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In life there are two types of people : Tyler and Chad.
Tyler (Don't be like him):
Quiet kid, always in the hoodie, head down, overthinking every goddamn step. He stands at the door for five minutes scanning the room, worried someone might notice him, judge his outfit, or think he doesn’t belong. When he finally walks in, he hugs the wall, orders the most boring-ass beer with a mumble, never once looking the server in the eye, because she’s a beautiful chick and his porn-fried brain can’t process a real human connection. He spends the whole night checking his phone so he doesn’t have to talk to anyone. He leaves early feeling like shit because he "didn’t fit in", but really he just played small the whole time and let everyone else’s imaginary opinions run the show.
Please, please read it twice. That's you right now. Don't lie to yourself.
Chad (Be like him):
Big, loud, bully energy but without the actual bullying, just zero fucks given attitude. Chad struts in like he owns the fucking building (that's what I always do by the way, that's why I put it), laughs way too loud at his own joke before anyone even hears it, slaps random dudes on the back like they’ve been best friends since kindergarten, talks to the hottest girl in the room with zero hesitation even if she’s with her friends. When people stare, he stares back with a grin. When someone rolls their eyes, he doesn’t notice or care. He acts like he’s the president of that shitty bar for the night : takes up space, makes noise, owns every second. And guess what? Obviously, girls laugh with him, guys buy him shots, the whole place orbits around his energy. He walks out with numbers, stories, and zero regrets, because he didn’t ask for permission to exist.
Read this twice too. Be aware, that’s who you would aspire to be.
You see the difference. It’s not about being an asshole, but it’s about acting like you own the damn world wherever you go. When you walk into any place, act like you’re the president and nobody else’s opinion matters. The shy kid stays invisible and loses, but the Chad who doesn’t give a fuck wins every time.
I’m not lying : in real life, we see the biggest brats (the loud, cocky assholes) pulling the most girls and having the biggest friend groups, even though people despise them. Meanwhile, the group of nerds sits alone in the corner, and no girl ever approaches them. Hollywood does the exact same thing: the bully gets the girl, the spotlight, the story, even when he’s a total asshole. This is life. This is people.
That is why...
You need to become more retarded.
Not stupid and not reckless, but intentionally retarded. The problem is, most people are way too smart for their own fucking good. The world doesn’t give a shit about intelligence. There is no straight line between being smart and being successful. The world only rewards output. It rewards results. Most people think so much that they become unproductive. You can be the smartest guy in any room. You can have the best ideas ever. But if you don’t actually do anything with them and don’t put out serious fucking volume, then you’re just a smart dude sitting in a room with nothing to fucking show for it.
So what does being retarted actually mean? It means thinking less, acting more, and not giving a fuck about social expectations of how you "should" behave. Like Chad. Most people operate off what looks reasonable, what feels normal, what feels acceptable, all to protect themselves from judgment. That’s not living... That’s not fucking living. That’s you just being an NPC, afraid to go off-pattern.
Here’s a simple brutal test for yourself :
if someone watched everything you did for a full 24 hours straight, would they ever think :
"damn, this motherfucker is missing some fucking screws… what the hell is he even doing?"
If the answer is no, then you’re probably living a boring life and you’re playing the game all wrong.
Look at Chad :
He wears the exact same black hoodie, same jeans, same sneakers every single fucking day. He eats the same boring meal (steak, eggs, rice, repeat) because it’s fast, cheap, and keeps his energy steady. He locks himself in a dark room staring at screens for 10–12 hours straight, no small talk, no distractions, just output. For his breaks he lights a fat cigar, leans back, and exhales like he just conquered something. People will see that routine and call it retarded, weird, boring as hell. Chad doesn’t care, because he knows that exact "retarded" monotony is why his bank account keeps growing, why his focus is unbreakable, and why he’s out here winning while everyone else is still picking outfits for the day and scrolling for validation.
To conclude :
Every normal, safe choice you make has a hidden cost : The cost of being liked, the cost of not being understood, the cost of staying comfortable and safe. The return on those choices is retarded-level small.
But the retarded choices, the ones that look completely stupid in the moment, those are the ones that build up into real confidence, real peace, and an identity that actually belongs to you instead of everyone else.
So stop waiting for the world to invite you in. You're a grown adult, stop knocking politely and kick the fucking door down and claim what’s already yours. Fuck hesitation. Kill it. BE SO RETARDED that hesitation literally stops registering in your nervous system. Own your retarded energy and watch how fast shit starts bending your way.
Go apply this shit right now and check my guides here :
DisciplineMaxxing : How to never feel bored again (No BS Secret Formula)
Disciplinemaxxing : how to make discipline your bitch
This guy inspired me to write this post :
Be like Chad.
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Look at two guys walking into a random crowded bar on a Friday night...
