Chronic Loneliness as a NEET male

[crion]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

 

[ThugggButt]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

You're already at rock bottom, so caring about what other people think about how you look is completely pointless.
Try to attend a trade school and then get a job, you'll be fine you aren't old.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

reddit ahh post

 

[literalgoatted]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

The best advice u will get from anyone here

U need to push urself and get back into the school curriculum. thats ur best option

if its trade school, normal school whatever who cares

u will be leaving the house more, be in contact w new people that u can become aquainted/make friends with and also will get u an easier path to a source of income

a bonus tip which you probably dont have the inhib to do is to maximize yourself with drugs and other supplements, like if u really really struggle socializing then there are drugs for that etc

 

[craven]

 

[Youㅤ]

NEET ? just stay NEET and copemax

i also cannot do school or wageslave, i will be a homeless nomad soon

 

[literalgoatted]

NEET ? just stay NEET and copemax

i also cannot do school or wageslave, i will be a homeless nomad soon

why

why would you ever do this

 

[Youㅤ]

why

why would you ever do this

i also cannot do school or wageslave

u sped nigga ?

 

[literalgoatted]

u sped nigga ?

why cant you do school or wageslave

 

[Youㅤ]

why cant you do school or wageslave

tried a semester of college -- failed despite trying
did wageslave for 2 years -- pointless slavery, i refuse to do any more wageslave

 

[Foreverbrad]

It doesn’t get better.