • "Ok, we’re getting drinks, but only if you promise not to embarrass yourself at karaoke."
• Option 3: Logistics-First Approach
  • "We should grab drinks. Are you more of a weekday or weekend person?"

Pro Tip: If she hesitates, keep it low-pressure:
"No worries if you're busy, but I think we’d have fun. Let me know what works!"

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4. How to Handle Ghosting or Slow Replies​

• If she doesn’t reply within 48 hours, send a "Soft Ping":
  • "Damn, I was expecting a way better roast from you. Disappointed ."
  • "I’ll assume you got lost in an Instagram rabbit hole. Respectable."
  • "Ok, I get it, you were intimidated by my elite texting skills. It happens."
• If she still doesn’t reply, move on. (She’s not that interested.)

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🛠 The Efficiency System​

1. Batch Your Effort​

• Pick a set time (20-30 min) each day to text/match.
• Don’t text all day—set a limit to avoid mental exhaustion.
• Reply in one go instead of scattered throughout the day.

2. Have a Template for Common Scenarios​

• "What do you do?" → "I make killer spreadsheets and drink too much coffee. You?"
• "Where are you from?" → "Born and raised here, but I refuse to say ‘PNW is life’ in my bio."

3. Rotate Between 2-3 Date Ideas​

• Have go-to date plansto avoid decision fatigue.
  • Ex: Coffee shop, casual bar, arcade, or a scenic walk.

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Summary (TL;DR)​

Use a high-quality opener (personalized if possible).
Keep the convo engaging using playful questions & teasing.
Move toward setting up a date within 10-15 messages.
Limit texting—batch effort and keep interactions efficient.
Don’t overthink ghosting—send one follow-up, then move on.

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Final Thought​

This system removes decision fatigue and makes texting feel effortless.
If a girl is interested, she'll respond no matter what.
If she’s dry or hesitant, don’t chase—just move on.
Your goal isn’t endless texting—it’s setting up dates efficiently.


Try this system for one week and see how much smoother Hinge feels.

 

[2025cel]

Woah, this seems pretty good.
Props to whoever this "chat gpt" lad is.

 

[ImBelowAverage]

The Optimal System for Texting Hinge Girls​

Since texting on Hinge is mentally exhausting for you, the goal is to minimize effort while maximizing results. You want a structured system that prevents overthinking, keeps the conversation engaging, and leads to dates efficiently.

---

The Core Strategy: "Minimal Effort, Maximum Attraction"​

1. Frontload Effort (Optimize Openers)
   • Use a strong first message so she invests in the conversation.
   • The goal is to spark emotion (curiosity, humor, or flirtation).
   • Avoid boring openers like “Hey, how’s your day?” (low effort = low response rate).
   • Use a mix of personalized openers & pre-written high-percentage openers.
2. Follow a 3-Step Texting Flow
   • Step 1: Hook – Get her engaged with a fun, flirty, or intriguing first message.
   • Step 2: Build Connection – Exchange 3-5 back-and-forths with some banter.
   • Step 3: Move to Date Setup – Once there's momentum, shift toward logistics.
3. Limit Overtexting
   • If she takes 12+ hours to reply, match her energy—don’t double-text immediately.
   • Don’t send essays—match her message length.
   • Texting is a tool to meet in real life, not an entertainment app.

---

1. Best Openers to Use (Pick One)​

A. Personalized Openers (Best Response Rate)​

• Use her profile prompts, pictures, or bio.
• Example:
  • If she has a pic at a concert:
    "On a scale from 1 to “I lost my voice and spent $100 on merch,” how good was that concert?"
  • If she says she likes hiking:
    "Ok, real question—do you actually hike, or is this just a ‘cute outdoorsy girl’ flex?"

B. High-Percentage Openers (For Speed)​

• If you don’t have a good personalized opener, use:
  1. "What’s your controversial but harmless opinion?"
  2. "What’s something random you’re way too passionate about?"
  3. "What’s your go-to drunk karaoke song?"
  4. "I feel like you have strong opinions on pineapple on pizza. Defend your stance."

Tip: If you use pre-written openers, rotate them to avoid getting repetitive.

---

2. How to Keep the Conversation Engaging (Without Overthinking)​

• Use "Statement-Question" Format
  • Example:
    Bad: "What do you do for work?"
    Good: "You strike me as the type to have an absurdly niche job. Let me guess—dog psychologist? Or am I way off?"
• Use Playful Challenges
  • "Ok, but can you actually cook, or are we talking ‘Trader Joe’s frozen meals’ level?"
  • "Be honest—how many unread emails are in your inbox? I won’t judge (much)."
• Match Energy
  • If she sends short, dry responses → don't overinvest (she's likely not interested).
  • If she’s engaging → escalate toward setting up a date.

---

3. How to Move to Date Setup​

• Transition within 10-15 messages
  • Signs she’s interested:
    • She asks you questions.
    • She uses emojis, exclamation marks, or playful teasing.
    • She replies quickly and consistently.

How to Ask Her Out (Casual & Smooth)​

• Option 1: Direct Invite
  • "You seem fun, let’s grab coffee this week and see if you live up to the hype."
• Option 2: Playful Invite
  • "Ok, we’re getting drinks, but only if you promise not to embarrass yourself at karaoke."
• Option 3: Logistics-First Approach
  • "We should grab drinks. Are you more of a weekday or weekend person?"

Pro Tip: If she hesitates, keep it low-pressure:
"No worries if you're busy, but I think we’d have fun. Let me know what works!"

---

4. How to Handle Ghosting or Slow Replies​

• If she doesn’t reply within 48 hours, send a "Soft Ping":
  • "Damn, I was expecting a way better roast from you. Disappointed ."
  • "I’ll assume you got lost in an Instagram rabbit hole. Respectable."
  • "Ok, I get it, you were intimidated by my elite texting skills. It happens."
• If she still doesn’t reply, move on. (She’s not that interested.)

---

🛠 The Efficiency System​

1. Batch Your Effort​

• Pick a set time (20-30 min) each day to text/match.
• Don’t text all day—set a limit to avoid mental exhaustion.
• Reply in one go instead of scattered throughout the day.

2. Have a Template for Common Scenarios​

• "What do you do?" → "I make killer spreadsheets and drink too much coffee. You?"
• "Where are you from?" → "Born and raised here, but I refuse to say ‘PNW is life’ in my bio."

3. Rotate Between 2-3 Date Ideas​

• Have go-to date plansto avoid decision fatigue.
  • Ex: Coffee shop, casual bar, arcade, or a scenic walk.

---

Summary (TL;DR)​

Use a high-quality opener (personalized if possible).
Keep the convo engaging using playful questions & teasing.
Move toward setting up a date within 10-15 messages.
Limit texting—batch effort and keep interactions efficient.
Don’t overthink ghosting—send one follow-up, then move on.

---

Final Thought​

This system removes decision fatigue and makes texting feel effortless.
If a girl is interested, she'll respond no matter what.
If she’s dry or hesitant, don’t chase—just move on.
Your goal isn’t endless texting—it’s setting up dates efficiently.


Try this system for one week and see how much smoother Hinge feels.

The Core Strategy: "Minimal Effort, Maximum Attraction"
Chat gpt actually gives you good advice, if you are sub-chad any efforts are pointless so just don't try ​

 

[Gonthar]

Lol, it's just rehashed outdated advice from PUA sites and books...The one about asking girls what they think about pineapple pizza is at least 20 years old, I think Mystery would go around in nightclubs and ask groups of girls stupid cringy shit like that...

 

[pprimus43]

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