Tyler (Don't be like him):
Quiet kid, always in the hoodie, head down, overthinking every goddamn step. He stands at the door for five minutes scanning the room, worried someone might notice him, judge his outfit, or think he doesn’t belong. When he finally walks in, he hugs the wall, orders the most boring-ass beer with a mumble, never once looking the server in the eye, because she’s a beautiful chick and his porn-fried brain can’t process a real human connection. He spends the whole night checking his phone so he doesn’t have to talk to anyone. He leaves early feeling like shit because he "didn’t fit in", but really he just played small the whole time and let everyone else’s imaginary opinions run the show.
Please, please read it twice. That's you right now. Don't lie to yourself.
Chad (Be like him):
Big, loud, bully energy but without the actual bullying, just zero fucks given attitude. Chad struts in like he owns the fucking building (that's what I always do by the way, that's why I put it), laughs way too loud at his own joke before anyone even hears it, slaps random dudes on the back like they’ve been best friends since kindergarten, talks to the hottest girl in the room with zero hesitation even if she’s with her friends. When people stare, he stares back with a grin. When someone rolls their eyes, he doesn’t notice or care. He acts like he’s the president of that shitty bar for the night : takes up space, makes noise, owns every second. And guess what? Obviously, girls laugh with him, guys buy him shots, the whole place orbits around his energy. He walks out with numbers, stories, and zero regrets, because he didn’t ask for permission to exist.
Read this twice too. Be aware, that’s who you would aspire to be.
You see the difference. It’s not about being an asshole, but it’s about acting like you own the damn world wherever you go. When you walk into any place, act like you’re the president and nobody else’s opinion matters. The shy kid stays invisible and loses, but the Chad who doesn’t give a fuck wins every time.
I’m not lying : in real life, we see the biggest brats (the loud, cocky assholes) pulling the most girls and having the biggest friend groups, even though people despise them. Meanwhile, the group of nerds sits alone in the corner, and no girl ever approaches them. Hollywood does the exact same thing: the bully gets the girl, the spotlight, the story, even when he’s a total asshole. This is life. This is people.
That is why...
You need to become more retarded.
Not stupid and not reckless, but intentionally retarded. The problem is, most people are way too smart for their own fucking good. The world doesn’t give a shit about intelligence. There is no straight line between being smart and being successful. The world only rewards output. It rewards results. Most people think so much that they become unproductive. You can be the smartest guy in any room. You can have the best ideas ever. But if you don’t actually do anything with them and don’t put out serious fucking volume, then you’re just a smart dude sitting in a room with nothing to fucking show for it.
So what does being retarted actually mean? It means thinking less, acting more, and not giving a fuck about social expectations of how you "should" behave. Like Chad. Most people operate off what looks reasonable, what feels normal, what feels acceptable, all to protect themselves from judgment. That’s not living... That’s not fucking living. That’s you just being an NPC, afraid to go off-pattern.
Here’s a simple brutal test for yourself :
if someone watched everything you did for a full 24 hours straight, would they ever think :
"damn, this motherfucker is missing some fucking screws… what the hell is he even doing?"
If the answer is no, then you’re probably living a boring life and you’re playing the game all wrong.
Look at Chad :
He wears the exact same black hoodie, same jeans, same sneakers every single fucking day. He eats the same boring meal (steak, eggs, rice, repeat) because it’s fast, cheap, and keeps his energy steady. He locks himself in a dark room staring at screens for 10–12 hours straight, no small talk, no distractions, just output. For his breaks he lights a fat cigar, leans back, and exhales like he just conquered something. People will see that routine and call it retarded, weird, boring as hell. Chad doesn’t care, because he knows that exact "retarded" monotony is why his bank account keeps growing, why his focus is unbreakable, and why he’s out here winning while everyone else is still picking outfits for the day and scrolling for validation.
To conclude :
Every normal, safe choice you make has a hidden cost : The cost of being liked, the cost of not being understood, the cost of staying comfortable and safe. The return on those choices is retarded-level small.
But the retarded choices, the ones that look completely stupid in the moment, those are the ones that build up into real confidence, real peace, and an identity that actually belongs to you instead of everyone else.
So stop waiting for the world to invite you in. You're a grown adult, stop knocking politely and kick the fucking door down and claim what’s already yours. Fuck hesitation. Kill it. BE SO RETARDED that hesitation literally stops registering in your nervous system. Own your retarded energy and watch how fast shit starts bending your way.
TLDR : Just stop letting other people decide what feels right for you. Stop outsourcing your gut. Build a life that actually works for YOU, not for the crowd. Fuck all the noise. Own your weird fucking shit. Do it before it's too late. We only live once.
Go apply this shit right now and check my guides here :
DisciplineMaxxing : How to never feel bored again (No BS Secret Formula)
Disciplinemaxxing : how to make discipline your bitch
This guy inspired me to write this post :
Be like Chad.
