Chronic Loneliness as a NEET male

[crion]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

 

[ThugggButt]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

You're already at rock bottom, so caring about what other people think about how you look is completely pointless.
Try to attend a trade school and then get a job, you'll be fine you aren't old.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

reddit ahh post

 

[literalgoatted]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

The best advice u will get from anyone here

U need to push urself and get back into the school curriculum. thats ur best option

if its trade school, normal school whatever who cares

u will be leaving the house more, be in contact w new people that u can become aquainted/make friends with and also will get u an easier path to a source of income

a bonus tip which you probably dont have the inhib to do is to maximize yourself with drugs and other supplements, like if u really really struggle socializing then there are drugs for that etc

 

[craven]

 

[Youㅤ]

NEET ? just stay NEET and copemax

i also cannot do school or wageslave, i will be a homeless nomad soon

 

[literalgoatted]

NEET ? just stay NEET and copemax

i also cannot do school or wageslave, i will be a homeless nomad soon

why

why would you ever do this

 

[Youㅤ]

why

why would you ever do this

i also cannot do school or wageslave

u sped nigga ?

 

[literalgoatted]

u sped nigga ?

why cant you do school or wageslave

 

[Youㅤ]

why cant you do school or wageslave

tried a semester of college -- failed despite trying
did wageslave for 2 years -- pointless slavery, i refuse to do any more wageslave

 

[Foreverbrad]

It doesn’t get better.

 

[solpafanima]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

yo bro dm me

 

[TitusA]

I, (18,m) cant help but feel like I'm not moving anywhere with my life, I have dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and have very limited social interactions. I was never great at academics and have let down my family in that aspect so this contributes to my bad home life. Because I am not in education and cannot / do not want to get a job, I stay at home most days. As a man, this is very mentally draining and i struggle in social spaces such as family gatherings. My days often merge together I forget personal hygiene for weeks at a time as I do not have the energy to do anything but play video games with my online friends (I am unable to make friends in person). I feel i have dug a whole that I cannot get out of. I want to get better, I just dont know where to start. The first thing that demotivated me was the fact that I am extremely chopped and there is nothing I can do about my facial structure. I do not talk to my family for days at a time, I feel if i died in my room, noone will notice until a week later. I found comfort in food to try help my loneliness making me kind of fat, I feel trapped as I do not want to go to a public space (gym) in this state. I want to make a change but i dont know how to start, how do I go about this?

ur only 18 so cn change things pretty quick. TBH anybody whos not washing everyday has serious issues. Get on test 300mg straight away and get a prescription for an ssri if u havent alrdy. SSRIs work by increasing neurogenesis in the brain and rewiring thught processes over time they are basically a PED that everybody could use at some point in their life. The bad rep they get comes from clueless gps starting ppl on doses that are too high instead of slowly titrating it up.

If u are nervous about the gym just start with doing some exercise at home first. Reality is theres nothing to be nervous about though majority of ppl in most gyms dnt look like they work out and i've seen a fat person laughed at probs once in 15 years of going to the gym.
Also start with actually just going outside walking everyday (pick a step count to get daily and do that) if u arent already tht will help improve ur mental state a bit.