CMV: It is harder for me (as a 22 y/o girl) to find a boyfriend than it is for a guy to find a girlfriend.

[Deleted member 19642]

Ok so I am 22F college senior at a California party school that has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin. Physical appearance: biracial/lightskin, slim, longish hair, clear skin (I look similar to any of the Netflix biracial girls). Personality: Extrovert w/ social anxiety (talkative once I’m comfortable with you. People (guys especially) think it’s so easy for women to date simply based off being a woman. This is not true (in my case at least). Hookup offers are easy to get as a woman but not actual relationship requests. I am waiting to lose my virginity until I get a boyfriend (hopefully if that ever happens). I got hookup offers from cute guys but turned them down cause I want to wait for a bf first. Guys stare at me all the time but never say a word. As women we are held to a certain beauty standards we have to meet but even that’s not enough. Though I’ve been told I’m conventionally attractive bye men and others, it means nothing when that just leads to guys just wanting to hookup. When I ask about relationships they quickly dismiss saying they just want to have fun. For women we decide who we hookup with but guys determine who they get in a relationship with. Guys are very visual and want us girls to look like IG models or actresses (and even if you do look like that it’s still not enough). And for girls that don’t meet their beauty standard we are basically invisible to men or made fun of. Us girls on the other hand are not as visual as men. We are geared more towards personality. Guys do not need to meet beauty standards they just have to either have a good personality or have money to date successfully (or both). Men are even said to look better with age while for women it’s the opposite. Sure I can get sex easily but not a relationship. For men it’s the opposite. Ive still never had a boyfriend or even got close (just hookup requests). I guarantee it’s easier for a guy to find a relationship than it is for me.

 

[Deleted member 19642]

 

[AscensionMan98]

She wants to meet some guy irl , and now that college is ending she is finding it hard to meet men who don't just wanna smash ( so bars/clubs are no longer viable ). At that point yes if a bitch doesn't use OLD, go to bars/clubs, will be hard to just have some dude pull up and be of enough standard to fuck.

 

[Lonely]

Ironic how she complains about beauty standards and uglier women being invisible whilst she herself probably doesn't even register ugly men. Maybe it's harder for her to find "Chad" than it is for a guy to find a girlfriend.

 

[SubSigma]

Someone needs to bully this entitled bitch.

 

[Magical Apple]

Ok so I am 22F college senior at a California party school that has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin. Physical appearance: biracial/lightskin, slim, longish hair, clear skin (I look similar to any of the Netflix biracial girls). Personality: Extrovert w/ social anxiety (talkative once I’m comfortable with you. People (guys especially) think it’s so easy for women to date simply based off being a woman. This is not true (in my case at least). Hookup offers are easy to get as a woman but not actual relationship requests. I am waiting to lose my virginity until I get a boyfriend (hopefully if that ever happens). I got hookup offers from cute guys but turned them down cause I want to wait for a bf first. Guys stare at me all the time but never say a word. As women we are held to a certain beauty standards we have to meet but even that’s not enough. Though I’ve been told I’m conventionally attractive bye men and others, it means nothing when that just leads to guys just wanting to hookup. When I ask about relationships they quickly dismiss saying they just want to have fun. For women we decide who we hookup with but guys determine who they get in a relationship with. Guys are very visual and want us girls to look like IG models or actresses (and even if you do look like that it’s still not enough). And for girls that don’t meet their beauty standard we are basically invisible to men or made fun of. Us girls on the other hand are not as visual as men. We are geared more towards personality. Guys do not need to meet beauty standards they just have to either have a good personality or have money to date successfully (or both). Men are even said to look better with age while for women it’s the opposite. Sure I can get sex easily but not a relationship. For men it’s the opposite. Ive still never had a boyfriend or even got close (just hookup requests). I guarantee it’s easier for a guy to find a relationship than it is for me.

Modern dating has let down both men and women.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Ethnic girls usually have it hard unless Stacie’s so yes she’s right

I feel bad for her and bottom 90% girls tbh

 

[Kamui]

Modern dating has let down both men and women.

Based, trying to find an actual genuine relationship with a feminine women with strong traditional values to settle down with a vice versa is next to impossible in society today

 

[190cm90kg]

tldr 'i cant find a chad to commit'

 

[Ozsaraal]

Ok so I am 22F college senior at a California party school that has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin. Physical appearance: biracial/lightskin, slim, longish hair, clear skin (I look similar to any of the Netflix biracial girls). Personality: Extrovert w/ social anxiety (talkative once I’m comfortable with you. People (guys especially) think it’s so easy for women to date simply based off being a woman. This is not true (in my case at least). Hookup offers are easy to get as a woman but not actual relationship requests. I am waiting to lose my virginity until I get a boyfriend (hopefully if that ever happens). I got hookup offers from cute guys but turned them down cause I want to wait for a bf first. Guys stare at me all the time but never say a word. As women we are held to a certain beauty standards we have to meet but even that’s not enough. Though I’ve been told I’m conventionally attractive bye men and others, it means nothing when that just leads to guys just wanting to hookup. When I ask about relationships they quickly dismiss saying they just want to have fun. For women we decide who we hookup with but guys determine who they get in a relationship with. Guys are very visual and want us girls to look like IG models or actresses (and even if you do look like that it’s still not enough). And for girls that don’t meet their beauty standard we are basically invisible to men or made fun of. Us girls on the other hand are not as visual as men. We are geared more towards personality. Guys do not need to meet beauty standards they just have to either have a good personality or have money to date successfully (or both). Men are even said to look better with age while for women it’s the opposite. Sure I can get sex easily but not a relationship. For men it’s the opposite. Ive still never had a boyfriend or even got close (just hookup requests). I guarantee it’s easier for a guy to find a relationship than it is for me.

Shes obviously only seeking relationships with men above her looksmatch which is why the only want to pump and dump her and not relationship when I read this I was like

fuuuuuckk offf another chad only

 

[Jagged0]

Shes obviously only seeking relationships with men above her looksmatch which is why the only want to pump and dump her and not relationship when I read this I was like

fuuuuuckk offf another chad only

Complete truth most users on this forum would date her

 

[Blackgymmax]

Shes prob a 4/10 looking for a good pheno 6-7, wont happen, ever

 

[Blackgymmax]

Guys apparently only fwb or ghost her. Well duh shes ugly. Try a stacyfish and see what happens lmao

 

[Deleted member 2381]

The west is truly fucked
girls in 2022 don't even leave the house or talk to people irl

 

[SeiGun]

when she say guy, she mean the good looking guy
not the bad looking sub-species

 

[Xangsane]

when she say guy, she mean the good looking guy
not the bad looking sub-species

I wonder what looks level she is.

 

[Deleted member 22126]

Proba a ltb or lower. Htb and up dont use reddit and if they do their posts get a lot of upvptes

 

[Xangsane]

Proba a ltb or lower. Htb and up dont use reddit and if they do their posts get a lot of upvptes

She didn't post her face.

 

[MRD]

The west is truly fucked
girls in 2022 don't even leave the house or talk to people irl

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[wannaimprove]

females are so fucking delusional i wish i could stomp her retarded head in

 

[Deleted member 22126]

She didn't post her face.

 

[Xangsane]

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[Deleted member 22126]

Can't see anything

Might be a larp account. Was created last month and only two posts no comments on anything else

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Ethnic girls usually have it hard unless Stacie’s so yes she’s right

I feel bad for her and bottom 90% girls tbh

Stfu retard

 

[Ken]

HOPE, she is a slim 22 year old virgin. She sounds ideal, maybe I can still find a wife. My new oneitis is 20 with low sex appeal so there is still a chance of her being a virgin.

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BRUTAL

 

[APJ]

'We are geared more towards personality' translation: halo effect + status + is he a good servant (pretends to agree with me, pretends to like all the same stuff I like ('share hobbies'), is easily-manipulable)

Oh and she doesn't mention the guys she's trying it on with, of course it's going to be guys 3 points hotter than her.

 

[Britmaxxer]

Physical appearance: biracial/lightskin

could have ended the thread here tbqh.

 

[Kamui]

HOPE, she is a slim 22 year old virgin. She sounds ideal, maybe I can still find a wife. My new oneitis is 20 with low sex appeal so there is still a chance of her being a virgin.



BRUTAL

Don’t get your hopes up nigga lmao, these bitches are 1 in a million, and even then how do you not know if she’ll start hoeing around and abandons her ideals once she’s actually in a relationship?

 

[JBcollector]

Waste of prime reproductive age

 

[Deleted member 22970]

Shut up